# Hello everyone - 46, Female, Back on Dating Scene... Where to start? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 30, 2006, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993 "2006-11-30T14:38:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 18\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![ladyaf1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e0b2c6/32.png) [@ladyaf1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyaf1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/1 "2006-11-30T14:38:46Z")
Hello everyone šŸ™‚ I am back on the dating scene after being out of it for a number of years. Any suggestions on which [pheromone](https://a314.com/) to purchase first? ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/2 "2006-11-30T15:25:21Z")
Hmm.. I think [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) would do the trick (from what I read youā€™ll be sweeping us men off our feet), but it depends on what you are looking forā€¦ welcome to the forum! ---
**Author:** ![ladyaf1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e0b2c6/32.png) [@ladyaf1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyaf1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 3:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/3 "2006-11-30T15:53:48Z")
Thanks. I am finally ready to turn a few heads and have my ego picked back up! (cheating ex). Will [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) really help the head start turning?? ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 4:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/4 "2006-11-30T16:17:47Z")
> [@ladyaf1](#): > > Thanks. I am finally ready to turn a few heads and have my ego picked back up! (cheating ex). Will Instant Sexiness really help the head start turning?? Good for you! Youā€™ll get back on your feet in no time, Iā€™m sure. šŸ™‚ Instant Sexiness gives you a very headstrong presence. From my own experiences and the feedback weā€™ve been given over the last year, weā€™re thinking of renaming it to something like ā€œFemme Fataleā€. There are much softer [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), too. Do you tend to come off as ā€œtoo strongā€ or ā€œtoo softā€? i.e., are you more of a girly girl or a tuff girl by nature? What do you want to be? ---
**Author:** ![Hmaxim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hmaxim/32/425_2.png) [@Hmaxim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hmaxim)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/5 "2006-11-30T16:34:17Z")
> [@ladyaf1](#): > > Thanks. I am finally ready to turn a few heads and have my ego picked back up! (cheating ex). Will Instant Sexiness really help the head start turning?? I can help you teach him a lessonā€¦PM me šŸ™‚ Now, if I EVER get my orderā€¦šŸ˜  ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/6 "2006-11-30T16:34:19Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > Good for you! Youā€™ll get back on your feet in no time, Iā€™m sure. šŸ™‚ > > Instant Sexiness gives you a very headstrong presence. From my own experiences and the feedback weā€™ve been given over the last year, weā€™re thinking of renaming it to something like ā€œFemme Fataleā€. > > There are much softer pheromones, too. Do you tend to come off as ā€œtoo strongā€ or ā€œtoo softā€? i.e., are you more of a girly girl or a tuff girl by nature? What do you want to be? Hi Ladyaf1 šŸ™‚ its important to know those things,Jasmin, about the nature of the lady wearing it. i can definately say after trying instant sexiness A which matches my personality perfectly, that i am glad i grabbed [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) as well. I wear instant sexiness A almost always, but there are time when i know i will be around someone that really prefers a softer, fluffier (?) persona. thats where i have lots of trouble. so wearing the instant sexiness B i dont have to compromise comming off sexy to be softer (i can be sexy too, for those of you laughing!!!) . i heard the LAM in chocolate is to die for,havent tried it in that scent yet. Lust after me sounds like your comming off as a sexpot but honestly, its more a feelgood-girly vibe. heh, thus the lusting after part šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/7 "2006-11-30T16:36:20Z")
> [@Hmaxim](#): > > I can help you teach him a lessonā€¦PM me šŸ™‚ > > Now, if I EVER get my orderā€¦šŸ˜  wearing TUTH today? šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![ladyaf1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e0b2c6/32.png) [@ladyaf1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyaf1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/8 "2006-11-30T16:44:19Z")
Thanks to everybody for answering so quickly. I have already ordered the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Iā€™m actually pretty strong but have a real shy streak when it comes to meeting guys. I really havenā€™t done this in 25 years and am sort of terrified and excited at the same time!! ---
