Let’s just clean this up a bit and try to help you out.
Great resources for couples, right off the bat:
Tisha23 and Bella. I hope they see this thread, and if not I would go and shoot them a quick PM, I’m sure they won’t mind. Secondly, for mens product for their perspective, I would go with asking Steve and Warren for those kinds of relationship based advice.
From experiences, I would go with TUTH for your husband along with Instant Honesty for both of you.
However the Instant Sexiness lines have helped with most women, IS/A is no longer being produced, so your only option would be IS/b v1.3. IS/b is more for everyday wear, and from what I’ve read with women’s experiences, it has helped them in social interactions. Because you’re married and already have that comfort aspect, you might not need it.
You will read that there are other molecules out there for advanced users but I would stay away form it and see how the TUTH and IH work. Remember that these are the consumer products and are designed to work when you’re not constantly thinking about it. It will help enhance the interaction but it might not neccesarily make it better the first time around, there are plenty of other factors that are involved when it comes to those things.
Also make sure to read this if you have any other general questions.