# Hello Beautiful People! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 20, 2009, 9:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974 "2009-12-20T09:40:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 9:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/1 "2009-12-20T09:40:04Z")
Ok Ok… Cheesy as that “title” sounds… it’s how I enter my workplace every day… \ everyone seems to reply! In the beginning… I just walked in saying hello or hi and was often met by silence… a glance… a nod… but “Hello Beautiful People!” and everyone says hello! hhhmmm… could that be some magical pheromone-y type thing for your _ears_?!? Oh the wonder and amazement of it all… Well… on to me… I am 38… Female… living in the Washington DC Metro area… and have been searching the web for weeks on every type of test/determination/blind study… whatever! that included [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)… and finally found this site! I’m super excited to pick your brains about personal experiences… as I often wonder which articles I’ve read were just hyped for sales… I’m a poet of love… and an outlaw in Western Mongolia… \ but that’s fodder for another day… \ I must apologize for my silly state… as it’s 4.35 in the morning… and we’re currently snowed in… and will probably be for another day… \ so here I sit… hyped up on energy drinks and swimming in the satisfaction that the power is still on… \ and praying it’s still on tomorrow! ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/2 "2009-12-20T09:46:18Z")
Hi there… What sort of thing are you hoping to use pheromones for? Work? Social? Improvements in your love life? (Although since you seem to be surrounded by beautiful people, I guess your only problem in your love life is an excess of choice 🙂 ). Good luck, have fun (I’m sure you will whether I tell you to or not), and I hope your power stays on 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 9:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/3 "2009-12-20T09:57:59Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! To get you started, and also qualify you for the $25 gift certificate, please tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to others. Are you shy? Are you outgoing? Also, what kinds of situations or relationships were you hoping to affect or improve through pheromones? What kinds of effects do you hope to see? ---
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/4 "2009-12-20T10:00:04Z")
Ooohh… good questions Tez… let’s see… \ I think Social and Love life… would be where I’d focus first… just to test the waters and all… \ I … hhhmmm… how would I say I do things… let’s see… I fall crazy madly in deep like with people… but then… \ I don’t know… I’m constantly hearing… “you don’t look your age… I thought you were…” {generally 5-10 yrs younger} and that’s it! No… Hey… I wanna get to know you… just you and me time… I’m always the fun one… It’s always the same… someone always ends up telling me… “He said you were cool & had him laughing so hard!” I don’t want to be the “fun” one anymore… well… not _only_ the fun one I should say… I also want to be the… hey… she could be awesome girlfriend material… \ Boy do I sound pitiful in print! \ I think throwing yourself at a guy is a turn off… it is to me at least… so I think I shut down the “I’m attracted to you” a bit too much… and I’m wondering if there is such a thing that can put a bit of a boost into it… where… \ I don’t know exactly how to word it… but where there’s “something there”… even if they can’t put their finger on it… \ I feel like I’m talking in a big ol’ circle and can’t get it to read correctly here… \ I feel like such a maroon now… ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/5 "2009-12-20T10:12:38Z")
Right, OK… Sounds like a lack of sexual tension. One way you can introduce that is with double-entendres and touching… when a woman touches us in a way that might be sexual but is kind of ambiguous and could be accidental, or makes a subtle sexual joke, us guys often think, “Did she really mean that? Is she really flirting with me, or not?” It drives us nuts, and rivets our attention. For pheromones,try the Instant Sexiness mixes, that will probably help. There are two, A and B. One is a more alpha female vibe, the other is a softer female vibe. (I think the softer one is B, but double-check). The B is probably more likely to attract the kind of guy who will take the romantic initiative. If you browse the women’s advice forums, I think a lot of the women will have more experience there. The women here seem to have a pretty good handle on the attractiveness mixes. Edit: Oh yeah, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Honesty and Come Talk To Me mix 2 are all ones you might try, some guys are a little intimidated by attractive women and that can make you seem more approachable. ---
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/6 "2009-12-20T10:23:56Z")
Tezza23… boy oh boy… talk about an ability to read between the lines! You have a gift my friend… truly a gift… I loved how you talked about the touch… I do touch… but when I don’t get that… \ I just can’t think of the word to best explain it… if I don’t get something back from them… no spark of interest on their part… or should I say… “obvious” spark of interest… heck… even a raised eyebrow would do something for me at this point… If I don’t get anything… or… should I say… if I don’t perceive anything… I shut it down… I figure… why waste my time… boy… I went from sounding like a bafoon to completely shallow! I’m \ i’m just not having a good night… \ Lack of sexual tension… yes… but I’m swimming in sexual frustration… swimming in it till I’m pruney! I will most definitely seek out your recommendations… I thank you so sincerely… ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/7 "2009-12-20T10:37:13Z")
