# Hello everybody:) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 7, 2010, 12:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/36811 "2010-03-07T12:09:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 10
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 7, 2010, 6:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/36811/10 "2010-03-07T18:31:33Z")
> [@ilima](#): > > Hi again Silykitty 🙂 I ordered Instant Sexiness A luckily,but by mistake,coz I understood that is the one for a stronger personality.I actually am very soft,shy type,so I was thinking it will help me be more confident in my self. So what you say is that I have to use similary to my personality,not oposite? I hope I Openess will do the trick and help us comunicate better. And TUTH I wil spray on him then 🙂 What about I Shine,do work on women? Yes, IS/a does work to help you be perceived as stronger, and I’ve noticed that some of the married women here who have tried the opposite one from their natural personality don’t always have good results. Here is an example: [my husband doesn’t like IS-B](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/my-husband-doesnt-like-is-b/36517) Though you never know, just try them and have fun with it. And yes, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) will work on you, it is a great mood lifter. And the Instant Opnenness will help with shyness. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everybody/36811)._