# Hello and questions about how pheromones really works **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 1, 2010, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742 "2010-07-01T03:19:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![swlee1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/779978/32.png) [@swlee1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/swlee1)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742/1 "2010-07-01T03:19:12Z")
Hello, I am a new member so I wanted to introduced my self and get the $25 gift certificate.I do not really trust [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), but I figure that I have nothing to lose with a $25 gift certificate. I am a 23 year old Asian male. I am from Toronto, but I’m currently attending university in the U.S. I enjoy sports and at the same time like to play a good game on the computer. I’m may not be an extrovert at all times, but I enjoy talking to new people and getting to know them. I’m do not have problems with girls and am not looking to get major hook ups with them through using pheromones. However, I want to see if it actually works and see if it bring a new level of intimacy between my girlfriend and I. So I just plan on using it on random times when I’m with my girlfriend. But I have to wonder, will using a pheromone make it so that the girl get attached to the pheromone rather than the person? and when a person stops using pheromones will the person that was once attracted to you not be as attracted to you? I guess that’s only a question that would apply if it works. I’m not really interested in using it if that’s what it does to a relationship. I don’t want a relationship that’s based on some foreign chemicals that I have to spray over my body everyday. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 6:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742/2 "2010-07-01T06:24:15Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! To enhance your relationship with your gf, go with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and TUTH. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, and will also help to strengthen emotional bonds. TUTH will spice things up in the bedroom, but make sure you only use it in an already sexually charged situation, such as with your lady before bedtime. 🙂 In answer to your question, the effects of pheromones is 90% you. What pheros do is enhance whats already there, kind of like a nice shirt, or makeup that enhances facial features, etc. ---
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 12:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742/3 "2010-07-01T12:31:32Z")
Hey swlee, welcome to the forum. I stand with sillykitty advice, just wanted to add for the times you want a more happy lighten mood buy [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), it will make everything more easy going. If you have any other questions just ask. Best regards Falcos ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 12:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742/4 "2010-07-01T12:59:44Z")
Hey welcome swlee1. For myself i like to think of mones as a way of working on yourself while also helping with the social, intimate, and other aspects of your life. Some people have approach anxiety, some people lack confidence, some people are too beta, etc. They provide great self effects and can really benefit you if you use them to your advantage. When people have approach anxiety, or lack confidence, often times that is inherently in them to be more outgoing but something is holding them back (maybe past rejection). Thats why a lot of times people loosen up so much when they drink alcohol and are a totally different person. It lowers the inhibitions where they dont care so much what people think of them and are more social, and less damaged by rejection. Instead of drinking tons of alcohol or seeing a counselor to work through things, mones for me, and maybe others will agree, help to work on yourself and bring out that confidence and strenghten areas of your relationship and help to enhance things and soon you work through those things as it becomes routine and you probably dont even need the mones anymore. So get the GC and give a few a try but i can definitely attest to the effects that IH has on the bond in a relationship and making your gf feel a lot more close to you and trusting. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 10:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-and-questions-about-how-pheromones-really-works/39742/5 "2010-07-01T22:06:27Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Swlee! What we sometimes do not know or fail to realize is that the more often we use pheromones on someone and ourselves is that the person and we get use to it and the smell. The person who is affected get use to that pheromone without even realizing it and may be drawn towards it when it is used on someone else. In using it on your girlfriend I suggest you be cautious and you might want to try telling her after wards but it’s up to you. Try not to use it too often and it’s nice to work with your natural pheromones every once in a while. Your gc will be issued soon!