**Author:** ![nbully79](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c68b51/32.png) [@nbully79](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nbully79)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 6:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/9 "2006-11-30T18:26:42Z")
> [@ladyaf1](#): > > Thanks to everybody for answering so quickly. I have already ordered the Instant Sexiness. Iā€™m actually pretty strong but have a real shy streak when it comes to meeting guys. I really havenā€™t done this in 25 years and am sort of terrified and excited at the same time!! Hi Ladyaf1! Welcome to the forum! Which one did you order mix A or mix B? I guess the default is ā€˜Aā€™ which gives a more tough sexy independent confident woman vibe accordng to reports. Let us now how it works for you. ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 6:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/10 "2006-11-30T18:55:54Z")
Hello Ladyaf1 and welcome to the forum. Yes I think Instant Sexiness will work just fine for you. You should also pick up some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) while your at it. IO really opens the lines of communication IMO. ---
**Author:** ![ladyaf1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e0b2c6/32.png) [@ladyaf1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyaf1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/11 "2006-11-30T20:17:49Z")
I didnā€™t know there was a mix A or B. I just ordered whichever one showed up at the storeā€¦I also ordered some Liquid Sunshineā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![countesszero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/countesszero/32/1392_2.png) [@countesszero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/countesszero)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/12 "2006-11-30T20:24:53Z")
Youā€™ll absolutely love the Liquid Sunshine. ---
**Author:** ![ladyaf1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e0b2c6/32.png) [@ladyaf1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ladyaf1)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 9:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/13 "2006-11-30T21:42:38Z")
I canā€™t wait to try them. How long does it usually take your orders to come in?? ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 10:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/14 "2006-11-30T22:55:42Z")
> [@ladyaf1](#): > > I canā€™t wait to try them. How long does it usually take your orders to come in?? Depends on where you are, what shipping method you chose, and how good the local ā€œshipping methodā€ is. Iā€™ve been known to order on a Tuesday morning and get the order Wednesday (but then, I only live 100 miles away šŸ™„ ). ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [November 30, 2006, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/15 "2006-11-30T23:23:11Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Depends on where you are, what shipping method you chose, and how good the local ā€œshipping methodā€ is. Iā€™ve been known to order on a Tuesday morning and get the order Wednesday (but then, I only live 100 miles away šŸ™„ ). With these criticisms of various shippers dealing with stuff going between Androtics itself and us customers, maybe we should have our orders sent to Mtnjim and let HIM forward them onā€¦ Individual to individual instead of a business to an individualā€¦ Maybe the routing will be better and fasterā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2006, 1:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/16 "2006-12-01T01:07:01Z")
> [@Rbt](#): > > With these criticisms of various shippers dealing with stuff going between Androtics itself and us customers, maybe we should have our orders sent to Mtnjim and let HIM forward them onā€¦ Individual to individual instead of a business to an individualā€¦ Maybe the routing will be better and fasterā€¦ You didnā€™t see my ā€œspoiledā€ thread? My last order took 10 days to go 100 miles (via ā€œCrippled Donkey Expressā€ )šŸ˜® ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2006, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/17 "2006-12-01T04:42:02Z")
One out of many going astray is better than having many go astray and getting one. Okay, so Iā€™m not as eloquent as Confuciusā€¦ And not all of his were winners either. I get my ideas out of fortune cookies most of the time anywayā€¦ . ---
**Author:** ![Mohammad\_Shah](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mohammad_shah/32/873_2.png) [@Mohammad\_Shah](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mohammad_Shah)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2006, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-46-female-back-on-dating-scene-where-to-start/993/18 "2006-12-01T07:09:45Z")
> [@ladyaf1](#): > > Thanks to everybody for answering so quickly. I have already ordered the Instant Sexiness. Iā€™m actually pretty strong but have a real shy streak when it comes to meeting guys. I really havenā€™t done this in 25 years and am sort of terrified and excited at the same time!! Welcome aboard & Good Luck!šŸ™‚