# Hello everyone... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 8, 2008, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655 "2008-11-08T11:24:22Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MrDalton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47774/32.png) [@MrDalton](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrDalton)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/1 "2008-11-08T11:24:22Z")
I’m a 31 year old male from SoCal. The first [pheromone spray](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/) I tried was about 8 years ago which turned out to be nothing more than a waste of my $30. I’ve been skeptical ever since. Curiosity led me here and I must admit after reading some of the post I’m becoming convinced they work. I’m starting a new job next week working with mostly females my age and younger and was considering trying the instant female magic. Any suggestions… ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 11:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/2 "2008-11-08T11:28:26Z")
Hi Mr Dalton, welcome to the forum! you have come to the right place here. We all know that there is a lot of snake oil at other places but here you get the real stuff. Tell us more about yourself so we can give you accurate recommendations. What do you want to achieve with pheros? Why did you choose [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) so far? Do you want to use pheros mainly at work? have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![MrDalton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47774/32.png) [@MrDalton](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrDalton)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 11:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/3 "2008-11-08T11:46:14Z")
Well I’m single and I guess what I’m trying to achieve is creating a situation that makes it easy to talk to and get to know the women around me. ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 11:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/4 "2008-11-08T11:56:14Z")
ok. i forgot to ask - do you also want to attract the girls or do you just want to meet new people there and socialize? if the latter is the case you might also try Instant Openness to make the people around you chatty (which is not always a good thing at work) or Instant Honesty which gives them a feeling of connection and deeper conversation. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) is to make them comfortable around you but it doesn’t necessarily makes them want to talk to you more. If you also want attraction then i recommend Ammunition which is good as well for socializing as for increased affection from the ladys. please read this post to see what the different pheros can do for you: > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been able to write this. Men’s Pheromone guide I have gotten a few requests for a men’s Pheromone guide an… ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 12:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/5 "2008-11-08T12:48:34Z")
Hello MrDalton, Great to have you here in Pherotalk 🙂 Sorry to hear about your previous phero product that did not work on you, that is probably some snake oil scam. It is good that after reading some posts from here, you are more convinced with the pheros here & decided to join 🙂 Ok for your work situation, i would suggest you try out A314 + [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) as this two suit well in a work environment. A314 is used to give its users respect, high status & trustworthy kinda the alpha male & Instant Openness is used for better, smoother & easier communication between you & the person you are talking to 🙂 And yes the Instant Female magic that you are interested to get is used to make girls calm & feel comfortable being around you just to let you know there in case you want to get it. AMMO is also recommended by me too if you want to get sexual attraction there 🙂 Hope my info help you there & see you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MrDalton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47774/32.png) [@MrDalton](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrDalton)\ **Post date:** [November 8, 2008, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/6 "2008-11-08T21:12:19Z")
Thanks guys, you’ve been a great help. I’ll make sure to post my results. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 9, 2008, 11:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/7 "2008-11-09T11:05:10Z")
Hello MrDalton. Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 So your starting a new job, Thats great. I suggest you start with something a little different then IFM unless of course you think those women will be bitches LOL Ishine and IO would be good Ishine for a charimatic warm upbeat vibe and IO to break the ice and cause more comfort and interaction. For something masculine go with IG for a repectful, trusting, mature, knowledgable vibe. Now lets get you qualified for your GC so you can get started. Whats your personality like ? Are you shy or outgoing, easygoing or more intense ?? Whats you main objective for mone use ? And if you remember what was it you used before that you didnt like so we can sort of get a feel for what went wrong and why ? Looking forward to your reply Tisha ---
**Author:** ![MrDalton](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e47774/32.png) [@MrDalton](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MrDalton)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/8 "2008-11-10T02:23:56Z")
Hi Trisha, Thanks for the reply. I believe that the pheromone spray I used was called Attractant 10. I didn’t really know anything about pheromones and the description led me to believe that a couple of sprays would have would attract females like moths to a flame. I soon realized it doesn’t work like that. I’m a pretty attractive guy so I’m used to having girls looking at me (I hope that doesn’t sound too conceited) so I if the spray had anything to do with that. As for my personality, I’m kind of shy and quiet. I’ve been told that I appear arrogant but its really just shyness. I never approach a girl I find attractive because I don’t know what to say, but when I’m approached I don’t have a problem holding a conversation. After doing a little more reading about the products, I agree the Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would probably be a better fit for me, especially at work. I guess my main objective is just to get girls to approach me and want to talk to me. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 10:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/22655/9 "2008-11-10T10:33:06Z")
Hi, Thanks for providing more info. 😃 IO and Ishine are great choices, You may want to consider AMMO which can be worn everywhere and smells really yummy on a man to increase attraction as well. They have to-go size to try things out. I look forward to chatting with you in the forum **Your GC is on its way 😉** Tisha