# Hello everyone!!! One I can use in the bedroom with my 40 year old wife. 42/M **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 17, 2017, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174 "2017-05-17T03:04:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/1 "2017-05-17T03:04:24Z")
Just joined this community to find out more about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)… I read some weird stuff about copulins and have had my interest peaked about pheromones. I am a married 42 year old male that is interested in a pheromone that I can use in the bedroom with my 40 year old wife. I would like something that would get her very interested sexually in the bedroom to the point where she initiates sex… which is something she never does. Any help would be appreciated! Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/2 "2017-05-17T03:10:02Z")
Hi Longarm3, Welcome to this forum and thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself to the community. Please tell us a bit more about the issue. Has routine set in? She enjoys sex? She doesn’t initiate, but does she accept your offers? Does she find you attractive? Are there unresolved conflicts or communication issues between you two? Do you think there might be someone else? I am asking that because for many women, [sexual pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) are oftenwise not the only tool that must be used. With that information, it will be easier to give you personalized recommendations and come up with a proper plan. Plus, by telling us a bit more, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. Hope to hear from you. ---
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/3 "2017-05-17T03:18:25Z")
> [@Conjurator](#): > > Hi Longarm3, > > Welcome to this forum and thanks for taking the time to introduce yourself to the community. > > Please tell us a bit more about the issue. Has routine set in? She enjoys sex? She doesn’t initiate, but does she accept your offers? Does she find you attractive? Are there unresolved conflicts or communication issues between you two? Do you think there might be someone else? I am asking that because for many women, sexual pheromones are oftenwise not the only tool that must be used. > > With that information, it will be easier to give you personalized recommendations and come up with a proper plan. Plus, by telling us a bit more, you will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy. > > Hope to hear from you. Hi thank you for your response … I would say that routine has set in. I know she is attracted to me but always comes up with excuses not to have sex. Fir example she is tired or annoyed or her tv show is on or I came to bed to late. There was a time period when she would only have sex after drinking. She has now stopped drinking and our sex life has come to a hault as well. There is nobody else I am not worried that she is cheating on me. Just want her to engage in sexual activity with me again. She will kiss me good night and do oral both give and receive but has no interest in a night of sexual activity. ---
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/4 "2017-05-17T03:19:12Z")
Also do pheromones increase testosterone? Just a curious question. ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/5 "2017-05-17T03:26:08Z")
Ok, so let’s try and bring back some spice. IShine will help boost her mood and make her more upbeat in your presence, this can help with the tiredness. The fact that she’ll give and receive oral shows it’s not that abd a situation, but I suggest you get yourself some Ammo to enhance attraction further. A little bit of [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) can help restore your man-of-the-house status if you thing this can help. Be sure to add some TUTH to your package, itis known to help a lot of married couples bring back the passion in bed. I wouldn’t go for TUTH alone from the get-go, though, put all chances on your side. The gift certificate will be issued to you by one of the forum moderators, by email, once they verifiy your eligiibility, it usually takes a few days. Other users will probably jump in with their own suggestions as well. Regarding the testosterone question, I would suggest you have a lot at the Theory section of this forum where this question has probably been answered, you can also use the search tool. ---
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/6 "2017-05-17T03:28:41Z")
Thank you for your advice. ---
**Author:** ![Spectrum](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/9fc29f/32.png) [@Spectrum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spectrum)\ **Post date:** [May 17, 2017, 3:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/7 "2017-05-17T03:30:25Z")
> [@Longarm3](#): > > Hi thank you for your response … I would say that routine has set in. I know she is attracted to me but always comes up with excuses not to have sex. Fir example she is tired or annoyed or her tv show is on or I came to bed to late. There was a time period when she would only have sex after drinking. She has now stopped drinking and our sex life has come to a hault as well. There is nobody else I am not worried that she is cheating on me. Just want her to engage in sexual activity with me again. She will kiss me good night and do oral both give and receive but has no interest in a night of sexual activity. Hello and welcome here. Would suggest you to go with AMMO 2X and IS , in evening. And TUTH just before entering your bedroom. AMMO will make her mood in evening. Will divert her towards sexual thoughts. IS will make both of you in lighter mood. TUTH is pure sexual product. Use it just before entering your bedroom. This will do the trick. Start with 1 spray each, slowly increase your dose and find your sweet spot. Lastly do things that make her happy. Testosterone levels are known to increase internal [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) level. External pheromone imo do not increase testosterone. Take care ---
