# Hello everyone **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 22, 2009, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277 "2009-04-22T17:52:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kymera](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kymera/32/177_2.png) [@Kymera](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kymera)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 5:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/1 "2009-04-22T17:52:41Z")
There are excitement butterflies in my stomach and I’ve just started. Hello everyone I am 30 years old female living in the great state of Virginia. Northern VA very close to our nations capital. I am about to make my first order after lurking here for a while. Actually, this must be the first Forum that I have joined, 🙄 well EVER. so I hope this is a great experience. And I hope to add something to the all ready warm community. I can’t really say that I have any questions, not until I order and really try things on. I am very intrested to know how long items take to ship. Oh and I guess, can I should I wear my favorite perfume over or under it? Thanks, K ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/2 "2009-04-22T18:03:05Z")
Hi Kymera, and welcome to the forum!! I’m glad you’ve decided to come out from lurking and join us!! I don’t know if you have used any of the phero products or not, but if you could give us some information about your personlity and how you relate to people, as well what kinds of things you are thinking of using pheros for, then we can advise you about which pheros would be best for you. It will also help qualify you for the $25 gift certificate that you can use to buy pheros with at the SmartMones store. Warm regards, Sillykitty ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/3 "2009-04-22T18:38:30Z")
hey welcome! like sillykitty said, if you want to qualify for ur 25 dollar gift cert. to use it for ur next purchase, u should tell us a bit more about yourself 🙂 ur personality, where u want to use pheros what kind of effects etc etc. also, just out of curiousity, which ones have u ordered? do u have any questions about them? let us know 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 6:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/4 "2009-04-22T18:50:31Z")
Hi Kymera: Welcome to the forum; it is always good to have another woman around (to share info & reports, etc). I’m 40-ish, married, and my favorite phero products are [instant sexiness b](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and instant honesty (the latter I like because I’m an introvert and it makes talking to people easier). So, what did you order, and why? ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/5 "2009-04-22T18:51:56Z")
Heya K, welcome to the forums. I’m A. 😉 This was actually my first forum as well… i’d kind of avoided them in the past, since it seems to me that they were just kinda pointless. Online conversations instead of in-person ones, ya know? But after being on here for awhile i’ve found the huge difference. Yes, it’s not in person, but it’s with a MUCH more diverse group of people who have alot of advice and quips to offer from their experiences. Anyways, sorry for jacking your thread. 🙄 The girls have asked the questions you wanted to know, so lemme answer yours. Yes, you can wear perfume over your phero’s. Actually, it can help them diffuse if your perfume diffuses well. Now if you spray your perfume on right after your phero’s, you’ll get a light [Neroli](https://a314.com/product-category/scented/androtics-neroli/) (orange) note added. If you want to avoid that, spray your phero’s on, wait 10-15 min, then spray on the perfume. The Neroli note will have died down by then and should be much lighter, if noticeable at all. Hope to catch ya around the forums! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Kymera](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kymera/32/177_2.png) [@Kymera](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kymera)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/6 "2009-04-22T18:58:05Z")
Sooooo… What’s my personality, Well I guess what others saw it that i have a dry sence of humor, I can be very out going or very withdrawn. It really is a toss up on how I feel in the situation. I think it might help me open up a bit more as well. Lettme get this straight though, I know this is not a magic product. but I am fully aware how a new dress or a great pair of shoes can make a person feel like they can conqueor the world, so why not a phero? I really want to use this product to me new people. I would like to go out by myself and have others drawn-in to talk to me. At bars at clubs at museums, or just walking down the street. You know. Not just guys, but that would be a bounus. 😉. I am pretty nice to look at but I think some people think I come off intimidating and well e can’t have that. I am looking to buy Instant openness now and I want to get one of the [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). i ust don’t know which one to buy. I want to but then TODAY for next day delevery 'cause there is a party I wanna go to on saturday!!!:o ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/7 "2009-04-22T19:11:29Z")
hey! thanks for letting us know 🙂 honestly, [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is one of my favorite products. although instant openness is a great product (and esp if u want to come off more friendly and etc..i have the same problems so its okay 🙂 ) i still think u should start out with instant sexiness. also for the party, i always spritz on some instant sexiness for those and the hits are great 🙂 u’ll really like it. so.. i guess if ur thinking of only getting one to start off with, i recommend instant sexiness 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/8 "2009-04-22T19:11:44Z")
Thanks for the info!! Instant Sexiness/B would be good for you, because it will give you a softer sexiness and make you more approachable. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will facilitate conversation, from both males and females, and Instant Honesty will give depth to conversations and make people more comfortable opening up to you. If you have any more questions, just ask! ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 22, 2009, 9:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/9 "2009-04-22T21:09:12Z")
Kymera, welcome and good luck. Excellent advice you have received here 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 23, 2009, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/28277/10 "2009-04-23T18:08:02Z")
Hello, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Great suggestions from the members. I suggest [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) its great to start out with. IO and Ishine are also great for increasing interaction with others and feeling of well being. Yes you can wear your own perfume either over or under your mones. They do come scented with neroli. It drys down light and clean. Order processing takes 24 to 48 hours usually in the 24 hour period and shipping it depends on what you choose but usually its 1 to 2 business days. If you need help let us know. **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide