# Hello Everybody **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 10, 2009, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899 "2009-04-10T01:41:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mrniceguy86](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrniceguy86/32/1119_2.png) [@mrniceguy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrniceguy86)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 1:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/1 "2009-04-10T01:41:37Z")
Hi, my name is Steven. I live in Ontario, California. I’m 22y and I’m a musician (synth, drums, bass) I’ve been playing around with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) off and on for about a year now without much luck. But I’ve decided to give em another shot since now I feel I could really use the help.. my sole purpose here is to learn all I can about pheromones in hope that they can assist me in winning back the heart of the one I love (she left me) and possibly make some new friends along the way. Any help or advice or product recomendations/combos would be much appreciated. I just ordered instant openness,shine and gentleman for a start. I also have a bottle of ammo, I’ve been looking into A314 but Iam not sure If the effects are exactly what iam looking for, but I would like to learn more about it and possible mixes. I hope some of you phero experts can teach me a thing or two. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/2 "2009-04-10T01:44:42Z")
Hi Steven, Welcome. Sorry about the break up. Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? Do you have anybody as your target ? Then we can recommend the right pheromones for you. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/3 "2009-04-10T01:44:46Z")
Welcome Steve. You certainly picked some interesting products. Tell us a bit about your personality and how you relate to people. Also a bit about the personality of the girl of interest. That will enable us to make some suggestions of possible interest. ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 2:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/4 "2009-04-10T02:08:21Z")
Hi mrniceguy/stephen: I’m not sure pheromones will win a woman back for you; they might help depending upon the circumstances. What happened exactly? ---
**Author:** ![mrniceguy86](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrniceguy86/32/1119_2.png) [@mrniceguy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrniceguy86)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 2:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/5 "2009-04-10T02:20:45Z")
Wow, thanks for the lightning fast replies. I Did not expect that. Anyways I’m a rather shy, quiet and reserved but friendly none the less and very outgoing when the moment is right. she’s the same really.. maybe not as outgoing but we are much alike except she’s more of the funny, talkative one. We get along great, never a single fight til the sh!t hit the fan without warning (maybe there was a warning but I didn’t see it) The problem I think Is I’ve been too dominate around her. I made her feel “forced” into things. and at the same time.. I lost the ability to communicate with her like i used to.. In other words I need to quit being an ass and open up a bit so yeah no instant jerk for me lol.. ---
**Author:** ![mrniceguy86](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrniceguy86/32/1119_2.png) [@mrniceguy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrniceguy86)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/6 "2009-04-10T02:37:39Z")
Just to make myself clear, I’m not at all a physically forceful person. I guess I can be mentally.. I don’t see how but that’s how I came off to her. We still talk everyday and technically we are still together, just not intamently. I really think with a change of attitude and few other things.. I might be able to salvage our relationship. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 2:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/7 "2009-04-10T02:37:57Z")
Try IO and IH. IO first. It gets people comfortable around you and gets them talking. If you’ve been too dominant it will tone down that aura. IH later. It also gets people talking but more about heavy stuff and things that are bothering them. I’d lay some comfort groundwork first with the io. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 2:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/8 "2009-04-10T02:48:47Z")
I agree with GWTW on IO and IH. AMMO would be great too. It may make her attracted to you again. ---
**Author:** ![mrniceguy86](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mrniceguy86/32/1119_2.png) [@mrniceguy86](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mrniceguy86)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 3:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/9 "2009-04-10T03:13:41Z")
Thank you for the suggestions, I was originally going to start off with a mix of openness and shine(any advice on this combo?) to help with communication and any negative vibes. sexually I’m very attractive to her (as she’s said “your nearly impossible to resist”) so I really don’t think I need the ammo but I could give it a shot. Thanks again for the help 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/10 "2009-04-10T04:51:59Z")
I’ll give another vote for instant honesty. If the sh\*t hit the fan and you didn’t see it coming, probably some heart to heart conversations are in order. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 10, 2009, 9:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/27899/11 "2009-04-10T09:45:19Z")
Hello Steven, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 You already have a great line up of products. I agree with the members and suggest holding off on the A314 and getting IH instead. It would suit your objective better and IG will up your status and respect vibe enough without making you unapproachable. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** 😉 Hope to see you participating in the forum Tisha Hostess/Guide