# Hello and Good evening from South Jersey **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 15, 2011, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822 "2011-08-15T23:42:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![maxpax69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ea5d25/32.png) [@maxpax69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/maxpax69)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2011, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/1 "2011-08-15T23:42:13Z")
Hi all, this is Chris (an applications engineer) from NJ just signed up here after having ordered some of the fine products. Rapidly approaching mid-life crisis time at the age of 42 and have been fascinated by how some folk here have been able to boost their confidence and persona with mones. Self confessed newbie, I’ve already taken the plunge with Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Turn Up the Heat, Ammunition, MX412, P74, P79, P83, A314. Trying to stop being the ‘old man’ at work and supplement my personality in addition to hopefully being more attractive/approachable to the ladies. By no means heinous to look at, I’m certainly a little past prime and any extra little boost will help 🙂 Have tried 2x Heavy Ammunition with 2x P83 and 1x MX412 and got some interesting chat from a couple of lower 20’s blondes at work who never really paid any notice of me before. Been invited to lunch by one of them, I think they are viewing me as a friend for now. Looking to maybe see where to tweak this to step up the reactions. Just enjoying the ride! ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2011, 11:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/2 "2011-08-15T23:42:32Z")
Hello! Great that you join in to our nice and hearty community. Chris that’s great, wow 😮, you purchased many many things and you are also really really fast, so fast that you forget your gift certificate.😃 But therefore we need a little more infos about you. 😉 How would you describe your personality and social skills? What are your hobbies and how you find pherotalk? 2 x double strength ammo + 2 x P83 (mcg?) and one spray MX412, good combo but I think you must add something more sexual punch, take TUTH. MX412 is a great for bonding and comfort, but you need also the sexual kick. For the “old man” thing you need more none (TUTH), it’s the male sexual mone, younger men produced much more from it. But I would never take it alone (only in clubs), because it can be very intimidating for younger women. I would also add [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for the younger men effect, a more playful vibe and a mood boost is what you need. So Chris, I hope you tell us more about you and your adventures. Best wishes. ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 1:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/3 "2011-08-16T01:11:52Z")
**Hello and be welcome here at PheroTalk …** **nice that you´re joining us …** Johnny gave you solid advise … that´s the way i know my buddy 😉 Amazing … you´ve made a great start .. looks like you´re going to build an huge arsenal .. and like you´re reporting … you´ve had some major hit´s with the mones already ! That´s fantastic ! you should definately not miss the GC … read up on what is required for it .. **[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934)** and tell us … where you want to use the mones … except from work where you´re hunting with them already .. hehe what kinda effects are you searching to get with Pheromones … do as well check the stickies ..here .. over at the male place as well .. there´s a lot of great information in them … the guy´s who made the sticky threads put a lot of effort into them in order to help others … and they are sticky because they are great work … do test out the products alone . … that´s very important to understand before you combine them … here´s how to **[How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1)** and another important read .. **[Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517)** keep us informed how things are going and stick around the board very much … but i see you will do for sure .. thanks again for posting .. \*\*Pago P.s you say that you´want to be no longer considered “the old men” .. some good amount of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will fix it .. people will notice you way more younger .\*\*.. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 1:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/4 "2011-08-16T01:54:19Z")
H Chris, welcome to the forum! The guys have given you great information, there’s really nothing more I can add. But if you have any questions, just ask! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![maxpax69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ea5d25/32.png) [@maxpax69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/maxpax69)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 3:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/5 "2011-08-16T03:34:51Z")
Thanks guys for the warm welcome. Personality wise I’m already very outgoing, every bodies friend. Would just like the confidence to take this to the next level, I have plenty of friends who are ladies but lack the confidence to try the move up to lady friend if you know what I mean. I play sports which I enjoy as a diversion from work, I play soccer, rugby, tennis and working out. Otherwise I play guitar and often jam at a local bar. I guess my question now would be how much Turn Up The heat should a 42 year old wear with the combo I have been using? Also, should I back off the [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) if I add the Turn Up The Heat? BTW, I found this site through a Google search. I read a few other sites and this one struck me as the only real genuine site which sets expectations realistically. Thanks again guys, Chris ---
