# Hello and Happy New Year **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 1, 2008, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939 "2008-01-01T22:37:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Chaionlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Chaionlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chaionlife)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2008, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/1 "2008-01-01T22:37:35Z")
Hello everyone. I hope each of you is enjoying a wonderful New Years Day. I am a 41 year old female from Texas and am interested in exploring the use of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). My motivation for joining the forum? Well, I’m definitely happily married and we are an extremely amourous couple… so, while we don’t necessarily need spicing-up per se, I love to be extremely sexy, appealing, and delectable to him (and, I do a damn good job of it too, because even married after four kids and at my “age”, I still turn more than my share of twenty-something heads…). I have long been using scents in the home to create certain moods (scent used varies depending on the room, the scent “audience”, etc) so the use of pheromones simply seems to be a next step. I’m looking forward to exploring the threads on this forum and to learning from each of you. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2008, 10:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/2 "2008-01-01T22:41:08Z")
Welcome. isex is a favorite with the ladies. Take a look at the stickies at the ladies forum, and then take a while perusing the posts. You should get a lot of ideas. ---
**Author:** ![Patratt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/patratt/32/971_2.png) [@Patratt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Patratt)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2008, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/3 "2008-01-01T22:46:47Z")
Chaionlife, welcome to the forums! You have found a great place to explore the use of Pheromones. You have done a great job of explaining your interests and goals. SteveO will be along soon I’m sure to give you a gift certificate to help with your first purchase. Feel free to ask anyone for help in the forums. I know the ladies have been a big help to me with their insights. Again, glad you found us. Have fun! ---
**Author:** ![DrZorters](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e47c2d/32.png) [@DrZorters](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DrZorters)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2008, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/4 "2008-01-01T22:49:59Z")
Welcome to the forum C-life! I like your post. it sounds like you have a great attitude. I think a few products would work for your situation. Try a small amount of Instant Sexiness. This might help put an extra log on the fire of love for you two. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will help for your conversations to become more heartfelt than the usual “How was your day” type chats. The women here will be along to give you some suggestions from their own experiences. While you are waiting you should read the stickies in the womens forum to become acquainted with the womens products that are available. Which ever products you choose remember to use a small amount of one at a time. You do not want to change yourself too much. You already know he likes you the way you are. Please post some of your results after you experiment a little. DrZorters ---
**Author:** ![Chaionlife](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@Chaionlife](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Chaionlife)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2008, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/5 "2008-01-01T23:24:43Z")
I am already learning so much from the women’s forum; thank you to everyone for their informative posts! And, I will definitely be looking further into Instant Sexiness and possibly EoW and/or Lust After Me. One question (with some background and set-up), and I apologize if it has already been answered elsewhere and I just haven’t gotten to it yet… I’m very intrigued by [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), but actually not for the purposes you mention, Dr. Zorter (My Beloved and I are that lucky match… we are indeed, at the very least, each other’s Besherit (for those of you who don’t know Hebrew… quickly translated as soulmates but oh-so-much more than that) and we already have that level of open, honest communication… however, we are a second-marriage with a combined household… and his twelve-year-old son (BTW, both his son and my youngest son are twelve years old and both are named Jacob…so, to reduce confusion I will refer to his son as step-Jacob and mine as bio-Jacob) plays fast and furious with the truth. Actually, he has absolutely no respect for honesty at all. This obviously is distressing to My Beloved, myself, and also to my bio-children (which, incidentally includes a foster daughter, so I have 4 “grown” children… i.e., away in college). Would diffusing Instant Honesty in the home help him? And, we know that our brains become accustomed to scents; does such scent acclimation occur with regard to pheromones? ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2008, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/6 "2008-01-02T00:04:03Z")
IH tends to encourage people to share things they might not otherwise share. I don’t think it will do much for dishonesty though. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2008, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/7 "2008-01-02T00:25:10Z")
Hello Chaionlife Welcome to the forum 🙂 > [@](#): > > Would diffusing Instant Honesty in the home help him? And, we know that our brains become accustomed to scents; does such scent acclimation occur with regard to pheromones? I Have 2 sons myself, 13 and 20. I have been using pheromones since my youngest was 10 and have been a fan of smartmones products for about a year and a half. In my experience pheromones can effect children. High amounts of Androstenone which is mens products can either set them off or make them feel more secure but this is normally in very small children. For my own son Androstenol products such as Instant Openness or Instant Honesty make him open up more to me when I wear them and he seems to confide in me his feelings more. They dont however make him not tell a lie. He will still try to get away with that. LOL Instant Shine seems to have a good effect on his mood. My oldest son has just started using some pheromones. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), IO and Instant Shine so far he is having pretty good results with them. I dont let my youngest use them or diffuse them into the house. I do wear them in his presence though. My reasoning for not letting him wear them is this. Puberty is a tough time and its also a time of self discovery. I dont want pheromones to influence this time of self discovery. During this time their own bodies are beginning to make there own pheromones and allthough it hasnt been studied as far as I know I dont want to chance interfering with that process. Wearing them in his presence is probably the best option. This way he will associate the feeling of wanting to talk and share his feelings with you as opposed to just diffusing them into the air which may make him want to share but be unsure of who to share with. This is just my own personal opinion from experience with my own son and pheromones. I know Dolly has kids and has mentioned that nols tend to calm her son a great deal so look for posts by her as well. We look forward to your participation, If you have any questions please just ask Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2008, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/8 "2008-01-02T04:38:42Z")
Hi Chaionlife! 🙂 Welcome to the forum! Nice to have another gal on board and a married one too…woohoo! You’ll find lots of goodies, here, to experiment with…there’s great stuff to enhance your already sexy self and intensify a great sexual relationship making it even more rewarding… 😉 …and it’s alotta fun! Good luck in your endeavors and keep us posted, we’re looking forward to it! Bella ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2008, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/9 "2008-01-02T14:44:22Z")
Just wanted to welcome you, chaionlife! Nice to see you here … you’ll find the combination of pheros and certain _Potions_ to be a lot of fun I think! Carrie ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2008, 7:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-happy-new-year/7939/10 "2008-01-03T07:28:14Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. It’s always a nice thing when it’s late and I’m tired after working all day and having to take care of my girl when she’s upset and then coming over to welcome and the job is already done. I find it just incredible and truly awe inspiring when users swing by to greet our newest members with such incredible insights. I was just amazed at the caliber of responses from the ladies, and as always they have struck another home-run in my book on the forum. I have told Tisha that I was only going to neg rep her from now on to keep her head from getting to big, but with a post like that I could only do the right thing. So with that said she gets +rep points from me and you get a BIG warm SteveO welcome and a gift certificate on its way. Welcome to the forum.