# Hello (bought, will use tomorrow, still skeptical, keep you posted) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 18, 2009, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177 "2009-11-18T02:34:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![shadeline](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b2d939/32.png) [@shadeline](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shadeline)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 2:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/1 "2009-11-18T02:34:25Z")
Hi, I’m Greg, single of 30 years old in Georgia. I’m not here for sexual reasons, but for just relationships all together. I’m kind of socially-stunted. I don’t get out much, and the people I know most is the people I work with. People ask me to go out, but I’m too shy and partly to religious reasons. I work at a chemical plant that works on plastic coatings. We use alot of UV light and I hope that the pheromones will be safe to use in that enviroment. Our work boss is known for not giving out raises and I have worked hard there for over 2 years now with no raise. I am hoping that the pheromones will help improve my outlook at getting a possible pay raise. Also I’m the “scapegoat” of the plant, so if anything ever goes wrong it is always my fault - and they admit that too.. I dont expect the pheromones to work miracles, but maybe lessen this affect or effect? I am really hoping to become more of a leader than a follower. I hope that A314 will give me more confidence in what I do, cause I know Im the best but I don’t always act so. Maybe I’ll get the confidence boost I’ve been longing for? Anything will help, even if its alittle 🙂 I bought the [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) for just the fun of buying something else and just in case A314 does not work. I **forgot to post a “Hello”**. If I get a gift card, I’ll buy one of my friends a product to test. 😛 I’d like to give her something to allow her more control in her marriage. I feel she would need something that will help her to take charge of the family decisions instead of “husband” making all the decisions. Any suggestions? I **plan to start using the A314 tomorrow** when I go to work. I’m sitll skepitcal and not sure how this will all turn out. I am willing to give the product time to work. I have read the fourms, and _read the ABC News reports on Pheromones_, and did some much research. So, **fingers crossed**! I’ll keep everyone updated, probally start a new post with results as they come in. If nothing happens for that day, I’ll continue to use it until I either run out or begin to notice unusal events or etc. I’m willing to try anything once 😛 I get a laugh at some of these forums - no offense - .. I can actually picture these events happening to ordinary people of every walk of life. Can these pheromones really affect people like they say they do and others? I’ll soon see 😛 ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 2:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/2 "2009-11-18T02:46:18Z")
Hey, welcome! Only way to find out is to test, so let us know how it goes. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/3 "2009-11-18T03:04:47Z")
Heya Greg! If you had not yet gotten a GC, you should be able to qualify for one. You will, however, need to provide more background information in order to qualify. I see that you have ordered A314 and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), (some excellent products by the way). What was your purpose for ordering those two products? What are you looking to achieve with the pheros? Are looking for increased attraction from females? More respect from subordinates, clients, and co-workers? How do your interactions normally go with your targets? Are you generally an outgoing person or more introverted? The answers to these questions should not only qualify you for the GC but more importantly will provide the information required by our resident phero experts to recommend the appropriate products/mixes to help you achieve what you are looking for in terms of social interaction. You have posed some excellent questions regarding pheromones. One thing that is important to bear in mind, pheros are not magic potions that are going to make hot women beg the wearer to have sex with her in the parking lot. Pheros signal people that you are a certain type of person, be it a virile sexy guy, a respectable, admirable masculine guy, or an interesting charismatic fun-to-be around guy. The wearer must behave in manners “congruent” to these signals or else the signals get lost and the wearer is perceived as they appear. For example if a guy was to put on A314, I/G or any of theother status enhancing pheros and they dressed shabbily, and walk around slumped over and hang dawg even though their phero signature says, “Respect me I am a man of high status” because their clothes and especially their behavior said otherwise targets will either be confused or associate that person to whatever signal comes across stronger, (generally behavior and body language). If, however the wearer makes the effort to dress well and carries themself like someone of higher status, that is how they would be seen regardless of what their station in life really was. I hope I was able to be of assistance and maybe clarify things for you. Good luck with the products and welcome to the forum!!! ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/4 "2009-11-18T03:19:20Z")