**Author:** ![extraballislit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/extraballislit/32/712_2.png) [@extraballislit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/extraballislit)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 5:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/6 "2011-08-16T05:19:28Z")
> [@maxpax69](#): > > Thanks guys for the warm welcome. > > Personality wise I’m already very outgoing, every bodies friend. Would just like the confidence to take this to the next level, I have plenty of friends who are ladies but lack the confidence to try the move up to lady friend if you know what I mean. > > I play sports which I enjoy as a diversion from work, I play soccer, rugby, tennis and working out. Otherwise I play guitar and often jam at a local bar. > > I guess my question now would be how much Turn Up The heat should a 42 year old wear with the combo I have been using? Also, should I back off the P83 if I add the Turn Up The Heat? > > BTW, I found this site through a Google search. I read a few other sites and this one struck me as the only real genuine site which sets expectations realistically. > > Thanks again guys, > Chris Hi there Max. I would keep the p83, and maybe add some AMMO instead of TUTH. Both products are androstenone based, but AMMO is considered workplace safe and TUTH may have some undesired effects, such as being percieved as too sexual for the office. Start with one spray for maybe 2 or 3 days and see what happens. Try to notice any new reactions. Then, you can add another spray. Anyway, the best thing yo can do right now is test each product by itself, as suggested in this thread: [How to find your sweet spot...](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146) I know it´s hard to resist to start using combos as soon as you get your mones, but using just one product for a couple of weeks, then another, and then another is the best way of knowing what each product does, and what sinergies are created when mixing. Anyway, welcome on board, and good luck with your mixes. Hope this helps. Talk to you soon ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 9:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/7 "2011-08-16T09:56:33Z")
I have to agree with Extraballslit, TUTH is more risky, especially if you’re going for women in the younger age range (they can be more easily “scared off” by too much “-none”). The combo you successfully used sounds perfect - you know what they say, “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it”. Though it is _definitely_ important to test each product separately and find your sweet spot for each one so that you know exactly the effect each product has and how much of each you need for the best results, this puts you much more in control of your phero mixes, and also is much more cost-effective. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![JohnnyHard](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/johnnyhard/32/1753_2.png) [@JohnnyHard](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JohnnyHard)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2011, 3:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/8 "2011-08-16T15:06:56Z")
> [@maxpax69](#): > > Thanks guys for the warm welcome. > > Personality wise I’m already very outgoing, every bodies friend. Would just like the confidence to take this to the next level, I have plenty of friends who are ladies but lack the confidence to try the move up to lady friend if you know what I mean. > > I play sports which I enjoy as a diversion from work, I play soccer, rugby, tennis and working out. Otherwise I play guitar and often jam at a local bar. > > I guess my question now would be how much Turn Up The heat should a 42 year old wear with the combo I have been using? Also, should I back off the P83 if I add the Turn Up The Heat? > > BTW, I found this site through a Google search. I read a few other sites and this one struck me as the only real genuine site which sets expectations realistically. > > Thanks again guys, > Chris I would not leave out TUTH (1 spray) if you take a great social combo like Ammo + [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) + especially MX412. I would also leave out the P83 first. ---
**Author:** ![maxpax69](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ea5d25/32.png) [@maxpax69](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/maxpax69)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2011, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/9 "2011-08-17T00:27:57Z")
Thanks again guys, I’m going to run with Ammunition with [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and MX412 from tomorrow and through the weekend and will see how things go. I think that the combo I’ve been using up until today has been showing promise and I will keep it as one of my combo’s du jour. I’ll let you know how it goes. Thanks again guys, this newbie really appreciates the advice. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2011, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/10 "2011-08-17T01:26:06Z")
> [@JohnnyHard](#): > > 2 x double strength ammo + 2 x P83 (mcg?) and one spray MX412, good combo but I think you must add something more sexual punch, take TUTH. MX412 is a great for bonding and comfort, but you need also the sexual kick. For the “old man” thing you need more none (TUTH), it’s the male sexual mone, younger men produced much more from it. 1 spray of heavy ammo contains double the androstenone (5 mcg) that regular strength tuth contains. so for that youthfull virile aura… his current dose of 2 sprays of Heavy AMMO would be more than sufficient. TUTH dosent contain more andrestenone but is tuned to be more sexual.. or rather unapologeticaly sexual… I **would say stay away from TUTH especially at work (no harm in clubs) until you get a grip on other pheros and the socials.** > [@JohnnyHard](#): > > I would also add Instant Shine for the younger men effect, a more playful vibe and a mood boost is what you need. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is a good bet.. combine it with AMMO and you have a 20 something flirty man in hand 🙂 _(atleast you’ll give off a vibe like that_) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2011, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-evening-from-south-jersey/51822/11 "2011-08-17T23:46:40Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Max! My team is excellent and you can always trust them with top notch advise. Let us know how it all went down. **Your gc was issued! 😉**