You may have to persist a bit. Us guys can be kind of dumb. We sometimes don’t think of ourselves as attractive. It’s like this old joke I heard once. A prospector in the Old West goes to a mule dealer to buy a mule. He says, “Look, I’ve heard that mules can be stubborn. I don’t want a stubborn mule, I want one that does what I tell it to.” So the mule dealer points one mule out and says, “That one’s the most obedient mule I have. Does anything you tell it.” So the prospector buys the mule, loads it up and tries to lead it away. Nothing. He tries to pull it, push it, yells at it. Nothing works. That mule’s going nowhere. So he goes back to the dealer and says, “Hey, this mule won’t do anything!” The mule dealer looks puzzled. “That doesn’t sound right. Let me try.” Then the dealer walks up to the mule and belts it right between the eyes! “What did you do that for?” Asks the stunned prospector. “Well first, you’ve got make sure you’ve got his attention!” ---
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/8 "2009-12-20T10:44:46Z")
Oh my goodness… you are too cool! I was checking out the little linky things you suggested… did have to sign up to be notified when they’re back in stock… but I think by the description it’ll be worth the wait… You do know… that when a guy acts like he doesn’t know… that he’s good looking… it _instantly_ raises his hotness to 3 or 4 levels higher than it already was! I’ve never met a woman that argued against that… and all I work with are women… \ we sit and talk about these things! I have a crazy type question for you… have you ever had pheromones tested on you? I mean someone came near you with/without them on… to see if you could tell a difference? It all seems so one-sided so far… people testing themselves on others… but I was wondering if anyone knowingly “took” the test… ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/9 "2009-12-20T10:49:43Z")
No, I’m the only one around me that uses pheros. Sometimes I’ve forgotten that I’m wearing them and gotten self-effects though. Like the other day, I was wearing a combo of Instant Shine (lifts your mood) and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) (makes you seem like a cool guy) because I would be spending time with my daughter. That combo gives me a “big daddy” vibe which is great with kids. Anyway, I was in the car, a closed environment, and began singing silly Christmas songs, much to my daughter’s amusement. I’m pretty sure it was the Shine doing that. Later, in the mall, I was less affected by my own pheros and calmed down a bit. 🙂 Edit: some of the women are in couples and both partners use pheros. I think Lalalove and Hohohate are two people here on the forums like that. Some women will try putting the men’s pheros on themselves just to see what happens… Turn Up The Heat reportedly drives them nuts with desire and they can’t sleep if there’s no man around to, uh, douse the fire. A314 made one woman think there was a “powerful, sexy man” just behind her and she kept looking around for him. So the pheros do affect you too, they can be good for improving your own confidence as well. ---
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 10:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/10 "2009-12-20T10:56:55Z")
Oh thats too awesome! I was just reading about some… items I think they are… I’m not sure with all the initials and whatnot… I was reading about “mx135” or “P86” or “IO” or “CTTM” most of them do… but some don’t have descriptions… and it seems most everything I click on are items that are out of stock… what does one do when they want to try but it seems like hitting a wall instead… Do you know how long items are generally out of stock? ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 11:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/11 "2009-12-20T11:52:25Z")
The ones starting with MX are experimental test mixes. Androtics is a research company, so they don’t tell you what those are expected to do so people can blind-test them. “p” products like P86 are [putative pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/product-category/advanced-pheromones/putative-pheromones/), things we think are pheromones but we are not sure what they do. Same deal as the MXes. IO is Instant Openness, it’s one of the consumer line, as are all the ones with descriptive names like “Instant Whatever”. If you go to the store, the link’s at the top of the page, you can find descriptions of what the consumer ones do in the link for each item. The experimental test mixes and putatives can be out of stock for quite some time, sometimes they never come back in stock. The consumer lines generally come back into stock pretty quickly. The buttons to email you when they come in stock don’t work, so I usually just log in and check every day or two. Also you can check the “store announcements” forums too. ---
**Author:** ![McKenna](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/db5fbb/32.png) [@McKenna](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/McKenna)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 12:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/12 "2009-12-20T12:23:39Z")
Oh so so much! That’s how much you made me feel better about all this… I was seriously wondering when everything I clicked on was “out of stock”! I wish I could buy these items at a store and have them right _now_! Especially since I heard a snow plow going down the street somewhere nearby… \ I’m wondering if I can lure them back with the waftings of hot chocolate and cookies… real cookies mind you… not just the scent… \ Thank you Tezza23! You have made a somewhat skiddish newbie… so excited about the whole testing process! I was just wondering… have you posted what you’ve tried and your results anywhere? I’m so curious! ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [December 20, 2009, 9:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/13 "2009-12-20T21:59:01Z")
Yes, if you look in the Men’s Journals section, a sub-section of the men’s advice section. My journal is in there. You can use the search function to search for me as the thread starter, because there’s a bunch of journals in there it could be hard to find. You might want to read some of the journals in the women’s journals section. Lots of useful information on the women’s mixes there. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 21, 2009, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-beautiful-people/34974/14 "2009-12-21T19:47:48Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.