# Hello every one **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 20, 2012, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195 "2012-07-20T10:06:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![In2Ndo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c37758/32.png) [@In2Ndo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/In2Ndo)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2012, 10:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195/1 "2012-07-20T10:06:55Z")
Hello every one, 40 something, married male in southern California. Found this place in yahoo answers in some one else’s question. Here to try and spice up the marriage.. Wife has been through a lot of health problems and things have changed a lot.. I hope google Is not allowed to log this forums. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2012, 10:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195/2 "2012-07-20T10:20:10Z")
Only the private A314 users forum is blocked from Google IIRC. If you have a read of this: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Then give us a bit more info about yourself and your situation, we can offer better advice and you earn the GC to get started with. Pheros will not fix a totally broken marriage of course but they can give you a way to open doors to find a way back to a good place or to simply help enhance the sexual side of things but we need to know just a little more about why you think things have faded. ---
**Author:** ![In2Ndo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/c37758/32.png) [@In2Ndo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/In2Ndo)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2012, 10:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195/3 "2012-07-20T10:49:05Z")
Thanks for the reply. The marriage is not really broken. It has just become boring and dull. She’s been through about 7 surgeries including the removal of her ovaries. There is depression involved and Meds to treat it. We used to be very outgoing, dancing, tequila, weekends away.. Etc. now days she can’t even drink. And I know she’s still in there… So I’m trying whatever I can to get her out. I don’t know what else I could tell you. What product you think I should try… I’ve read in the same yahoo answer that A314 plus Ammunition is a good combination .. Wha do you think ? ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2012, 8:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195/4 "2012-07-24T08:57:58Z")
\*\*\*Welcome In2ndo, That can be really rough and both of you. You because you miss having the woman you loved back and she because she can’t help feeling depressed after having been through all that. I know A314 and Ammunition is a good combination but I am not sure if it’s the correct combination for your situation. We have quite a few [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) experts who came to this forum seeking the same thing you are now, to spice up the marriage and bedroom. Their situation were not exactly the same but they do have a lot of tips, knowledge and pheromone advice that will help the ball rolling in your situation. Pop into the men section and they will be more than happy to assist you. * * * Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2012, 9:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-every-one/56195/5 "2012-07-24T09:08:22Z")
> [@In2Ndo](#): > > Thanks for the reply. The marriage is not really broken. It has just become boring and dull. She’s been through about 7 surgeries including the removal of her ovaries. There is depression involved and Meds to treat it. > We used to be very outgoing, dancing, tequila, weekends away.. Etc. now days she can’t even drink. And I know she’s still in there… So I’m trying whatever I can to get her out. I don’t know what else I could tell you. > What product you think I should try… I’ve read in the same yahoo answer that > A314 plus Ammunition is a good combination .. Wha do you think ? Ovarian surgery can have some significant long-term ramifications on personality and behaviour. I think how much is only just beginning to be understood. I’ve had some experience with an ex-partner who lost just one ovary. ☹ Then the depression/AD issues can compound things further, much further. A314 and Ammo may be useful but A314 can have a commanding/in control vibe that may not go down so well around someone with certain forms of depression. In particular it may amplify any issues with low self-esteem or not feeling good enough and the like. Personally I would initially look for a more social/happy/playful and engaging mood. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Ammo, IO, and IG would be my suggestion and although its not a consumer line product, MX297 is a very social and engaging product that I have found very good around people with depressive/anxiety tendencies.