# Hello everybody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 23, 2008, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885 "2008-10-23T20:59:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Garry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bb73d2/32.png) [@Garry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Garry)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 8:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/1 "2008-10-23T20:59:04Z")
Hello everybody! I might be the first member from Finland around here, but who cares! Atleast you got a one finnish member now (that’s a great achievement, congrats!) I’m 19 years old and I live in South-East Finland. In a small town called Lappeenranta. I guess you’ve never heard of it becouse we have nothing here! So what the hell am I doing around here? Well I was surfing in the internet one day when I found an advertisement about “Phiero” pheromone. I’ve always been shy with girls and It’s always been hard to find a good girlfriend for me, eventhough I know many girls like me. So I was really interested in havin’ “a sex appeal in a bottle” as they say in these finnish articles about [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). Somehow at the same time I didn’t believe that the product would do the things that it promised. Even still I kept looking for all kinds of pheromones in the internet. My main question is: Do pheromones REALLY work?? I kept looking for all kinds of videos from youtube about pheromones and I read all kinds of forums and articles and I decided to try it! Then one day I found the [SmartMones.com](http://SmartMones.com).. And now I’ve placed an order for “Turn up the heat” pheromone. I hope I’ll get thst product soon 🙂 Give me some suggestions about which pheromones should I use? I’ve always been quite shy with girls and talking with them is hard. I’d like to know if it’s possible to have girls come to talk with me. I’m looking for girlfriend which means that I don’t have one, I’m still looking. I like to hang out in pubs and nightclubs a lot and I spend my time there almost every weekend. I’m not always shy thought, sometimes (especially after a couple of drinks) I go and ask a random girl for a dance… Sometimes they go, sometimes they don’t. I guess I won’t be able to find a gf from work since they are all living in a relationship. Except customers maybe.. I’m currently a pizza delivery man (I just finished highschool and I’m looking for my next place to study in.) Maybe in future I might use pheromones in school as well but now I’d rather using it in nightclubs and pubs.. ---
**Author:** ![lukester19](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lukester19/32/1953_2.png) [@lukester19](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lukester19)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/2 "2008-10-23T21:18:53Z")
welcome to the forum Gary. In the nightclubs ammo would be a great product. Instant shine and instant openness will help you out also. Instant shine will bring up the mood and instant openness will make people more chatty around you. With the combination of the three it will be great. Be sure to read the stickies and learn what the correct dosages are for you before. Work your way up. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 9:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/3 "2008-10-23T21:35:31Z")
Hi Garry, welcome to the forum! I hate to be a parrot, but once again, Lukester offer great suggestions. Still, to qualify for the gift certificate you need to tell us what type of personality you have-- shy? Outgoing? Also, what are your goals with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)? Romance-- are you in a relationship now? Attracting girls? Business? Tell us, I look forward to your reply! Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![Garry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bb73d2/32.png) [@Garry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Garry)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/4 "2008-10-23T21:43:14Z")
Well as I told you already I am shy with girls and I’m looking for girlfriend which means that I don’t have one, I’m still looking. I like to hang out in pubs and nightclubs a lot and I spend my time there almost every weekend. I’m not always shy thought, sometimes (especially after a couple of drinks) I go and ask a random girl for a dance… Sometimes they go, sometimes they don’t. I guess I won’t be able to find a gf from work since they are all living in a relationship. Except customers maybe.. I’m currently a pizza delivery man (I just finished highschool and I’m looking for my next place to study in.) Maybe in future I might use pheromones in school as well but now I’d rather using it in nightclubs and pubs.. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 9:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/5 "2008-10-23T21:48:21Z")
Welcome all the waaaaayyyyy from the States, Mr. Finland!!!😃 Glad to have you on the forum Garry! Its OK to be a skeptic, we all were at one time or another. I think the more you read thru the forum, you’ll soon realize that pheromones do, in fact, work. At least the ones from Androtics anyways, which is actually a research center. Like Robbie said, tell us a little more about your personality and what, specifically, you are hoping to get from pheromones. Are you looking for something to boost your confidence, make girls talk to you more, make YOU talk more, are you looking for a “good” girl LTR-kind, or one-night-stands, etc. The more information you can give us, the better recommendations we can give you 🙂 I’ll be looking forward to your reply… ---
**Author:** ![Garry](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/bb73d2/32.png) [@Garry](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Garry)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/6 "2008-10-23T21:53:24Z")
Well Long Term Relationship is more my thing but I don’t mind havin’ some one-night-stands either, if the chick isn’t bad. I’d like to have girls to talk with me more since it’s quite rare that they come to talk with me. Somehow if some bottle could carry my shyness away for a while it could help as well. ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/7 "2008-10-23T22:08:53Z")
LOL. I think we were typing our messages at the same time 😃 Ok, given the additional information that you posted above, I have to agree with Lukester and give the same suggestion of Ammo, Openess, and Shine. Instant Shine is a great mood-lifter and people will like being close to your good-vibe aura. Instant Openess will draw people to you and give you that “instant-friend” kind of connection. Sometimes it even results in more chattiness. These two products are good personal-space diminishers which are great for getting to know someone better. They will draw the girls in closer so they can get the effects of the Ammo. You may also want to consider Instant Honesty for when you do find a target girl which will help to create a deeper type of connection than the Openess. Given that you are 19 years old and probably produce a lot of pheromones naturally, save the [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/) for those situations where sex is emminent and use 1 spray on the way to the bedroom. TUTH is pretty “raw” and younger girls can be overly sensitive to the androstenone and react badly to it. It may make you seem “threatening” or aggressive. Save that one for special occasions 😉 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [October 23, 2008, 10:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/8 "2008-10-23T22:14:08Z")
> [@Garry](#): > > it’s quite rare that they come to talk with me. Well, as much as you guys hate it, typically women expect the man to make the first move…could be why you haven’t had much success in the past… Sounds like you do make the first move sometimes, but how do you do it? Are you shy about it or do you knock their socks off with confidence? Confidence is sexxxyy!! The good news is the Shine and Openess should give you a bit of a boost in that department 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 24, 2008, 9:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/21885/9 "2008-10-24T09:18:24Z")
Hello Garry Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Your 19 and TUTH is a little on the strong side for you. Its basically sex in a bottle and is best worn only in situations when you want to turn up the heat. Clubs bars parties or one on one encounters. I suggest you go with AMMO which is attractive sexy mildly arousing and can be worn anywhere. Since your shy some socials will help. IO or CTTM would be good. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its wa** y 😃 Tisha