# Hello everyone! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 5, 2012, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55500 "2012-05-05T00:08:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Llira](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eada6e/32.png) [@Llira](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Llira)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2012, 12:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55500/1 "2012-05-05T00:08:45Z")
Hi peeps, I’m a single guy from Singapore in my late 20s. I’m a pretty nice, easy-going guy, average looks, but somewhat shy. I only tend to engage in conversations with people I’m comfortable with. I was looking at what could help me get a bit more self confidence and attention from the ladies, and after reading about pheromones it seems to be worth a shot. Most of my Google searches brought me to this forum, so here I am! I’m looking for a suitable pheromone(s) to wear both at work and socially. My workplace is mostly females in the range of 20-40, so at work I’m just looking to get a bit more respect and trust. There are a couple of cute girls (early-mid 20s range) too so getting a bit of action with them wouldn’t be too bad as well 😉. Socially I hang out with friends (with a few single girls in the mid-late 20s range), mostly chilling at quiet places with drinks or occasionally hitting the clubbing scene when we feel like it. I was thinking of getting Alpha A314, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and possibly Ammo, but I’m open to any recommendations. Thanks for any help! ---
**Author:** ![Hydro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hydro/32/329_2.png) [@Hydro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Hydro)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2012, 12:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55500/2 "2012-05-05T00:22:55Z")
Hi Llira, You are definitely on the right track with the Products you are planning to buy. A314 is a work staple for me and will defiantly give you the respect you’re looking for. The only thing you might present a challenge is initiating conversation as A314 can intimidate people a bit, instant shine will help overcoe that, instant honesty may be another good buffering option too. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), although great for adding a sexy edge to your desirability may be a bit much for your younger work mates. If you haven’t already, do a forum search for ‘Asian’ as there are some great specific threads on this. Welcome and have fun. ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [May 5, 2012, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55500/3 "2012-05-05T00:56:59Z")
Hi there, Thats cool that your from singapore.Im from malaysia so pretty near to you.Haha,your personality sounds pretty good.I can understand being shy.I used to be very shy although not so much anymore. (^\_^)Hmm,you may want to look into some instant openness to help with the shyness.Makes people more chatty so its a bit easier to start and hold conversations with people your not comfortable with. Haha,for work.A314 or instant gentleman are both good ones.A314 is a more im your boss and you should listen to me type vibe while instant gentleman is a more relaxed i should listen to him because he knows what he is doing vibe.Both are pretty good for work,although instant gentleman is better if you want to use it for socializing as well.For chilling and clubbing,then ammo should be good for you but not really suitable for work.Instant shine is a good one to pair up with stuff but instant openness would be better if you want to help with your shyness.Instant honesty is good also once youve hooked them and want to build a connection and is good to pair up with A314 or instant gentleman for work to get more trust like hydro said.Haha,in the end its up to you what you think would fit you better.All the best and good luck with your [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) journey.Its going to be fun(^\_^) ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2012, 10:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55500/4 "2012-05-09T10:54:14Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Llira! You are grasping the concept but still have some research to do. A314 is one of those products that is best when its congruent with your personality If you are shy you should work up to it by using products like IG and Ammo which gives a confidence boast and you can wear daily. Read the thread in my sig by Steve for new users on mones which will help you better decide which products to start of with and for your situation. _ **Your gc was issued!** _