# Hello and Good Karma 2 All! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 15, 2008, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571 "2008-08-15T16:16:27Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![beatbreaker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/beatbreaker/32/506_2.png) [@beatbreaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beatbreaker)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/1 "2008-08-15T16:16:27Z")
šŸ˜‰ Well I guess as a new ā€œThinking outside the boxā€ idea, I landed here hoping to find out WHY and WHAT will help me in my forlorn love questā€¦ Brief but detailed run downā€¦ I am a significantly popular BreakBeat DJ in Dallas, TXā€¦ I was born and raised here, but have traveled extensivelyā€¦ I am by far no way a player in any sense, but I get portrayed as such, because of my distant attitude towards females I am genuinely attracted toā€¦ I have had 4 long term relationships, and each ended in heart crushing failure, thus strengthening my defensive yet open discussion of my current problemā€¦ I meet many girls on a steady basis, but most I dont even give a second thought about possible relationship! I am great at detecting what would be real attraction, and what is just another way to ā€œMove Upā€ in the social ladderā€¦ My problem is when I sense real attraction, I tend to clam up and break communication if i am attracted to them also! VERY POORLY PLAYED GAME OF CHESSā€¦ Strategy is not present here! I am a college graduate from Texas Tech, and am told to have ā€œvery interestingā€ topics and communication skillsā€¦ (especially by the ones i am running away to hide in the corner fromā€¦ WIERD!!) This keeps me from a very serious goal i have which is to hopefully find someone to share in my fun lifestyle, and claim their rightful place by my side as my Queen! Anywaysā€¦ I am a very open person, so please ask any questions if interested, or drop any pointers if it compels you to do soā€¦ Look forward to hopefully have found the place to answer & solve my dilemaā€¦ DJ Beat Breaker - Dallas, TX Christian ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 4:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/2 "2008-08-15T16:51:14Z")
Hello beatbreaker! Welcome to the forum. Youā€™ve given quite a bit of information, and thatā€™s good. It seems the problem is mainly on your side of the interaction. Why exactly do you clam up when you sense and feel attraction? Do you consciously fear eventual rejection, or is it a more subconscious flight response? As for pheromone usage, you didnā€™t really say you would buy any, but [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine might help you overcome your flight response and really open up to someone you feel attracted to. Anyway, good luck with your love quest. I hope it all works out for you! ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/3 "2008-08-15T16:55:15Z")
Welcome Beatbreaker! What an interesting conundrum. With your profession it seems you would be very outgoing and have no problem in social situations. I agree with Vesperoā€™s suggestion, instant openness and instant shine are both great products. Ammunition might be worthwhile also I know that when my husband wears it he is more ā€œonā€ and talkative in what appears to be be more confident and flirtatious behavior. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/4 "2008-08-15T17:00:22Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. I will recommend SHine. It makes you in uplifting mood and boost your confidence. However, [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will only enhance your chance to attract girls. You got to get over your defensive attitude and be more open to accept girls. Good luck Cheers ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 5:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/5 "2008-08-15T17:29:20Z")
Welcome to the board beatbreaker, I also suggest taking a look at instant openess or instant honesty. They both will ease the flow from her, also take a read up of female magic.šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![beatbreaker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/beatbreaker/32/506_2.png) [@beatbreaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beatbreaker)\ **Post date:** [August 15, 2008, 6:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/6 "2008-08-15T18:25:07Z")
šŸ™„ As I said before, THANK YOU TO ALL WHO WISH TO KEEP VOLUNTEERING SOME INSIGHT TO MY SITUATIONā€¦ I dont really understand what causes this reclusive reactionā€¦ I know it isnt fear of rejection, because most of the time I get told by several of their friends that they wanna hook up with meā€¦ (I call it CHARLIE BROWN SYNDROME!) I guess because I somehow fear that I may somehow trigger that person to lose interest in me, that I reiterate some (hopeless) personality buster, so that at least i know that as long as I retreat, they will usually find even more attraction to meā€¦ The problem though, is that is what most women would call ā€œA guy running gameā€ on a ladyā€¦ Thus the ā€œPlayerā€ status, but that is most DEFINITELY NOT the scenarioā€¦ A ā€œPlayerā€ goes on many dates, and many different encounters with random women he/she seeksā€¦ That would be the exact opposite of what my lifestyle entails! I would LOVE to go on dates, and would do black market deals for my non vital organs, if I even produced 1 or 2 encounters WITH THE SAME PERSON A WEEK!, if that would predefine these results!.. Thats why I am hereā€¦ I found that BREAKING THE ICE is my Kryptonite, which sabotages my events!.. I am able to talk