# Hello everyone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 18, 2010, 6:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351 "2010-02-18T18:41:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PharaohNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@PharaohNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PharaohNoob)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 6:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/1 "2010-02-18T18:41:58Z")
Hello everyone! I’m a reasonably athletic guy on the cusp of 30 - it’s a scary time, maybe a mini-midlife crisis of sorts and perhaps I can partially blame it for looking to [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for help. Just kidding, I’m really not taking it that bad. I live in TN, and despite the reputation some of the folks around here justly deserve, I’m neither trying to pick up my sister nor my second cousin! Personality-wise I am very easy to get along with, usually pretty mellow, quick-witted, and am very good at making people feel at ease and/or entertained once I know them. Where I struggle a little more is usually in approaching women whom I am sexually interested in. I discovered this website by chance, I think originally I got some spam-mail from pherozone or something similar and decided to do some research on the subject, which quickly brought me to androtics as being the authority on stuff that actually works (but I’m a skeptic and I’ll believe it when I see it). I was recently in a short but intense relationship which ended because things were going too fast for her. Since then we have remained close and have even discussed possibly getting back together, but as time goes on I am growing more and more wary of falling smack into the god-forsaken ‘friend-zone.’ Now wouldn’t that be a calamity?! 😮 Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy hanging out with her, but frankly friends I have a-plenty and there was a deeper connection there which I kinda miss. I’ve spent some time going over various forums and discussions, and have tried to learn from the phero-masters out there… So here’s the plan of action: - a couple drops of A314 to help wipe off the stench of desperation and to bring her back in closer. - I was considering IO to further increase the comfort zone, maybe in conjunction with IH could be fun to play around with. - A dab of TUTH to steer her away from the ludicrous idea that I don’t want to do things to her. - I hear evil rumors that IFM is no longer available… but that there is something that works similarly (A1? No wait, that’s steak-sauce… though if things go REAAAALLY well… I’ll keep some by my night-stand just in case and whipped cream for desert)? I think I’d probably start off with just the A314 as a base, and gradually add more and gauge her reaction as time progresses. Just for the record I am hoping things go well with this girl, but am fully prepared to move on if they don’t… so I also want an arsenal that will help me get out there and meet new women. I would love to get any suggestions from those of you (that’s all of you) who know more about pheromones than I do. Thanks! P.S.: I know you get this a lot, but kudos for running one of the best/most pleasant forums I have encountered. ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/2 "2010-02-18T19:00:03Z")
I would suggest starting with [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) for a cool got it together swagger, Instant Shine (2x concentration) to put you in a great socializing mood, Instant Openness (2x) or CTTM2 to help break the ice and get a conversation rolling, and Ammunition for a sexy vibe to keep you out of ‘best friend zone’. Welcome to the forum and good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/3 "2010-02-18T19:03:45Z")
Hi and welcome to the forum! A314 is more of a confidence and respect phero product, not really intended for romance. You could actually soften it with a social phero such as Instant Honesty or Instant Shine, but I would recommend Ammo for you for now. Ammo will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment. To re-establish that bond, go with Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty add depth and intimacy to conversations, and causes people to feel more comfortable around you. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is more of an ice breaker, good for getting conversations started. It won’t necessarily bring you closer, but it will make people chattier. Turn Up The Heat is best used when sex is already in the air, like in a nightclub or with a woman who is ready to take it further. Worn at the wrong time, you may come off as a pervy horndog. I hope this helps! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2010, 9:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/4 "2010-02-18T21:24:04Z")
Hi PharaohNoob! and welcome to the forum, I highly recommend you get [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) ([AMMO – Sexual Attraction Pheromone Cologne For Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/ammo/)): because it is a great all-around mixture, which women senses as attractive and has that light sexual vibe, definitely the first choice as your foundation, to also, keep you away from the LJBF zone. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/5 "2010-02-19T00:17:29Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any questions you might have regarding moons. Please call Steve personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![PharaohNoob](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/aeb1de/32.png) [@PharaohNoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PharaohNoob)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 2:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/6 "2010-02-19T14:42:52Z")
Thank you to all who posted. It seems the general consensus is on Ammo, so that’s definitely going to be my first purchase. I like the results I’ve heard describing IH also, and I’m too curious not to try TUTH. The one thing I’ve found very little info on so far, however, is the A1. Something of an ‘anti-bitchiness’ mone? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 19, 2010, 4:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/36351/7 "2010-02-19T16:36:06Z")
Androtics does not carry that particular product, but I believe it is available over at Love Scent.