# Hello, Could it be an answer to my shyness? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 20, 2009, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270 "2009-03-20T22:31:38Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![HeavyMetal\_1776](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heavymetal_1776/32/1479_2.png) [@HeavyMetal\_1776](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeavyMetal_1776)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 10:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/1 "2009-03-20T22:31:38Z")
Just wanted to say hey. Finally I found some stuff to help me. I am a college student who consistently puts off that friend vibe and am extremely shy. So I am so glad this stuff exists. I can’t wait to take some of it for a test drive later tonight. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/2 "2009-03-20T22:34:57Z")
Hi there, welcome to the forum! Glad to have you onboard 🙂 You’re a bit shy huh? Well, I think most of us are from time to time. If you want to boost your confidence then I think you should have a look at [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). It’s brilliant for that! ANd it gives you a happy, sociable and sparkly vibe too 🙂 So, other than being a bit shy…can you tell us a bit more about yourself? How do you relate to others? Are you ok with chatting as long as convedrsation has been initiated? Also…could you tell us a bit about what you want to mainly use pheros for? Any specific situations or objectives? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/3 "2009-03-20T22:40:39Z")
Hi Heavymetal, and welcome!! As Xiphoid said, we need to know a little more about you in order to best advise you. Are you a guy or a girl? (that makes a big difference!) And what situations did you want to improve? Work? School? Romance? Sex? Family life? Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![HeavyMetal\_1776](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heavymetal_1776/32/1479_2.png) [@HeavyMetal\_1776](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeavyMetal_1776)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 10:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/4 "2009-03-20T22:53:23Z")
Sorry I guess that would be good info to have. I am a white 21 year old male living in Texas. Like I said I always end up the friend and need some kind of a confidence boost i guess. Not to make myself sound pathetic but I have only ever had 1 Girlfriend and miss other chances because of my shy and sometimes unaware nature. Meaning that I just don’t notice if they are into me very often, so having something to make it more obvious would be a plus. As far as my friends go I am well liked. People want to do stuff with me and some of them come to me for advice. I guess that about sums it up. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 10:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/5 "2009-03-20T22:57:44Z")
Ammo and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) would be a good place for you to start, Ammo for that sexual edge and confidence, and Instant Shine for a bit of sparkle and charisma. ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/6 "2009-03-20T23:05:06Z")
> [@HeavyMetal\_1776](#): > > Not to make myself sound pathetic but I have only ever had 1 Girlfriend and miss other chances because of my shy and sometimes unaware nature. Meaning that I just don’t notice if they are into me very often, so having something to make it more obvious would be a plus. First of all…that doesn’t make you sound pathetic! Second…welcome to the club! I can totally relate with you on being shy & unaware of interest shown 🙄 Phero’s have helped me _enormously_ with that aspect of my personality…yes, I do like the extra attention I get but what I _really LOVE_ about phero’s is the way they have helped me out of my shell 🙂 So…I’d say Instant Shine for sure! That’s such a great all rounder. A few others that I’d suggest you have a look at are [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) which will help you boost communication. It basically increases the quantity of conversation making you and those around you more chatty, relaxed as well as more likely to approach you. If you want to attract the ladies I’d recommend Ammo. It’s a great product which is -none based with good social phero’s as buffers too so it’s suitable for everyday use. It gives you an attractive and sexy vibe rather than an overtly sexual “I want sex…now” type vibe that TUTH gives and which is really better for the bedroom or when going out on the pull 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![HeavyMetal\_1776](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/heavymetal_1776/32/1479_2.png) [@HeavyMetal\_1776](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HeavyMetal_1776)\ **Post date:** [March 20, 2009, 11:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/7 "2009-03-20T23:12:18Z")
Well thanks enormously for the advice I really appreciate it. I will take it to heart and begin my collection! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2009, 12:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/8 "2009-03-21T00:45:27Z")
Hi heavy, Welcome to the forum. I suggest Shine, IH and AMMO. Shine will counter your shyness. It boost your confidence socially. IH will make them closer to you. They will fel like they have known you for long time. This build the relationship. AMMO will add the attraction to it. They will be attracted to you. It can also make them sexually attracted to you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 21, 2009, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/9 "2009-03-21T09:08:01Z")
Hello Heavy Welcome to Pherotalk 😃 Your not pathetic, a lot of people are shy and mones can help some with that. Of course they wont do it all for you and you need to make a effort but they make the effort easier and more productive. AMMO and IO are a good place to start. I love Ishine and it draws people to you but it wont make them talk and if your looking to break that shyness IO can really help. If you can swing it try all three AMMO IO and Ishine. They come in to-go sizes so you can try them at a low cost. **Your GC is on the way** 😉 Have fun Tishas Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2009, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-could-it-be-an-answer-to-my-shyness/27270/10 "2009-04-09T14:38:46Z")
> [@jamesbonded](#): > > Hi heavy, > > Welcome to the forum. > > I suggest Shine, IH and AMMO. > > Shine will counter your shyness. It boost your confidence socially. > > IH will make them closer to you. They will fel like they have known you for long time. This build the relationship. > > AMMO will add the attraction to it. They will be attracted to you. It can also make them sexually attracted to you. > > Good luck Totally with you there. IS, IH And ammo are a nice combo. Oh heavy, I’m super shy myself. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) has a good vibe to it that helps with that for me anyhow everyone is different. 🙂 Welcome to the forum 🙂