# Hello everyone!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 23, 2012, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954 "2012-06-23T13:55:35Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![PheroMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@PheroMark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroMark)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2012, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/1 "2012-06-23T13:55:35Z")
Hello! My name is Mark; I’m a 50 year old (which freaks me out, it seems like I was 30 something just yesterday!) male from Minnesota. I’ve been married for 25 years, but we’ve been more like room mates for the past five years because my wife has lost all interest in sex. 😮 I’ve tried almost everything in the book to get her horned up, but nothing has worked. I’ve been thinking about leaving her, because this is no way to live, plus I seriously need to get laid! The other day I ran across an ad for [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) in a magazine and I thought this may be my answer. I did a Google search, found this forum and joined up right off the bat! Hopefully pheromones will save my marrage. If they don’t work on my wife and I end up single again, I’ll need all the help I can get; I’m very shy and quiet until I get to know someone. I have a heck of a time talking to women I don’t know (in fact it was my wife who made the move on me, twenty six years ago). So one way or another I hope pheromones can help return my sex life. :o Does anyone have any thoughts? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![\_moko](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/_/0ea827/32.png) [@\_moko](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/_moko)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2012, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/2 "2012-06-23T17:41:42Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! Time flies, doesn’t it 🙂 Sorry to hear about your situation with your wife. What comes to pheromones they are not magic pills. They alone wont chance your wife feelings towards sex. However they can be one tool in your arsenal. TUTH is products that screams sex. I have found it to be very good product in long time relationship. ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2012, 5:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/3 "2012-06-23T17:54:12Z")
Hello Mark, Welcome to Pherotalk… While I think pheros can help your situation, they wont be the only remedy here. I presume that your wife is of similar age and therefore near or just past menopause ?! Women may loose interest in around that time due to fall in hormone levels etc…Since she has been your partner for the last 25 years, I suggest you have a candid conversation with her about this. Some medical attention and maybe some hormone replacement therapy would help in bringing back the urges and the lost vitality. You should be able to gently persuade her to see a good doctor. Meanwhile throw that “leaving her thoughts” out of the window… that wont be necessary. You can also get TUTH, and maybe some Instant Jerk + Some [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Shine. TUTH gives you wet panties… Instant Jerk is just a high andrestenone mix which gives off the virile young stud aura. Youth generally has high andrestenone levels compared to older men. But it can also make u behave a bit cocky and rash…(just like those days when u were 18 😛 ) so I am suggesting Instant Honesty and Instant Shine too. Honesty and Shine are comfort builders… If u wear Jerk alone, she is probably going to wonder what happened to the man i knew for the last 2 decades.. Honesty and Shine will help retain the existing comfort with you while highlighting the youthful vibe projected by jerk. Even with TUTH, using shine with it will help in your wife responding better to the sexual arousal which follows in its use. ---
**Author:** ![PheroMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@PheroMark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroMark)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2012, 7:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/4 "2012-06-23T19:26:48Z")
Thanks for the suggestions Guys! My wife is two years older than me, so she most likely has gone through menopause. Unfortunatly, she outright refuses to talk about it and won’t see a doctor. I’ll give pheromones a shot to see if she reacts to them at all. If not, it’s time to move on… ---
**Author:** ![Gingiber\_Pardus](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/dfb087/32.png) [@Gingiber\_Pardus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gingiber_Pardus)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2012, 11:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/5 "2012-06-24T11:37:44Z")
> [@PheroMark](#): > > Thanks for the suggestions Guys! > My wife is two years older than me, so she most likely has gone through menopause. > Unfortunatly, she outright refuses to talk about it and won’t see a doctor. I’ll give pheromones a shot to see if she reacts to them at all. If not, it’s time to move on… 25 years, and because your wife no longer feels like having sex with you, you want to walk… I think there may be deeper rooted issues that mones alone can not solve for you and your wife. She obviously is not comfortable discussing her lack of sex drive with you or her Dr. Maybe she doesn’t fancy you any more? Relationships change, as do people in them. I understand not having sex must be incredibly frustrating for you, but from your post it appears that it is a bunk up or divorce court? IMHO this attitude will most likely to apparent to your wife, who seems to have lost her sex drive not her marbles. Have you tired rekindling the romance? Taking time to enjoy each others’ company? Taken time out the rat race to chill and explore what the future holds for you both? Mones so work, but they are not a replacement for consideration/tenderness/understanding and self reflection. ---
**Author:** ![PheroMark](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ccd318/32.png) [@PheroMark](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PheroMark)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2012, 1:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/6 "2012-06-24T13:45:50Z")
> [@Gingiber\_Pardus](#): > > 25 years, and because your wife no longer feels like having sex with you, you want to walk… I think there may be deeper rooted issues that mones alone can not solve for you and your wife. She obviously is not comfortable discussing her lack of sex drive with you or her Dr. Maybe she doesn’t fancy you any more? > > Relationships change, as do people in them. I understand not having sex must be incredibly frustrating for you, but from your post it appears that it is a bunk up or divorce court? IMHO this attitude will most likely to apparent to your wife, who seems to have lost her sex drive not her marbles. > > Have you tired rekindling the romance? Taking time to enjoy each others’ company? Taken time out the rat race to chill and explore what the future holds for you both? > > Mones so work, but they are not a replacement for consideration/tenderness/understanding and self reflection. Dude, I feel you’ve misunderstood me, I’m not the bad guy here. I’m actually a kind, considerate, understanding guy (so I’ve been told)! Trust me; I’ve tried “rekindling the romance”. I’ve tried everything in the book (except pheromones). Nothing so far has helped much. This isn’t just about her sex drive. Her mood swings from very kind one minute to monsterously mean the next. I think you may be right; she just doesn’t care for me anymore. She’s brought up divorce several times during the past several years, so I guess maybe I should take the hint! I’m very sorry that this thread has taken a bad turn; I was just looking for new things to try to save my marrage. Maybe it can’t be saved, if that’s the case, maybe "mones’ could help me find wife #2 😮!!! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [June 25, 2012, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/7 "2012-06-25T09:35:08Z")
I agree with Gingiber - there is something more than mones can help with here. Simply piling-on the androstenone (TUTH & IJ) in the hope it will get her horny may well have the exact opposite effect. If her attraction has faded to the levels you suggest, all it is very likely to do is to get her wound-up angry and drive her further away from you. Even in a passionate relationship, overt none at the wrong time can be worse than useless. If any mones can help you, it might be something more social like IS, IH and maybe IO - IH can help with getting her to open-up and be comfortable talking, whilst IS can help steer the IH into happier/more playful territory, as IH on its own can bring out the bad as well as the good. This may at least get you on to a track where she may consider counselling or some other form of re-bonding. IO is a lighter more generally chatty/talkative feel that can be a bit superficial in comparison. It might be worth thinking on A314, which signals status and may reminder of qualities she has forgotten. Once these mones have begun to work and you are getting more positive signs from her, **then** might be the time to introduce the overt none. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2012, 2:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/55954/8 "2012-06-26T14:40:59Z")
Welcome Pheromark, What you are dealing with is expert advise and ppl speaking from experience Women are wired that if emotionally they are angry, sad , depressed, feel neglected or hurt then they are not going to respond sexually You act like you and your wife living like roommates for the last 5 yrs only affects you and think how she might be feeling and I hope that you have communicated not that you want to get laid badly but that you do miss her touch and that closeness , bond and sexual intimacy that was there Pheromones are a start but it can’t work on some issues that may be happening in your marriage I suggest you talk to the married men and women on this forum for more advise and tips on how to get where you want to be with your wife and possibly save your marriage _ **Your gc was issued!** _