to that person easily if I dont think they have romantic feelings towards meā€¦ and then when/if i find out that they do, it is usually from a 3rd party source (reliable thoughā€¦ eg. Best friend, or close acquaintance of them), which would put the ball in my court to initiate the Escalation of me and that personā€™s current statusā€¦ Thats where I put the ball down, sneak behind the other team members, and escape out of the emergency exit, (so to speak)ā€¦ Its like I have wanted to be recruited by that personā€¦ but once I am given the mic to make my acceptance speech, I get stage fright because ā€”I have to ask/offer/initiate the next moveā€” The 4 long terms that i have been in, I have realized that the girl took the reigns and made the approach towards a ā€œmore than friendsā€ status increaseā€¦ I am TOTALLY cured of my stage paralysis when that happens!.. Then I am freed to be myself, and continue generating a bond with themā€¦ ( I swear just hearing and reading myself typing all of this, makes me feel like I should be laying down on a couch, with a glass of water, IN A STRAIGHT JACKET, while some person with an accent, glasses, and a clipboard continues to ask questions and document my responses, so he can provide research data on THE MOST IRRATIONAL BEHAVIORAL PATTERNS OF ā€œWIERD ANOMALIES!ā€) ā˜¹ I plan to purchase some product(s) in order to establish some Magnetic Field around myself that will cause ladies i encounter to ALWAYS break the ice, and make the first moveā€¦ (When that product is synthesized I will be the head spokesman, and cover model for all advertisements for its discovery! šŸ˜›) Dj Beat Breaker Christian ----- No ā€œGameā€? Use [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) with [ā€œThe Mystery Methodā€](http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0312360118) As Featured in the NY Times Bestseller ā€œThe Gameā€ by Neil Strauss ----- ( I was referred to purchase this book by a girl I had a crush on for almost 2 years, who during that entire time wanted me to ask her out or even just spend time alone with her so we could get closerā€¦ WTF?!? The worst part is I KNEW SHE LIKED ME THE WHOLE TIME, YET I COULDNT ADVANCEā€¦ Thus she eventually lost interest, and then I told her how much i had the largest crush on her, and didnt even flinch to expose that to herā€¦ And yes, I immediately went to a Barnes and Noble, and made them track down a copy of the book I could purchase ABSOLUTELY within the hour before they closedā€¦ ((The book told me so many things about myself in the first 100 pages, that I ceased to finish it, ā€¦ carry it with me everywhere i goā€¦ and persist NOT to continue reading it, because ALL I WANT TO REVEAL FROM IT IS _ROSS JEFFRIES_ ART OF NLP! I think that would be what would IMMUNIZE me from the paralysis!)) :o ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 16, 2008, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/7 "2008-08-16T00:00:42Z")
Hello Christian Welcome to Pherotalk šŸ™‚ Mones are only going to take you so far Im afraid. They will increase attraction, help you and others open up, give comfort, even arouse but if you run there is not a dang thing they can do. > [@](#): > > I plan to purchase some product(s) in order to establish some Magnetic Field around myself that will cause ladies i encounter to ALWAYS break the ice, and make the first moveā€¦ (When that product is synthesized I will be the head spokesman, and cover model for all advertisements for its discovery! šŸ˜›) There is no mone that will do the work for you and if they do make one that does, you will have to wrestle me and steveO to get it LOL They will however give you a edge and influance and I feel you can get some benefits from them. You of course will still have to make a conscious effort to break your flight response. I highly suggest IH, this is a deep communication mix which increases intimacy and connection. Ishine which is upbeat and makes you and others feel great. It can boost confidence levels as well. I am going to suggest AMMO as well. This increases attraction, can cause mild arousal and its sexy. I really would like to see you use a bonding type mone as well but I dont want to overwhelm your first purchase. [P74](https://a314.com/product/p74/) would be good. It is a test product but in increases attentiveness from other and is another connection type mone. Its in the advanced section and is not under the guarantee but they do have it in to-go size. If you have any questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** šŸ˜ƒ Tisha ---
**Author:** ![beatbreaker](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/beatbreaker/32/506_2.png) [@beatbreaker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/beatbreaker)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2008, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/8 "2008-08-17T20:46:13Z")
šŸ˜• well thanks to all for inputā€¦ I cant wait for my first order to arrive and be testedā€¦ Just waiting for my GCā€¦ šŸ™‚ But Iā€™m interested in seeing the results myself, as I have never tried or tested this kind of product before, but in my field of career, _I will definitely be able to tell if/what effects it has on those around meā€¦ Will post results when I beginā€¦_ _DJ BB šŸ†’_ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2008, 9:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-good-karma-2-all/17571/9 "2008-08-17T21:29:21Z")
> [@](#): > > Just waiting for my GC It was sent to your email box on 8/15 according to my records. Look in your spam box just in case. If you cant find it PM me and I will look up the code. Tisha