# Hello everyone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 8, 2011, 2:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666 "2011-12-08T14:08:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![DirtyHarry14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@DirtyHarry14](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DirtyHarry14)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2011, 2:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666/1 "2011-12-08T14:08:11Z")
Hi! My name is Jeff and I’m 31 years old from Charlotte, NC. I’ve spent most of my life as a fairly shy type of guy, never really had the confidence to approach women in malls or bars. I’m focusing on trying to project myself as a suitable mate but it just seems like all the women I meet are seeing straight through it. Recently I had one particularly bad experience at a party my friend was hosting. I had been speaking with a cute girl about what we thought was going to happen with the NBA (go bobcats) and as far as I thought things were going ok. Well I guess they weren’t because before I knew it some typical bleached hair jock sat down and started talking to her, and less than 5 minutes later he was kissing her in front of me! Anyway this has inspired me to try [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to and hopefully give off some of that “alpha” vibe myself so I when I’m in this situation I at least have a chance to fight for her. I’m hoping to mix A314 with maybe IO to help me break the ice with groups of girls so I have my choice of who I want. I often have trouble approaching girls (hence why I was so upset I lost a good one) so along with some practice I’m hoping this mix will serve me well. I’ve been doing a lot of research lately on pheromones and am more than happy to talk though PM with anybody who has good ideas/suggestions or just wants to chat about it! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2011, 2:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666/2 "2011-12-08T14:38:43Z")
Hi Jeff - Welcome to pherotalk. If you are thinking-on using A314/IO together, then you are on to a right waste of product as IO is in fact the product you use to tone down/reduce the A314 vibe. Go and have another read of the product pages - this is highlighted. Otherwise, A314 is a great status product but it is not exactly an attraction product by itself. It does however convey some very attractive qualities that particularly appeal to those looking for a LTR/something more serious. As you are approaching your 30s, A314 can be very useful with women around the same age and older in high-status/high-impact attraction mixes with TUTH but around younger women it can come-off as too serious/standoffish/unapproachable. You may find products like [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), IS and/or IO better. A **small** amount of A314 with Ammo can also be a very useful mix - a very all round sexy/social/status vibe and Ammo/IS is one of the best attraction mixes there is. 🙂 Have a read of this thread for all the basic info you need on choosing and using pheros effectively. > [@An Introduction to Mones: Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Duration](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003): > > Welcome to an exciting world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/). By joining our community you have taken a HUGE step in progressing a science that is cutting edge and still in its infancy. This community is globally important in recognizing pheromones, and Neuroinfluence Technology ? and their impact on human communication. There are thousands of posts here and thousands more users. Each one of us, including you, adds a unique dynamic to the community from our individual perspectives, experiences and our research an… ---
**Author:** ![DirtyHarry14](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/9fc29f/32.png) [@DirtyHarry14](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DirtyHarry14)\ **Post date:** [December 8, 2011, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666/3 "2011-12-08T16:08:40Z")
Thanks for your input Mobo, that is some very good information. I think you’re right about the ammo + a314 being a solid combo so I might give that a try and gauge my results. Hopefully I’ll have good experiences to report back here! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [December 9, 2011, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666/4 "2011-12-09T05:57:40Z")
Welcome Dirty Harry!!! 😃 I like the recommendation of A314 with AMMO. If you want more of a sexual inclination to the mone vibe, you could also try TUTH. The cool thing about these mones is the ease of use in applying them on your skin, what’s called layering around these parts, to get the vibe that you wish for… I do wish you well with these and would like to see what you do get with them! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 12, 2011, 2:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53666/5 "2011-12-12T02:00:27Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Dirtyharry! A314 is good and I recommend that each man on this forum try it at some point. However, if you are shy then A314 will not work as well as it should but you can work up to it by using IG for trust and to give of that cool more mature guy vibe and Ammunition for a confidence boast. Lol, that story was a little funny but even with Alpha males something like that can happen just depends on what type of girl she is and of course each situation is different. _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _