# Hello - Dave from Pittsburgh **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 14, 2010, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008 "2010-03-14T04:37:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dpav02](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb9ed0/32.png) [@dpav02](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dpav02)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2010, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/1 "2010-03-14T04:37:41Z")
Hello everybody. My name is Dave, I’m from Pittsburgh - PA and I’m 24 years old. Here’s my story: So recently I have broken up with my long time girlfriend of a little over 2 years. But, now I’m getting over it and I want to go back out on the dating scene. The problem is, I’m not in college anymore, I graduated 2 years ago, so the house / frat parties are over and the bars / clubs just don’t seem to be working. What I’m looking for is something that assists me, I’ll be honest I’m a bigger guy, and not the most attractive person, but I have no problem trying to open, I’m just sick of it leading nowhere. Or, most typically, I just become “friends”. What I’m interested in is a product that helps me be more successful when opening, and something that helps me close the deal, so that I don’t get stuck in the “friend” category. So I guess what I’m looking for is typical recommendations for a first time user to get more dates. I’m looking for something easy to use and I want to notice results because to be honest, I’m skeptical about anything. Are there productions that can work in all / most public places? Including like grocery stores or something that will attract the cute local waitress / hot bartender? And will I really notice results? So that is my story, and what I’m here for. If anybody can offer advice, I would be thankful. ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2010, 7:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/2 "2010-03-14T07:29:40Z")
Hello Dave and welcome to the forum! I would suggest Ammo for start. You can wear it anywhere, daytime and night time. It should make you more noticeable and give you some confidence. Then there is A314 that gives very strong alpha male vibe. So you get plenty of respect from both male and female. The negative side is that it is not so approachable. If you want something easier that will still give you respect then [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). To make deeper connection with girls you could try Instant Honesty. It helps making conversation deeper and meaningful. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2010, 8:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/3 "2010-03-14T08:23:44Z")
Hi Dave and welcome to the forum! Thanks for your intro but can you describe your personality ie shy/outgoing? leader/follower? From the information you have given so far ammo would be the best product for your situation. Ammo is the best stand alone pheromone that creates attraction and confidence in social situations. I would also recommend the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) as they help create comfort and a deeper connection with women. IO for greater quantity of conversation, IH for greater quality of conversation, IS to uplift your mood and make you feel good and those around you feel good too. Lastly I would buy IG or A314 to give you higher status, value and respect. IG is more versatile and gives you a cool guy vibe while A314 is more alpha and need to be buffered by the socials as it can be serious and intimidating on its own. I hope this helps Mackie ---
**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2010, 3:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/4 "2010-03-14T15:04:54Z")
Hello Dave, Wecome to the forum. Sorry to hear about you break up. Its good to see you have taken an interest in pheros, and it seems you have got some good advice so far. Personally I would recommend AMMO. I is one of the best stand alone products offered, and it has tons of positive feede back. CTTM2 is a great social product that you may want to look into furter. In the mean time, take a look the sticky’s at the top of the mens forum. There is a lot of good info in there. Here are a few threads that will explain a lot. Most of you initial questions are answered in these threads. [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) [The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) ( [1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [3](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) … [Last Page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879)) **Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp** ([Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)) ( [1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) [2](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) [3](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159) … [Last Page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/basic-noob-phero-bootcamp/2159)) Please let us know what you decide, and be sure to come back and tell us how they worked for you. ---
**Author:** ![scotties123](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/c37758/32.png) [@scotties123](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/scotties123)\ **Post date:** [March 14, 2010, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/5 "2010-03-14T19:13:09Z")
Welcome Dave! First thing I would like to say is > [@](#): > > I’ll be honest I’m a bigger guy, and not the most attractive person **lose this attitude**. You are the man. If people don’t know it yet, they’re about to find out. It’s all about confidence. With that said, A314 is a big confidence booster. It will help you get respect and makes you come off as more mature. However it is best when used in combination with more [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) because by itself it can sometimes be a bit overbearing if not used properly. Instant Openess makes people more chatty, and you might benefit from self effects from this and get over some of your social anxiety. Instant Honesty makes you come off as more trustworthy and helps build deeper connections with people. Instant Shine will put a big smile on your face and you may notice people linger around you a bit longer than usual when you have it on. Hope this was helpful and let us know if you have any questions. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 16, 2010, 9:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/6 "2010-03-16T21:02:12Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Pav02! It is a very tricky situation to get out of. I used to say that it’s quite difficult for the men but for us ladies as well. Good times, the men will take you under their wing and ensure that you are on your way to sealing the deal in no time. YOU GC IS ON IT’S WAY! ---
**Author:** ![dpav02](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb9ed0/32.png) [@dpav02](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dpav02)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2010, 3:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/7 "2010-03-18T15:03:05Z")
All, thanks for the info. I think i’ll give that ammo a shot. I feel like that other one (A314) would be a bit too much based on the initial advice. I’m very curious to see if this stuff actually does anything. But I figure ghat with the GC, it’s worth a shot. Can anybody comment about what I should notice by using ammo by itself? And how do you use it? What’s the best / most effective way to apply ammo? And should I go for the oil or spray? Just looking for some help. Thanks for the really good advice so far! ---
**Author:** ![dpav02](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/eb9ed0/32.png) [@dpav02](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dpav02)\ **Post date:** [March 31, 2010, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-dave-from-pittsburgh/37008/8 "2010-03-31T02:28:57Z")
Just ordered [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)! I will let you all know my honest opinion after some testing. I read that article about finding the sweet spot, so I will use that method and observe the results. I’m still highly skeptical and will be honest in what I find. Wish me luck!