# Hello All! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 21, 2014, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874 "2014-09-21T08:59:28Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2014, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/1 "2014-09-21T08:59:28Z")
Hi - Let me first admit that I’m frustrated and desperate. Reason being, I have been in the United States for over a year and don’t have a girlfriend. I’m a good looking, physically fit guy and work out regularly. Never had a problem with getting girl back home (Pakistan) and never actually had to approach, was always approached. It’s a very conservative country where I’m from and before coming to the US I was thinking to myself that getting girls there would be a piece of cake for me. Well, it turned out to be totally opposite, let alone having a girlfriend, I haven’t even been on a date yet ☹. I notice women checking me out and looking at me all the time, but as soon as I catch them looking, they just start looking away or act like that it was just an accident. I tried talking to them, no success at all besides some formal introductions and "nice meeting you"s. One thing, I’m not looking to sleep with a new girl every night, I’m just wanting to be in a proper relationship and have a love life. One lady told me that I look too intimidating and that’s what keeps girls away from me. My girlfriends back home always told me that I was sweet, smelled good even without a perfume on, two of them even said that I smell better when I am dirty (back then I didn’t know anything about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and their existence). I’m not sure if I should be sharing all this in the introductions section, but this is my story. I have been reading the posts and reviews on here for almost over a week now and am still confused. I bought Arouse RX without any intensive research and it doesn’t do anything for me. I have changed the dosages and all that, I still get the stares and reactions like “who’s that guy” but that’s all, nothing beyond that. So Arouse RX hasn’t helped me at all. I will keep buying, testing and reviewing pheromones, but in the meanwhile any advice on which pheromone to use to get rid of my intimidating image and make girls comfortable and open around me will be appreciated. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![vynelle](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/41988e/32.png) [@vynelle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vynelle)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2014, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/2 "2014-09-21T13:55:34Z")
Hello Desire, Welcome to the forum, I am also pretty new here on pheromone talk and I have only just started experimenting based on the reviews I have read on the forum. I find that going on reading on past post really helps on getting more info fast. It does sound frustrating to be in your shoes, and I hope you do find what you are looking for. Please check out : [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) I think this gives basic info on the mones here. I want to highlight this part from the link, to you: **Products for Men** - **Ammunition:** Alcohol Based - FF21 Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Attraction) - **TUTH:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For SEXUAL Attraction) - **Instant Jerk:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For SEXUAL Attraction) - **Instant Gentleman:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For ALPHA Status) - **Alpha A314:** OIL Based - AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 10 ml (For ALPHA Status) - **ALPHA [A314 Spray](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic-spray/) Version A:** AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 5 ml To Go (For ALPHA Status). This is a stronger version than the original version of A314. Since its base is alcohol in this form that also adds more punch to its strength. - **ALPHA A314 Spray Version B:** AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 5 ml To Go (For ALPHA Status). This version has less strength than the oil version of A314, but please remember since it is in an alcohol base it more closely resembles the original A314. **Unisex Products** - **Instant Openness:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Communication) - **Instant Honesty:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Deep Rapport) - **Instant Shine:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Good Time Vibe / Confidence) During my reads, I find that most men on this forum uses \*\*Ammo \*\*\*\* (For Attraction), **TUTH,** ALPHA A314 **(For SEXUAL Attraction), ISHINE** (For Good Time Vibe / Confidence), \*\*\*\*Instant Openness \*\*(For Communication), **Instant Honesty** (For Deep Rapport). Hope this helps. > [@Desire](#): > > Hi - > > Let me first admit that I’m frustrated and desperate. Reason being, I have been in the United States for over a year and don’t have a girlfriend. > > I’m a good looking, physically fit guy and work out regularly. Never had a problem with getting girl back home (Pakistan) and never actually had to approach, was always approached. > > It’s a very conservative country where I’m from and before coming to the US I was thinking to myself that getting girls there would be a piece of cake for me. Well, it turned out to be totally opposite, let alone having a girlfriend, I haven’t even been on a date yet ☹. > > I notice women checking me out and looking at me all the time, but as soon as I catch them looking, they just start looking away or act like that it was just an accident. I tried talking to them, no success at all besides some formal introductions and "nice meeting you"s. > > One thing, I’m not looking to sleep with a new girl every night, I’m just wanting to be in a proper relationship and have a love life. One lady told me that I look too intimidating and that’s what keeps girls away from me. > > My girlfriends back home always told me that I was sweet, smelled good even without a perfume on, two of them even said that I smell better when I am dirty (back then I didn’t know anything about pheromones and their existence). > > I’m not sure if I should be sharing all this in the introductions section, but this is my story. I have been reading the posts and reviews on here for almost over a week now and am still confused. I bought Arouse RX without any intensive research and it doesn’t do anything for me. I have changed the dosages and all that, I still get the stares and reactions like “who’s that guy” but that’s all, nothing beyond that. So Arouse RX hasn’t helped me at all. > > I will keep buying, testing and reviewing pheromones, but in the meanwhile any advice on which pheromone to use to get rid of my intimidating image and make girls comfortable and open around me will be appreciated. Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2014, 5:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/3 "2014-09-21T17:56:46Z")