Welcome Greg. We’ll be looking forward to hearing the results of your initial tests. ---
**Author:** ![shadeline](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b2d939/32.png) [@shadeline](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shadeline)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/5 "2009-11-18T03:26:57Z")
> [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](#): > > Pheros signal people that you are a certain type of person, be it a virile sexy guy, a respectable, admirable masculine guy, or an interesting charismatic fun-to-be around guy. Can the signal work on people who already know you? Even those for 1 or more years? ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 4:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/6 "2009-11-18T04:08:51Z")
> [@shadeline](#): > > Can the signal work on people who already know you? Even those for 1 or more years? It can, but there are variables on effectiveness. If how they perceive you is 180 degrees different from the signal you are trying to send, its going to be harder obviously, and effectiveness can also be effected by how often, in that time they have interacted with you, but I believe it is possible. We have had reports of products working on spouses, so obviously, even though a spouse may perceive a person in a certain way every day for a number of years, that perception can change. In such a situation, being congruent is going to really be key as you may imagine but it does happen.. ---
**Author:** ![desirez28](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/e0b2c6/32.png) [@desirez28](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/desirez28)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 11:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/7 "2009-11-18T11:01:09Z")
I try on my friend who use to know, and always meet up, probably not really effected. If you try, just go for those long time never meet up, the effectiveness will be obviously!! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 18, 2009, 7:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/8 "2009-11-18T19:55:18Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Shadeline! I see you jumped right in and went ahead and ordered some products. I am sure by now you have received some results. It sounds like a really bad situation at work. Yes, you are right about the A314 for work. Remember in using this product you can’t be shy or allow yourself to be intimidated or it won’t work. You need to take charge and allow the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) to work for you. Instant shine will give off that joyful , vibrant vibe and draw others to you. I don’t think you should wear that too much at work because it seems that people think you are nice and try to take advantage. I also suggest CTTM 2 for when you go out , this product is an ice breaker and allows for free flowing conversations. I think you should go out more often. I don’t party because I am a christian but there are a few places I go and when I find myself on dates I always remember to test out my products. You can wear it to grocery shop and test it out there. Keep us updated. Your GC will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![shadeline](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b2d939/32.png) [@shadeline](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shadeline)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2009, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/9 "2009-11-19T01:20:13Z")
Okay, since it will be hard to find my new topic on how my day went, I’ll just post it here to keep it simple. Before I start, let me tell you I’m a geeky type of person who is usually a person that acts like they are always on some kind of speed. Today was different for sure! I’ll explain in detail: [4AM] In the morning, I did things normally. I was unsure about using the pheromones and then eating.. so I ate first, and did things normally. Just before I was going to step into my car for traveling to work… I took A314 and applied it behind my ears down my neck on both sides using only 1 drop on the finger… then I put one drop on my wrists. I sprayed instant shine in my hair, then 2 sprays on eat side of my neck.. OUCH! Burn! Forgot I shaved.. ☹ I dambed some off to help stop some burnning. After a few minutes, I began to notice stuble effects of the “just feel good for no reason”. Kindof like a very unnoticeable slight haze in my vision, and lighter on my