# Hello everyone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 1, 2010, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743 "2010-07-01T03:51:24Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![andy8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/94ad74/32.png) [@andy8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andy8)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/1 "2010-07-01T03:51:24Z")
I just came across this pheromone thing from surfing the web a little bit. After checking out your forum, I got every intrigued and decided that I will try some of that stuff. I’m a 21 year old white male from Canada. Personally, I wouldn’t call myself shy at all. I have no problem talking to the hottest girls out there without giving out any kind of nervous signs. I usually feel calm and relaxed no matter who I talk to. Part of it might be that I developed a lot of confidence/self-belief through my co-op internships which involved me interacting with CEOs of various multinational companies and talking to millionaires for work on regular basis at the age of 21 and younger. However, what it might be is arrogant confidence, i’m not entirely sure. But I also try to smile a lot and act humble in regular settings. My problem however is in clubs and more or less parties. I can always get drunk and look like a fun guy. A lot of people told me that I’m a crazy partier. So i feel comfortable in that atmosphere, but I just can’t walk up to any girl and start talking to her to get it to the next level. My conclusion is that I’m shy in those particular situations. Maybe its approach anxiety? Anyway, the point is I feel comfortable talking to girls of any age and looks, but I have trouble turning it on sexually in a conversation and just striking up conversations with strangers in nightclubs. I have looked into all the PUA stuff, but i’m not really interested in doing the routines and patterns, especially considering that almost EVERYONE in my university heard about Mystery Method and The Game. And really, I don’t see myself as someone that talks manipulatively to get what he wants. Big thing I might mention is that I am not a big talker. I only talk about whatever pops into my head and when I’m in a nightclub and trying to approach a girl, there are times when nothing really pops into my head and I run out of things to talk about. So, long story short, being a student I am kinda broke and don’t have a lot of money to spend on buying 3-4 different [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). So for my situation would you say that AMMO is the best product to try on its own for going to nightclubs? I’m looking for something that will get girls interested in me and want to approach and talk to me with sexual arousal (yeah, looking for magic formula there 🙄, i know), but maybe at least anything that comes closest? I also read that these things can cause negative effects from friends and males. I’m not really looking to lose any friends anytime soon, so would you say using AMMO be quite safe in that regard? And also, is AMMO too strong for females age 19-25 and maybe there is something better out there that you could think of? Really appreciate any of your help. ---
**Author:** ![funtimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f08c70/32.png) [@funtimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/funtimes)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/2 "2010-07-01T04:09:12Z")
Welcome to the community. You should try ih and io its a great mix. I love ammo it makes me feel like james bond. I dont care what anyone thinks and I feel smooth with it. Try it and see if it works for you, get the sample bottles of what you want to try and remember you do get a 25 gift cert for being on here for the first time. ---
**Author:** ![andy8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/94ad74/32.png) [@andy8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andy8)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 5:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/3 "2010-07-01T05:48:20Z")
Hmm, so you use ammo for your own confidence and IH/IO to get other people to open up to you? ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/4 "2010-07-01T06:40:48Z")
Hi Andy, welcome to the forum! For your situation, check out Ammo, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty. Ammo will give your confidence and sex appeal a boost, its a great attraction product. Instant Openness will help with the approach anxiety thing, it will relax you and those around you and conversation will flow more easily. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, others will feel more comfortable around you and more likely to trust you and open up to you. I must tell you, don’t bring up sexual talk too soon with most girls you meet in the clubs, its actually a big turn-off. I used to be heavy into the whole club/party scene, the whole promoters/VIP guest list thing, etc, etc, and for me and my friends, guys who came on too strong too quickly didn’t get very far at all. We would flirt a bit and maybe give our phone numbers to guys who were fun and not trying to only get into our pants. Most girls need to get to know a guy a bit and feel comfortable with him, (and not feel like they’re just a piece of meat to a guy) before going to bed with him. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![andy8](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/94ad74/32.png) [@andy8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andy8)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/5 "2010-07-01T14:50:50Z")
Awesome thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 1, 2010, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/6 "2010-07-01T22:18:47Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Andy! We have more than enough information here Andy and I know you will find some product and a method that works for you. The fun in these babies is testing and discovering new things about the products and yourself. I hope to see you around. Your gc will be issued soon! ---
**Author:** ![funtimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f08c70/32.png) [@funtimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/funtimes)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2010, 5:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/39743/7 "2010-07-06T05:42:38Z")
I dont know about anyone else but ammo makes me ready to do things. Like if i have to be somewhere on time it makes me leave on time. I am not shy on it and I have tons of confidence.