# Hello! another noob here =)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-another-noob-here/34255>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [November 20, 2009, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-another-noob-here/34255 "2009-11-20T23:20:07Z")\
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**Author:** ![vonreil](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/v/a88e4f/32.png) [@vonreil](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/vonreil)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 11:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-another-noob-here/34255/1 "2009-11-20T23:20:07Z")

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Hi there,

I’m 23 yrs. old, Male, and asian.

I’m just new in pheros and just received my first ever phero bottle - IS. (Currently waiting for AMMO to be available).

I’m a moody person and having trouble expressing myself to people. I think the appropriate word is “Reserved”. I have a high insecurity and pride, which greatly affects my attitude towards people.

I find it also hard communicating/expressing myself to people I’m not comfortable with, and most of the time I feel inferior. But you know, this is not good specially in a working environment, since you need to have a good relationship w/ your boss.

On the other hand, I’m a tall guy and I notice some people, especially guys, are intimidated at me. When in fact, I was also intimidated to people most of the time.

Another thing is the girls. I think physically, I can be attractive enough. But I am extremely low in SELF ESTEEM and I find most beautiful women out of my league, even though there’s plenty of men out there whom I know I look better but are able to hook beautiful women out.

In short, my goal here is:

1. Sociability
2. Women (creating a good conversation, and of course, getting laid)

I understand that pheros are not magic and I will still need to work a lot on myself.

Your advices will be highly appreciated.

Right now, my candidates are IS and AMMO. But it would of great help to hear your opinions.

BTW, thanks to Jacob for the free gift - TUTH TO GO. The service of androtics is superb!

Thanks for reading! =D

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**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\
**Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 11:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-another-noob-here/34255/2 "2009-11-20T23:31:38Z")

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HI there,

Welcome to the forum.

I recommend you try Shine, IO and A314.

Shine is to make people around you in uplift mood. It can also boost your confident socially.  
IO will make you more approachable and friendly. People will want to start conversations with you.

A314 is to make people respect, trust you more. It can also help you to attract girls which you think are out of your league.

Good luck