feet. [4:45AM] After getting in my car and driving for about 7 mintues, I began to feel like “different” and I did not understand it… so I told my self silently repeatly “I feel different…” for a few times before I just hushed myself. After hushing myself.. I was almost one with myself. There was no longer chattering thoughts while driving. I usually have lots of random thoughts while I drive to work.. today I was able to be calm, silent, and focused! I usually drive super fast, and if someone gets in my way .. I get road rage and cuss them out. Today, someone got in my way.. and I was like. Thats okay, I’ll just drive around you. I took it calmly and still was speeding.. but speeding with “Class”. [5AM] .. I get to work. nothing immediate, still skeptical.. thought well.. I might be just “fooling myself by thinking it works”… I just couldnt stop thinking how I felt.. how could I feel this way and it be just a mere thought? Through out half the day, the guy I am training for second shift.. He usually is strong headed and controlling. In my new “presence” .. he was different. When I talked to him or anyone throughout half the day, I kept it simple and short (not usual for myself.. I love to just chat and talk). One of my bosses who usually is commanding was looking at me as if he has never seen me before like this.. the look in his eyes was of surprise! I was the “Take Charge and no BS guy today.. and everyone was following my lead”. It was just amazing to see how people reacted in my new found presence. To some it up, It was lasted from 5AM to 12PM. After the company fed us Zaxby’s chicken, I noticed almost immeditately I was “myself again” ☹ I didnt bring any of A314 or Instant shine with me, cause I thought it was going to last all day.. Well at least the A314! Also, I noted one other great thing.. I usually slouch everyday. Today I held my shoulders back. Part of the reason I think I have had no neck pain at the end of the day like I usually have. A314 solves neck pain 🙂 Nice 🙂 I held my shoulders back as I was seeing myself as “somebody” and not just a “nobody”. NO more neck pain 🙂 I need to hold my shoulders back more often.. but A314 just seems to make that a natural event! I was really unhappy when A314 lost its touch on me. The rest of my day turnned normal again.. and at least I didnt get yelled at..at all today! Wow.. very nice. At this time, I have found 1 product I’ll buy again. A314. Any suggestions for work related products other than A314? At this time, I am not looking for relationships.. just more friends 🙂 P.S. Most of my research will be done around my co-workers. ---
**Author:** ![conundrum12](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/46a35a/32.png) [@conundrum12](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/conundrum12)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2009, 2:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/10 "2009-11-19T02:03:11Z")
Thanks for the original post, that was really informative. I’d suggest ammo. You say you’re not here for sexual reasons but ammo seems to help in general relationships with both sexes, at least it has for me. Guys seem to respect me a bit more, I am more confident, and girls are definitely more interested. I also suggest ammo because you are skeptical and that’s the one that straight up gets people to notice me and basically eyeball me in situations they usually wouldnt. You’ll probably see hits like this with A314 as well, just make sure you dont do too much, although your situation sounds like it could use some a314. Also, not to get too spiritual or anything, but do you know what the law of attraction. I’d read think and grow rich by napoleon hill or watch “the first 20 minutes of the secret”, on youtube. If you’re critical of pheromones you will probably also be critical of that stuff but no skin off my nose i just think it would straight up help with your raise and all your friendships and your overall level of happiness. it’s 20 minutes and at least you’ll find it entertaining if not helpful ---
**Author:** ![shadeline](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b2d939/32.png) [@shadeline](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/shadeline)\ **Post date:** [November 19, 2009, 3:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/11 "2009-11-19T03:40:48Z")
Conundrum12, Love the video on “the first 20 minutes of the secret” .. There is a controversional religion i know based on “magick” that uses the same exact concepts of “the secret” to get what they want. So, I guess I knew all along how to do it.. just that Im lazy or I like what I have. Over all.. either using “the law of attraction or magick or whatever you want to call it..” it can take from 1 second to 10 years to manifest. I wanted a certain amount of money per week.. and it took 3 years to manifest, but I can recall when I said it will eventually happen. Thanks for the video information.. it actually now makes more sense of what Ive been doing all along.. instead of the magick stuff. I think the scientific form makes more sense. ---
