# Hello. Any suggestions? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 20, 2009, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447 "2009-10-20T15:34:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Wicker](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/c68b51/32.png) [@Wicker](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wicker)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447/1 "2009-10-20T15:34:11Z")
Hi all! I am completely new to pheromones, and so was wondering if I could get tell you a little about myself and get some suggestions. I have been ready some of the posts and I was thinking of trying Instant Sexiness A and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), but maybe those are not the best for me? I am a divorced, 36-year old woman. I would like something where I could get some extra attention from men and get the communication flow flowing, but in a fun and flirty manner. I am usually fairly shy and I don’t usually talk much to strangers. I would like to feel more confident and sexy and have guys want to come up and talk to me (and be attracted to me). It would also be good if I could feel more at ease talking to them and both of us could be a little more playful in our talk and just have an enjoyable time together. Of course it would also be nice if the guys would want to see me again. Does anyone have any suggestions? Thank you, Nicole ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447/2 "2009-10-20T16:11:23Z")
Hi Wicker, Welcome to the forum! It looks like you’ve been researching and that’s good! I agree with your selection. At the same time you could choose come talk to me 2 over instant openness. Its a mixture of instant openness and instant honesty which can bring depth to your conversations. Another contender to boost attention and mix with [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is instant shine. Should put yourself and everyone around in a good mood with you being the center of it. Cheers! Daset ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 4:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447/3 "2009-10-20T16:29:04Z")
Hi Nicole, Welcome. I suggest you try SHine, IO and Sexiness. Shine will boost your confident. It can also counter your shyness socially. It makes you and the people around you in good mood. IO will make the men want to talk to you. They will feel you are approachable. Sexiness will make them feel you are sexier and more attractive. It can make the men pay attention to you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447/4 "2009-10-20T18:53:10Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [October 20, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-any-suggestions/33447/5 "2009-10-20T19:44:41Z")
Hi Nicole, Welcome to the community! Be sure to hang out in the womens forum here, there is much to learn. 🙂