Hi Woody welcome to the forum.
I’m sorry to read about what happened.
As for pheros I suggest you consider Ammo, a great all round attractant. A314 is the alpha products that helps build a sexy trust and respect vibe but I am sure you already have this. The social range of instant products could also be beneficial. I can tell you’re a smart fellow, so I suggest you research this yourself in The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any additional questions. Best of luck and let us know about your results. Steve or Mick should be online again soon to hand out gift certificates 