**Author:** ![Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/34f0e0/32.png) [@Warm\_It\_Up\_Chris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Warm_It_Up_Chris)\ **Post date:** [November 20, 2009, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-bought-will-use-tomorrow-still-skeptical-keep-you-posted/34177/12 "2009-11-20T01:29:12Z")
> [@shadeline](#): > > Okay, since it will be hard to find my new topic on how my day went, I’ll just post it here to keep it simple. > > Before I start, let me tell you I’m a geeky type of person who is usually a person that acts like they are always on some kind of speed. Today was different for sure! I’ll explain in detail: > > [4AM] In the morning, I did things normally. I was unsure about using the pheromones and then eating.. so I ate first, and did things normally. Just before I was going to step into my car for traveling to work… > > I took A314 and applied it behind my ears down my neck on both sides using only 1 drop on the finger… then I put one drop on my wrists. I sprayed instant shine in my hair, then 2 sprays on eat side of my neck.. OUCH! Burn! Forgot I shaved.. ☹ I dambed some off to help stop some burnning. > > After a few minutes, I began to notice stuble effects of the “just feel good for no reason”. Kindof like a very unnoticeable slight haze in my vision, and lighter on my feet. > > [4:45AM] After getting in my car and driving for about 7 mintues, I began to feel like “different” and I did not understand it… so I told my self silently repeatly “I feel different…” for a few times before I just hushed myself. After hushing myself.. I was almost one with myself. There was no longer chattering thoughts while driving. I usually have lots of random thoughts while I drive to work.. today I was able to be calm, silent, and focused! > > I usually drive super fast, and if someone gets in my way .. I get road rage and cuss them out. Today, someone got in my way.. and I was like. Thats okay, I’ll just drive around you. I took it calmly and still was speeding.. but speeding with “Class”. > > [5AM] .. I get to work. nothing immediate, still skeptical.. thought well.. I might be just “fooling myself by thinking it works”… I just couldnt stop thinking how I felt.. how could I feel this way and it be just a mere thought? > > Through out half the day, the guy I am training for second shift.. He usually is strong headed and controlling. In my new “presence” .. he was different. When I talked to him or anyone throughout half the day, I kept it simple and short (not usual for myself.. I love to just chat and talk). One of my bosses who usually is commanding was looking at me as if he has never seen me before like this.. the look in his eyes was of surprise! I was the “Take Charge and no BS guy today.. and everyone was following my lead”. It was just amazing to see how people reacted in my new found presence. > > To some it up, It was lasted from 5AM to 12PM. > > After the company fed us Zaxby’s chicken, I noticed almost immeditately I was “myself again” ☹ > > I didnt bring any of A314 or Instant shine with me, cause I thought it was going to last all day.. Well at least the A314! > > Also, I noted one other great thing.. I usually slouch everyday. Today I held my shoulders back. Part of the reason I think I have had no neck pain at the end of the day like I usually have. A314 solves neck pain 🙂 Nice 🙂 I held my shoulders back as I was seeing myself as “somebody” and not just a “nobody”. NO more neck pain 🙂 I need to hold my shoulders back more often.. but A314 just seems to make that a natural event! > > I was really unhappy when A314 lost its touch on me. The rest of my day turnned normal again.. and at least I didnt get yelled at..at all today! Wow.. very nice. > > At this time, I have found 1 product I’ll buy again. A314. > > Any suggestions for work related products other than A314? At this time, I am not looking for relationships.. just more friends 🙂 > > P.S. > Most of my research will be done around my co-workers. Welcome back, Greg! Sounds like you’re digging the increased status/self-confidence of A314! It is a great product, but looks like it’s pooping out just before its time to punch out. Unfortunately, A314 does not come in a ToGo size, but have you thought about Instant Gent? I/G does come in a ToGo size so you can stick a small bottle in a pocket of your work clothes, and refresh as needed. I’ve recently discovered I/G and am really enjoying the effects myself! I am also a big proponent of the ToGo’s because you can test something to see if it’s going to work for you before investing $20-$50 and you have access to the fragrance so that if you really need your phero booster towards the end of the day, there you are. I/G has status enhancing properties as well as sociables so that you can relate better with co-workers. I’d recommend at least giving the ToGo a shot and going from there.