Hi Jace and welcome.
You were created to enjoy women – why not! 
Jace, if you want to have fun and enjoy yourself then a whole range of pheros can be used to target exactly what you are looking for. Instant Shine will make you feel light and happy, Instant Gentleman will help make you smooth, Instant Honesty and Instant Openness will help draw people to you and assist with communication. For the night life of cali I suggest Ammo and turn up the heat (if used properly, read more about this)
Jace, check out this, and elsewhere on the forum and tell us your thoughts.
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168
Tisha will swing by soon and hand out gift certifcates. Cheers 