# Hello all **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 8, 2007, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462 "2007-09-08T21:19:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fred7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/da6949/32.png) [@fred7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fred7)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2007, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/1 "2007-09-08T21:19:25Z")
Hi. I’m new, just turned 38 and live in the UK. I, like so many others, am somewhat skeptical of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) but willing to give them a go. My personal circumstances mean that it is difficult to get out and meet new friends (I have recently separated from my partner of 10 years, and the vast majority of my spare time is taken up with our three children). Don’t misunderstand me, I love my children dearly but occasionally need a little more stimulating conversation! I am quite a shy person, when I am within a group of people socially I am the quiet one, the one that listens to everyone else’s stories. I guess what I am looking for is something to boost my self confidence, something to help me interact more effectively with others (particularly of the female of the species). Well, that’s me. I am looking forward to my first pheromone experiment! But first… the research… ---
**Author:** ![SalsaguyUK](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/958977/32.png) [@SalsaguyUK](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SalsaguyUK)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2007, 11:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/2 "2007-09-08T23:00:18Z")
Hello Fred and welcome to the forum. This is a good place to air any of your concerns or raise any questions you may have I’m in a similar boat to you myself in terms of living in the UK, age and also a noob to phero’s I will post my findings when Ive received my first order hopefully you may find them useful. In the meantime feel free to ask any questions of the more experienced users on this forum everyone is very happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [September 8, 2007, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/3 "2007-09-08T23:44:16Z")
Welcome. Remember to check out the stickies in the men’s forum. It will will make researching alot easier and pleasant. ---
**Author:** ![XDragonX](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/x/6f9a4e/32.png) [@XDragonX](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XDragonX)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2007, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/4 "2007-09-09T02:11:21Z")
Hi and welcome fred, I think A314 and instant shine will give you that respect and confidence you want and instant openness will make you the life of the party and CTTM does it to the same effect just less random talk. ---
**Author:** ![MadisonTate](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/b9e5f3/32.png) [@MadisonTate](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MadisonTate)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2007, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/5 "2007-09-09T02:48:28Z")
Fred youre a good man, taking care of your kids. _pat on the back_ I strongly (and I do mean strongly) recommend that you get started with a togo of MX102 (an A314 variant, not as good as the real thing but it will prove to you that this isnt just bad smelling water), and a togo of Instant Shine. Lets presume youre Caucasian, blood type O. Be careful with A314 variants. If your kids stress you out, you might find yourself being less tolerant of misbehavior than usual. Sometimes thats a good thing, but you have to watch yourself. An [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) 2x togo would definitely convince you of pheromones but it sounds like thats something youll need later. Both the Instant Shine and the A314 will help YOU feel better and more confident. Might even help with managing the kids. Get $15 gift certificate from Jasmin. Get the togos of IS and MX102. Ramp up on them starting with 2 sprays of IS to the under-chin and 1 MX102. Try to get yourself in front of people, even if its just making eye contact, smiling and saying hello. The togos will give you 1-2 weeks worth of applications and its pretty cheap. The shipping may cost more than the product! Once youve removed your doubt this stuff works, well work on getting you more companionship. The forum folk are very friendly and informative, so read up, post often and remember were glad youre here! ---
**Author:** ![fred7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/da6949/32.png) [@fred7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fred7)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2007, 9:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/6 "2007-09-09T21:26:49Z")
Thanks for all your replies. My first impressions of this forum are very positive. Everyone seems friendly, helpful and more than willing to impart their advice and experiences. Madison Tate, I’m blood type A+. I guess that this has a bearing on what products would be effective??? I’d also be interested to know what products to avoid!!! Once again, thanks for the warm welcome all. ---
**Author:** ![HABIB001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/habib001/32/2159_2.png) [@HABIB001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HABIB001)\ **Post date:** [September 9, 2007, 9:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/5462/7 "2007-09-09T21:38:29Z")
Hi and welcome fred … like you i was a open minded about pheros… but they seem to be working, even improves my moods when i am feeling down