**Author:** ![Dee\_A](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7bcc69/32.png) [@Dee\_A](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Dee_A)\ **Post date:** [May 19, 2017, 10:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/8 "2017-05-19T10:19:52Z")
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, Longarm3! 🙂 I see your order was placed and the GC was surely put to good use. 🙂 But let me add recommendations to your goals. You see, women do not always act on vibes that tells them their man is up and ready. On the contrary, women wants to get frisky when they feel like it. So let me suggest you get some of the socials to put her at ease first. IShine does it best. Making her feel that being with you is a bliss, just like the day you two tied the knot. IShine + IHonesty, or IOpenness + IHonesty can be used to bring back the intimate conversations. These mixes, sometimes are enough to make the wife reward the husband with a good night rock. You can even introduce her to mones herself. Check out brasileira’s journal and read her latest testings/exploits. 🙂 ============== _ **Disclosure:** I’ve edited your thread title from **“Hello everyone!!! 42 married male”** to **“Hello everyone!!! One I can use in the bedroom with my 40 year old wife. 42/M”** for topic clarity and forum readability. It’ll also generate more “reads” to your thread. If you want to opt-out simply let me know. Thank you!_ ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2017, 3:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/9 "2017-05-20T03:06:48Z")
Nice to see you got your GC. Please consider starting a journal of your adventures so we can provide you with help and guidance along the way. ---
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2017, 11:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/10 "2017-05-20T11:56:48Z")
Thanks for the advice and gift card… I tried p134 yesterday afternoon which came free with my order of TUTH . I noticed my wife feeling comfortable around me and as I left for work gave me a very long hug and a very, very passionate kiss. It sure if that was related to p134 but that was out of the ordinary. Usually just receive a quick peck on the lips from her when leaving the house. Later before bed I trite TUTH two sprays.. my wife was tired but hugged a bit and that was it nothing special or obvious from the TUTH other than waking up in the middle of the night to the sound of my wife laughing hysterically in her sleep which doesn’t really ever happen. Not sure if there is a relationship between that and the TUTH. Should I try using TUTH during the day time as well? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2017, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/11 "2017-05-20T16:24:42Z")
For the record, how many sprays of P134 did you use? It probably was a 5 mcg /spray dosage bottle? Of course you can try the TUTH during daytime 🙂. Just remember it’s a sexual product, so use it smartly, context-wise, at first. Thanks for reporting your observations. You can create a thread in the men’s journal section and regroup all your testing results there. ---
**Author:** ![Longarm3](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8e7dd6/32.png) [@Longarm3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Longarm3)\ **Post date:** [May 20, 2017, 4:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/12 "2017-05-20T16:56:21Z")
I used two sprays of the p134. I don’t know what strength it is. And later in the evening I used two sprays of TUTH and two hours later added another. Wonder if I should use p134 and TUTH together? ---
**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2017, 1:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/13 "2017-05-22T13:15:03Z")
Regarding the strength, it is written either on the label, or on a sticker under the bottom of the bottle. When you have mastered and understood each product solo, any combo is worth trying, but doing it before you have achieved that will hinder your comprehension. ---
**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\ **Post date:** [May 26, 2017, 11:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone-one-i-can-use-in-the-bedroom-with-my-40-year-old-wife-42-m/67174/14 "2017-05-26T11:48:11Z")
Hi Longarm3, Did you get just the TUTH and the P134? I am 37 and typical use 1 spray of TUTH in my daily mixes so yes you can use it for daily use, just start very low because the TUTH can be very funny and easy to actually get negative reactions because it can be perceived as coming on to strong. I don’t know if you got the [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), but would use this one for day to day and general use around your wife and use the TUTH for bedroom use and keep testing. My wife just hit 40 and I agree the sex is pretty routine a lot of the time and I have to get creative. What has helped me in addition to the mones is to put her in the mood and once I do she will initiate more often. Usually this involves bringing her flowers once in a while and rubbing her feet down with some lotion before bedtime. Things like this have gone very far in making her initiate the sex much more often. If you want some really good info I would look at Jdub’s journal at his mix 1 and mix 2 as they are based on TUTH. They do involve single molecules which do not have the same guarantee, but you will see what works. I would test what you in the mean time for now.