# Hello everybody! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 21, 2009, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758 "2009-08-21T20:16:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![WatchThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/edb3f5/32.png) [@WatchThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WatchThis)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 8:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/1 "2009-08-21T20:16:55Z")
Hey guys. Just happened to run into this site but I’m glad I did. I really knew nothing of this whole world until just now. This [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) stuff is pretty darn cool me thinks 🆒. Been reading some of the stickies which are great. So thanks to everyone who did those write ups. They’re giving me a good idea of what products to choose. Now, if anyone can help with a particular situation of mine I’d appreciate it. So I’ve been talking with a certain girl(I am a male FWIW) who I have known for a while. She’s a friend of mines Ex. So I know her but we never hung out or really had any sort of personal time to talk. We’ve talked recently for hours at a time including until the sunrise at one point. Problem is.. she still talks about the ex BF. Not constantly but some. Her friends don’t want her with him nor do her parents, and I think she really doesn’t either. Now we do get flirty but I don’t really want this to be a friends only type of deal So main question, which products could I look to with helping it be a more than friends relationship? I was thinking ammo because it seems like a good beginners but if you have something better in mind please say so. Thanks a lot guys and girls. Looks like an awesome forum 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Ant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@Ant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ant)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/2 "2009-08-21T20:52:18Z")
First off, welcome to the forums 🙂 Ammo is a good beginners product because it is a good stand alone. For your situation i think socials like [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty will help you more if you want to go the - I will talk it out with her route- If you dont want to spend that much $ you can go with CTTM which has half instant openness and half instant honesty ---
**Author:** ![Ant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@Ant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ant)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 8:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/3 "2009-08-21T20:54:22Z")
Tell me a little about your personality and your age - to see what would be really better for u ---
**Author:** ![WatchThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/edb3f5/32.png) [@WatchThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WatchThis)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 9:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/4 "2009-08-21T21:10:25Z")
Oh yeah, Mid-twenties Male Michigan I’m somewhat reserved in general but not when I’m around the right people. For instance this girl knows me as being a little goofy and fun but can hold serious convos. I usually get plenty of looks when I walk in somewhere from guys or girls. Now, my thing is knowing when to push things in certain directions. So maybe a certain product will help it naturally go further? I’m not just looking for sex(not opposed to it either lol) but rather a relationship. Thanks again for helping. ---
**Author:** ![Ant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/85e7bf/32.png) [@Ant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ant)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/5 "2009-08-21T21:25:53Z")
I believe that Instant Honesty and Openness will do you good Instant Honesty improves the quality of your convos [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) improves the quantity of your convos If you want a more sexual vibe i will say go with ammo ---
**Author:** ![WatchThis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/edb3f5/32.png) [@WatchThis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WatchThis)\ **Post date:** [August 21, 2009, 9:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/6 "2009-08-21T21:31:56Z")
Thank you sir. I don’t have any rep power so I gave you a thanks instead 😛 Anyone else please feel free to chime in. Comments, questions or whatever. Just trying to learn a be more a part of this place. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2009, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/7 "2009-08-22T00:27:33Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. As for your case with the girl, I suggest AMMO and TUTH. AMMO is to get her attracted to you, not only as friend. It can also mildly attract her sexually. If you think she is already close and comfortable with you, you can try TUTH. It can bring the relationship to the next level. It will sexually arouse her. Good luck to you ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [August 22, 2009, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/8 "2009-08-22T00:44:16Z")
Jamesbonded has some good advice on the pheros. As regards the ex-boyfriend… have you heard the phrase, “Don’t feed the troll”? In this case, your target’s feelings for the ex are the “troll”. Don’t attack him verbally or try to convince her using logic that she is better off without him. Don’t listen to her complain about the ex, that’ll turn you into her emotional tampon. Instead, when she talks about things that you want her to talk about, reward her in some way, with a gentle touch on the arm, eye contact, pay more attention. Do this when she’s talking about something that interests you or is an “upbeat” subject. If she starts talking about the ex, withdraw your attention. (Don’t be a dick about it, or get angry, just pay attention to something else, or smoothly change the subject.) If it persists, just say something like, “look babe, I enjoy the time we have together, and I want it to be fun for both of us… so I’m not going to let you dwell on your past pain.” Then change the subject. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 24, 2009, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/31758/9 "2009-08-24T16:58:17Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. Currently we are in the process of seeking out an additional forum moderator or two to help with the upkeep of the forum. With that in mind I have already had your GC issued to your email inbox. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.