# Hello everyone!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 29, 2009, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396 "2009-05-29T23:16:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Bobblehead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a88e4f/32.png) [@Bobblehead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobblehead)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/1 "2009-05-29T23:16:54Z")
Hi all. My name is is Joe and I’m from “sunny” Florida! I just recently found out about these products . My friend had a coed " pleasure party" where they sell lotions, oils, toys. I saw a product called [pheromone oil](https://a314.com/product-category/oil-pheromones/) and it stated it attracted the opposite sex. So I decided to look it up online and I’m glad I did. There is so much science behind all of this. It’s all very interesting. There are so many different products out there . Where do I start? I’m glad I found this website. I’m 29 and not a good conversation starter and my confience/self esteem needs some 🙂 help. Hopefully the users and info on here will guide me. ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/2 "2009-05-29T23:21:36Z")
Hi there and welcome to the forums. I believe it was most likely “Primal Instinct”?? From Passion parties I believe?? Could you please let us know a little more about your personality so we can better suggest a product for you? ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/3 "2009-05-29T23:29:11Z")
Hello Joe, Sunny Florida! I have visited a few times, I miss that place. Joe, can you tell us more about you, your personality and what results you want from [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)? This way we can provide recommendations and you will qualify for the gift certificate that Tisha kindly provides. If you’re keen to jump in the deep end and get started, I suggest you have a nice long read of [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any questions. Cheers 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/4 "2009-05-29T23:33:26Z")
Hi and welcome! To get you started, first we need to know some info about your personality and how you get along with others. Also, what kinds of purposes were you thinking of using pheros for? What kinds of effects do you hope to see? ---
**Author:** ![Bobblehead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a88e4f/32.png) [@Bobblehead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobblehead)\ **Post date:** [May 29, 2009, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/5 "2009-05-29T23:51:40Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi and welcome! > > To get you started, first we need to know some info about your personality and how you get along with others. Also, what kinds of purposes were you thinking of using pheros for? What kinds of effects do you hope to see? Well I get along with people great I’m just way to quite. I’m fairly laid back and not to much bothers me. In the past year I’ve lost about 65lb which helps a little with my confidence level. I feel great but I just lack in self-esteem I guess. I think I just need a little attention from the opposite sex to get me going. I leave near the beach and there are lot of clubs and other night life activities where I like to usually visit. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 12:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/6 "2009-05-30T00:02:56Z")
Joe, I think Ammo would be great fo you to start with, this is an excellent all round attractant. Also, the combination of Instant Honesty and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) works great for me in these environments (and at work). Helps me feel comfortable around others, and them comfortable around me. A lost of guys your age, really value A314 for helping with confidence and self-esteem. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/7 "2009-05-30T00:08:34Z")
As AlexanderG said, Ammo would be perfect for you to start with. It will give both your confidence and your sex appeal a boost. If you have trouble starting conversations, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is a great ice breaker. Although, you do have to help, but it really does get the people you are interacting with much chattier. In fact, sometimes you can’t shut them up, lol! If you could only start with two, those are the two you should get. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/8 "2009-05-30T08:39:36Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Congrats on your weight lose 😉 I agree with Alex and SK. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and IO would be great for you to start with. Ammo has a sexy attractive interesting vibe and its mildly arousing. IO will help break the ice and add comfort and ease to socialization. If you have any questions just ask. I hope to see you in the forum **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Bobblehead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a88e4f/32.png) [@Bobblehead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobblehead)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 9:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/9 "2009-05-30T21:46:48Z")
thanks for all the advice! I saw that there are on the go bottles. How much is in these products compared to the full bottles? Is there enough to use a few times so I can get the feel for them? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 9:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/10 "2009-05-30T21:53:44Z")
> [@Bobblehead](#): > > thanks for all the advice! I saw that there are on the go bottles. How much is in these products compared to the full bottles? Is there enough to use a few times so I can get the feel for them? Thanks Each to-go bottle holds about 40 sprays, which is definitely enough for you to get a feel for it. ---
**Author:** ![Bobblehead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a88e4f/32.png) [@Bobblehead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobblehead)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 10:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/11 "2009-05-30T22:25:23Z")
Now I’d I was to try 4 products together what would be a combo to start or is that to many at once? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 30, 2009, 10:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/12 "2009-05-30T22:28:15Z")
> [@Bobblehead](#): > > Now I’d I was to try 4 products together what would be a combo to start or is that to many at once? Start with each product separately, on its own, until you understand the effects. Once you understand them all separately, you can combine them. ---
**Author:** ![Bobblehead](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/a88e4f/32.png) [@Bobblehead](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bobblehead)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/13 "2009-06-03T19:12:33Z")
ok…i just got my order in! Also thanks for the bonus gift with my purchase! i now have instant honesty, openness, shine, turn up the heat, and ammo. The first time im going to use the products will be this weekend. Im going to a club/bar on the beach. Always lots of people but its mostly an outside setting with lots of room. Do i use a combo of the products like ive been reading some poeple here do, or do i stick to one product? Im still pretty confused with these products and need a liitle giudance. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 3, 2009, 7:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/29396/14 "2009-06-03T19:17:36Z")
First, try each product on its own. Start with one spray for a day, interact with others, see what happens. If nothing, try two, the same way. Do this until you get the effect you want, then do the same thing with the other products. Some people only need one spray of a certain product, others may need three or four. Anbd every product is different, with one you may only need one spray, another you may need three. Once you are familiar and comfortable with each product, you can comine them to get the effects you want. Be careful not to use too much, it can cause an OD, and people may shun or ignore you.