Thanks vynelle. That was very informative. I want to know if you have tried any of these yourself as standalones or in combo. I figured that my problem is to get rid of that intimidating image I have and may be a come across as a more friendly individual. After reading the reviews from users on here, I was thinking may I should start with IS and IH in a combo. Would like to know if you have tried any of these and what was the experience like. Also, is adding A314 to IH and IO helps or makes it more intimidating? > [@vynelle](#): > > Hello Desire, > > Welcome to the forum, I am also pretty new here on pheromone talk and I have only just started experimenting based on the reviews I have read on the forum. I find that going on reading on past post really helps on getting more info fast. > > It does sound frustrating to be in your shoes, and I hope you do find what you are looking for. Please check out : [An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) > > I think this gives basic info on the mones here. I want to highlight this part from the link, to you: > > **Products for Men** > > - **Ammunition:** Alcohol Based - FF21 Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Attraction) > - **TUTH:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For SEXUAL Attraction) > - **Instant Jerk:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For SEXUAL Attraction) > - **Instant Gentleman:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For ALPHA Status) > - **Alpha A314:** OIL Based - AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 10 ml (For ALPHA Status) > - **ALPHA A314 Spray Version A:** AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 5 ml To Go (For ALPHA Status). This is a stronger version than the original version of A314. Since its base is alcohol in this form that also adds more punch to its strength. > - **ALPHA A314 Spray Version B:** AKUTO base Scent Package - Available in 5 ml To Go (For ALPHA Status). This version has less strength than the oil version of A314, but please remember since it is in an alcohol base it more closely resembles the original A314. > > **Unisex Products** > > - **Instant Openness:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Communication) > - **Instant Honesty:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Deep Rapport) > - **Instant Shine:** Alcohol Based - Neroli Scent Package - Available in 30 ml and To Go Size (For Good Time Vibe / Confidence) > > During my reads, I find that most men on this forum uses > \*\*Ammo \*\*\*\* (For Attraction), **TUTH,** ALPHA A314 **(For SEXUAL Attraction), ISHINE** (For Good Time Vibe / Confidence), \*\*\*\*Instant Openness \*\*(For Communication), **Instant Honesty** (For Deep Rapport). > > Hope this helps. ---
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2014, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/4 "2014-09-22T07:02:18Z")
So, am I ever getting the Gift Certificate? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2014, 10:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/5 "2014-09-22T22:03:06Z")
Just hang-on. Mickaelia issues them personally and it can take a few days when she’s busy. Also watch your junk/spam folder as GCs can get caught. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2014, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/6 "2014-09-23T23:51:40Z")
\*\*Welcome to our community Desire! We’re super happy to have you join us. Thanks for stopping by and sharing. I hope to see more of you around here in the next few weeks! This is a quick note to let you know I’ve issued your gift certificate. It’s burning a hole in your email box as you read this! Have fun!" _~_~_~_~_~_\*\* ---
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2014, 5:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/7 "2014-09-24T05:37:48Z")
Don’t see it yet in my mailbox. ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2014, 7:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/8 "2014-09-24T07:05:07Z")
> [@Desire](#): > > Don’t see it yet in my mailbox. Hmm.. If its not in your spam folder, I guess it’s time for you to drop Mickaelia a reminder in her secure email addy. Happy pheroing! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![eternitys\_child](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/73ab20/32.png) [@eternitys\_child](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/eternitys_child)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2014, 2:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/9 "2014-09-24T14:23:53Z")
Welcome to the forum, I’m desi myself, and let me tell you the game is much different in the states than it is in the subcontinent! Here, the girls (and guys) act differently because of society and culture. It’s not what it seems like in the movies, but I’m sure you already knew that. Don’t take offense personally 🙂 You just have to learn the game. And I’m sure the pheromones will help you out with that. edit: oh, one thing I noticed that’s a huge factor (and i’m not accusing or anything) is that prolonged eye contact in the east is perceived as curiosity. Here, it’s just plain creepy. ---
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2014, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/10 "2014-09-24T21:50:56Z")
Thanks eternity. And I’m not too big on making prolonged eye contact anyway 🙂. But from what I have learned on youtube videos and other forums, eye contact plays a great role here in the states if you are after girls. And that is one thing I’m a little reluctant to do right now (thanks to my upbringing and where I’m from). Never had to stare anyway because of the personal charm I have back home 😛. ---
**Author:** ![sue1anne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sue1anne/32/1776_2.png) [@sue1anne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sue1anne)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2014, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/11 "2014-09-25T02:23:09Z")
Desire, You might try a quick look at a girl, smile, then look away to show shyness. Some girls are more likely to approach a shy man than one who is more forward. With your looks this could work in your favor as a strong, shy man and she may be the one to start a conversation with you. It’s worth a try… Sue1anne ---
**Author:** ![Desire](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/f475e1/32.png) [@Desire](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Desire)\ **Post date:** [September 25, 2014, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-all/62874/12 "2014-09-25T04:42:03Z")
> [@sue1anne](#): > > Desire, > You might try a quick look at a girl, smile, then look away to show shyness. Some girls are more likely to approach a shy man than one who is more forward. With your looks this could work in your favor as a strong, shy man and she may be the one to start a conversation with you. It’s worth a try… > > Sue1anne I tried being shy, I tried being forward, nothing actually worked, besides a couple of overweight women who were just looking to sleep around lol. But now that I got my GC, I’m gonna order some mones and find out what’s the fuss all about.