# Hello everyone, coming at you from Sothern California **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 5, 2010, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121 "2010-06-05T04:42:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Aequitas\_Veritas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Aequitas\_Veritas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aequitas_Veritas)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/1 "2010-06-05T04:42:32Z")
Hi guys and gals, my name is Paul, I am a guy and in case you somehow missed the title you just clicked on, I live in the southern region of California (with a U darn it!). I work at a small software company with both guys and girls. I found this site after coming across an article on pheromones and researching them through Google. I have never tried any before and I am looking to make my first purchase soon. I have been browsing quite a bit just learning as much as I can and I think I have a pretty good idea of what I want, but maybe the people on this forum can help steer me to the best choices. So a little background on me. I just turned 26 and I work full time. I graduated San Diego State where i had my share of fun. I have been really busy lately and havnt had time to get out much, but I want to change that more. I have never really been into the club scene so I would want to meet a women at a photography or cooking class or in the park. It will most likely not be in a bar type situation as I rarely drink. In fact, thats probably something else I should mention. I am a medicinal cannabis user. I hope I will not be judged too firmly about that here, but I smoke it mostly for enjoyment. I think its safer then any other ways of altering ones consciousness, but thats neither here nor there. I am looking for someone who would be accepting of that, which recently has been very hard to find. I have not had a date in several years and I am trying to change that. I seem to be able to talk to women with great success and have a number of extremely attractive friends who all love me cause of now nice of a guy I am. But thats the problem, I am always the nice guy that never gets the girl. I get very shy around women I am attracted to and trip up trying to think of stuff to say. But when I know I have no chance, like if they are friends or if they are dating someone, I have no trouble talking to them. I need help with meeting new people and striking up new conversations. I would like to think I am intelligent and am looking for an intelligent girl to talk to. I really want a long term relationship where I can have great conversations and deep connections with someone special. I am the youngest at my work but still quite respected as I am told I have a way with people that puts them at ease. But I am usually quiet when I first meet someone till I judge their personality and see if they will like mine. So the mones I was looking at are a134 big bottle (which was in stock, but apparently isnt anymore, on notify list), ammo big bottle (which im waiting to get restocked as well, and again I am on the notify list), now I am not sure what Instant I want to get, and I might even get more of the smaller ones. I was thinking [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) big bottle, and maybe IH or IO in a smaller spray bottle. Or even maybe even IFM if it came back in stock (but I thought I read somewhere it was discontinued) Why is it all the best products are out of stock?? ---
**Author:** ![celerytree](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/47e85d/32.png) [@celerytree](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/celerytree)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/2 "2010-06-05T05:18:18Z")
Welcome to the forum! No worries, nobody will be judging you here. You’ll find that this is a very open minded forum that is accepting of pretty much everybody. I’ll throw out my recommendations but, unfortunately, they may or may not be in stock. One of my favorites for getting out of the friend zone and avoiding nice guy syndrome is Ammo. It creates a sexy, confident aura that is similar to A314 but more toned down and less intimidating. Create a little bit of sexual tension with some innuendo and you’re golden. As for breaking the ice, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) works well for that. If you can introduce yourself, you’ll find that Instant Openness works as a great conversational lubricant and it well usually get things flowing easily. I also noticed you’re thinking of getting IShine. Get it! It’s one of my personal favorites. It creates a happy upbeat mood and it can be layered on top of pretty much any other pheromone. Perfect for lightening up some of the more -none heavy pheromones like A314. P.S. If the pheromone is out of stock, it’ll usually be back in one or two weeks at the most. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/3 "2010-06-05T05:57:48Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. I suggest you try IG, IH and AMMO. Since you are the youngest in the company, IG can help to make people think you are more mature and older than your age. IH can make the girls closer to you. They will talk more personal and in greater bond. It can help to enhance relationship. AMMO will help to get them attracted to you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Aequitas\_Veritas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Aequitas\_Veritas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aequitas_Veritas)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 6:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/4 "2010-06-05T06:15:08Z")
based on the two responses so far heres what im thinking -IG instead of a314 (big bottle) -[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) (big bottle when it comes in stock) -IS (big bottle) -IH (small bottle) -IO (small bottle) So I can decide if I like IH or IO more (should I go double strength or no?) ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/5 "2010-06-05T06:21:10Z")
> [@Aequitas\_Veritas](#): > > based on the two responses so far heres what im thinking > -IG instead of a314 (big bottle) > -Ammo (big bottle when it comes in stock) > -IS (big bottle) > -IH (small bottle) > -IO (small bottle) So I can decide if I like IH or IO more (should I go double strength or no?) IO is to increase the quantity of conversation whereas IH is to increase the quality of conversations. If you are outgoing and can get into conversation then IO may not be that useful. I recommend you start with 1X strength because it would be easier for you to find your sweet spot. After you knew your sweet spot, then you can decide on 1X or 2X. There are people who have the sweet spot of 1 spray of 1X strength. ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/6 "2010-06-05T07:30:26Z")
Hi Paul and welcome to the forum! As a newbie you cannot go wrong with ammo as it is the best phero for attraction. It also gives you respect, confidence and approachability. For your first purchase I would recommend the socials like everyone else has mentioned - IO, IH, IShine, CTTM2 and also IG. These pheros will help you to gain understanding and experience into what [pheromones](https://a314.com/) can do for you. Mackie ---
**Author:** ![Aequitas\_Veritas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Aequitas\_Veritas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aequitas_Veritas)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 4:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/7 "2010-06-05T16:34:10Z")
When do I get my $25 off? cause i need it before ammo gets back in stock. I am pretty anxious to try these out! ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2010, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/8 "2010-06-05T18:04:05Z")
I am sure Mickaelia will be getting in touch with you shortly. ---
**Author:** ![Aequitas\_Veritas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Aequitas\_Veritas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aequitas_Veritas)\ **Post date:** [June 6, 2010, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/9 "2010-06-06T04:05:32Z")
Well I couldn’t wait to order and I didnt want to pay for shipping twice. So I decided to buy IG and IS right now. This was over $60 and so I qualified for free shipping. Then later when I get the $25 and ammo gets back in stock ill buy that, and IO and IH. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2010, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/10 "2010-06-07T20:46:48Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![Aequitas\_Veritas](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/ed8c4c/32.png) [@Aequitas\_Veritas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aequitas_Veritas)\ **Post date:** [June 8, 2010, 4:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/11 "2010-06-08T04:50:58Z")
Well Mickaelia was so kind with her gift that I ended up getting a big bottle of Ammo, big bottle of IH, big bottle of IO, and a togo of TUTH. Combined with the IG and IS thats on its way I should have quite a few things to try out when they get here. ---
**Author:** ![pherocollector](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aca169/32.png) [@pherocollector](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pherocollector)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2010, 6:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-coming-at-you-from-sothern-california/39121/12 "2010-07-12T06:01:46Z")
Hey Paul welcome to the forum! I would agree with all of the other replies to your original post and start of with the socials like IO, IS, IH, IG since you are new to pheromones. Socials make you an approachable guy to the girls and make them very talkative. Once you find your sweet spot then try mones like TUTH. The mones at Androtics definitely work but it all depends on your sweet spot and how much you use.