# Hello Everbody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 9, 2009, 3:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896 "2009-02-09T15:18:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Alby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@Alby](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Alby)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 3:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/1 "2009-02-09T15:18:37Z")
Hello! My name is Al, I am a 44 yr old guy, married w/2 kids, living in the Midwest USA. This whole world of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) is new to me in the last couple of weeks. I first heard about Dr. Amend’s product, was intrigued, and started doing a little research, which brought me here. I do not do the bar/pickup scene, because I have been happily married for almost 16yrs. What I am looking for, is a little more action at home. My wife & I have a pretty normal sex life, but the 1-2 times a week just isn’t enough. So, I am looking for something to “encourage” her to absolutely not be able to keep her hands off me. Dr. Amend’s product first appealed to me because of the supposed lack of smell. It’s not that I want to lie to my wife, but I don’t really want her knowing that I am using a product like this, because I feel it would sort of defeat the purpose, and possibly backfire. So…I am a little concerned with putting something on that has much of a smell, because that will definitely raise questions. I have never been one to wear anything more that Speed Stick deodorant. Well, that’s my story, and I’m sticking to it. Any advice or recommendations for me? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/2 "2009-02-09T15:21:54Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! Phero’s aren’t just for chasing ladies in bars, they can be really useful in all aspects of your life, including married life. Have a look at Diamond and Bosshank’s profiles…they have links with really good info about guys wishing to improve things with the wife. 🙂 Also, would you mind telling us a bit about yourself and your personlity? It’ll help us point you in the right direction when suggesting phero’s for you to try. Are you shy, outgoing? How do you relate to others? ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 3:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/3 "2009-02-09T15:22:25Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. For your wife, I recommend IFM and TUTH. IFM will make her more intimate with you. It makes her comfortable, relax and love to stay by your side. TUTH will sexually arouse her. It is good to spice up your sex life. IH will make her closer too. It will make her talk more personal to you. Have fun ---
**Author:** ![Alby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@Alby](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Alby)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 3:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/4 "2009-02-09T15:40:56Z")
Hey, thanks for the quick responses. I will look for Diamond and Bosshank’s profiles, and check those out. More about me. I am definitely not someone who would be considered shy. I am a natural leader of people, In our group of of about 6 families, they have given me the nickname “The Admiral” (we all spend our time boating). I am often the life of the party in small get together’s, however, my dry sense of humor is not always funny to everyone. (usually, but not always). I am a very happy person, and participate in a lot of volunteer activities. That’s all I can think of, and probably more than you wanted 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 4:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/5 "2009-02-09T16:06:10Z")
Hello Al Good to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome 🙂 I see you have mentioned about Dr. Amend’s product & do some research on pheros which led to here, that’s great 🙂 I myself is interested in Dr. Amend’s product & will getting one this month just to test it on myself 😉 Ok for your situation, i agreed with jamesbonded recommendations there as those pheros that he selected is suited for your situation 🙂 But if for my opinion, TUTH & [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will be enough for making your relationship much more intimate & closer 🙂 Also you could consider getting Instant Shine as this phero can make you & the people around you feel great/comfortable plus it boost your self confidence too 🙂 I leave it to you to decide on that 🙂 All the best in trying the pheros & see ya 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 5:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/6 "2009-02-09T17:26:26Z")
Hello Al and welcome to the forum. I am about your age but have been married a bit longer. A lot of guys come here with the same idea in mind. Rather than go through all the different products and ways to use them at home I am going to direct you to a thread that talks about all this in detail. Check out the thread in my signature block for married guys. It will discuss all this and a bit more. Once you read that, come back and ask any questions here on ir the forum. I, Diamond or a few others will be happy to answer. Send me a PM so I know when you have posted any questions. Be sure to focus initially on the reconnecting part … ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 12:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/7 "2009-02-10T00:01:46Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I do suggest you check out Bosshanks posts for married guys in his signature above. There is some excellent advice there and it seems to fit your situation perfectly. Now about the smell of mones. Can you guess why Dr Amends products don’t smell ? 😃 Oh they have mones in them just at a very weak concentration. The truth is most synthetic mones have a musky scent if they are molecularly processed correctly just like the natural mones you secrete from your body. So while the good Dr Amend compiled a lot of great info which oddly looks very familiar to me his product is not in the top 5 companies selling mones out there on the net. I will say its not in the bottom 5 either though. The mones here do have a scent with the cover and without the cover. The cover scent is actually important because it diffuses the mones from the body into the air. I know you do not want to tell your wife you are using them but she will notice the scent. I do believe that honesty is the best policy but if your not gonna tell I suggest you think something up LOL . I few suggestions… How about popping down to the mall and getting her some perfume for Valentines day and then tell her they gave you a sample of a new men’s scent there were testing and you thought you would give it a try. You could also just tell her a half truth. Tell her its aromatherapy stuff that enhances moods. You don’t need to tell her it will turn her on. Tell her shaving your face has been irritating and you need some of that stuff men slap on after shaving then you can say that’s what she is smelling when she asks. Its up to you. Oh and if you get caught in just tell her you are trying to keep her attracted to you cause you love her. Now what women would get mad at that ? 😉 **Your GC is on its way** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Alby](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85f322/32.png) [@Alby](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Alby)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 11:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/8 "2009-02-10T11:53:51Z")
Thanks Tisha, and good info BossHank. I think my plan is to start with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) for the daytime, and TUTH for bedtime. I do a lot of sales, and I noticed on one of the threads that IO was decent for a sales meeting type situation. Is that right? Is there a better choice? Would there be a concern with me being too honest and losing my advantage? Thanks, ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 10, 2009, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everbody/25896/9 "2009-02-10T12:32:14Z")
Hi Alby. You’ve read bosshank’s married guys thread, I’m not going to preach about communication being the key, you know that already. Just a word of warning, go slow! There’s a thread around somewhere about a married guy who sprayed 3 shots of Turn up the Heat and climbed into bed, only for his wife to be that shocked by his change of persona that she immediately climbed out the other side. Start with one spray and see how things go. As for Instant Honesty and sales, as long as you are aware and remember that you are wearing pheromones, you will naturally be guarded against saying too much. There are loads of threads around with customers ‘spilling’ their guts and life stories to salesmen. equally, it has been used in poker games, even divorce courts. It will encourage the other person to open up and, as the tagline says, ‘you won’t believe your ears’ If you are a reasonably confident guy, then have a good long think about A314, it really is the king of pheromones if you want to assert yourself on a situation, be it bedroom or boardroom, combine it with one or two of the [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) and you’ll be off to a flying start.