# Hello everyone :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 22, 2011, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865 "2011-12-22T23:55:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Enso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/bbce88/32.png) [@Enso](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Enso)\ **Post date:** [December 22, 2011, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/1 "2011-12-22T23:55:07Z")
Hey guys, let me just start off by saying I am total pheromone virgin. I recently found out about the alleged powers of pheromone’s and have found so much conflicting information so im hoping you guys can help! About me: I’m a 20 year old male student from England and im not ashamed to admit that my fundamental attraction to [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) is that i am hoping they will help me get laid in a club/night out situation 😃 Im an attractive guy (no trying to sound arrogant, this is what female friends have told me) but i generally suffer from low self esteem and shyness. I have a hard time initiating the conversation with females i meet on a night out, and when i do it usually goes one of two ways: she acts cold/unreceptive and i slink off awkwardly, or we end up in a decent conversation but i fail to close. Im lucky enough that when im out once in a while girls will come up and talk to me, or sometimes ill gather up the balls for a cold approach, and when that happens i can hold a conversation (nothing great, just standard 'what do you study, where you from etc) and flirt with her but i find it really difficult to get things to that physical stage. I guess im what most people would call a ‘nice guy’ and i have a hard time playing that ‘arrogant/cocky’ role that women are suppose to love. Its often the case that ill be out with friends i end up as ‘the quiet one’ of the group, especially when theyre talking to another group of girls. Sorry for the long winded intro! so, to sum up: mainly looking for something to help with the transition from talking/flirting to making out/bringing home, but also something that can help with general shyness/social skills on nights out. Thanks for reading, looks like a great community you guys have here! (p.s. im not expecting pheromones to be some kind of miracle, if possible could you suggest what kind of results i can expect to get?) ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 12:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/2 "2011-12-23T00:17:10Z")
Hey Enso, I read over your situation. I think the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will be fun for you but thats only 10% of the equation! Yes they can help you with confidence and approach anxiety but a big thing is coming out of your comfort zone. But the biggest step you already took, that is realizing where you stand and improving. This community is all about improving ourselves! For example, rather then asking a list of questions and showing your overly interested try having a conversation on a fun topic, something she would have an opinion on. Imagine how many times people have asked her the same questions, do something to stand out and your golden. Eventually she will ask you questions, then you get playfull.. tease her! I have a friend that says the most outrageous things to girls, sometimes hes shot down but when hes not he gets crazy opportunities and respect. Its a test for him, hes filtering out who is uninhibited from those who are uptight and shy. He’d rather the first option 😉 I suggest you try out ammo and IO for your parting adventures. They will help you get that sexy attention along with helping you with that approach anxiety. Those around will want to chat more too! ---
**Author:** ![Enso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/bbce88/32.png) [@Enso](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Enso)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/3 "2011-12-23T00:49:30Z")
Thanks for the advice and quick response! There’s been a few times when ive been out and ive been feeling pretty confident for one reason or another and i find myself ‘in the zone’. Its a great feeling and im hoping some of these mones can help me get into that ‘zone’ more easily! i’ve been reading some of the threads on this forum, would you guys that suggest someone my age stays away from TUTH? What are the main differences between ammo and TUTH? > [@TwistedOstrich](#): > > Hey Enso, I read over your situation. I think the pheromones will be fun for you but thats only 10% of the equation! Yes they can help you with confidence and approach anxiety but a big thing is coming out of your comfort zone. But the biggest step you already took, that is realizing where you stand and improving. This community is all about improving ourselves! > > For example, rather then asking a list of questions and showing your overly interested try having a conversation on a fun topic, something she would have an opinion on. Imagine how many times people have asked her the same questions, do something to stand out and your golden. Eventually she will ask you questions, then you get playfull.. tease her! I have a friend that says the most outrageous things to girls, sometimes hes shot down but when hes not he gets crazy opportunities and respect. Its a test for him, hes filtering out who is uninhibited from those who are uptight and shy. He’d rather the first option 😉 > > I suggest you try out ammo and IO for your parting adventures. They will help you get that sexy attention along with helping you with that approach anxiety. Those around will want to chat more too! ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 12:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/4 "2011-12-23T00:55:32Z")
[Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) has more ingredients for respect and socializing where as tuth is more for the bedroom, mostly just the sexual ingredient. Some people can just use TUTH being social but they probably had some skills to begin with. ---
**Author:** ![Enso](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/bbce88/32.png) [@Enso](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Enso)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/5 "2011-12-23T01:57:29Z")
Ahh i see! if i were to apply these products before i go out would the effects last all night or would you recommend getting the ‘togo’ spray and topping up throughout the night? ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [December 23, 2011, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/6 "2011-12-23T02:18:17Z")
Definitely try things out with the to-go’s and see if you like them.. I’d check to see if the prices go down in the new year for the bottles ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 27, 2011, 9:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/53865/7 "2011-12-27T21:57:57Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Enso! I agree with twisted that the following products Ammo and IO are gonna do great for you to start of with. Now, your are still young and producing a good amount of pheromones. These two products should help you build enough confidence to get to the point where you want You might want to try a bottle of tuth and give it a go only in a highly sexual environment or you are sure the evening is headed to the bedroom _ **Your gc was issued!🙂** _