# hello everyone **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 12, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106 "2008-02-12T19:38:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SekiRei](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sekirei/32/1322_2.png) [@SekiRei](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SekiRei)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2008, 7:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106/1 "2008-02-12T19:38:05Z")
I’m a 19 year old male, Caucasian, and live in Northern California. I would say I’m here to better my communication skills with women. Thats not to say I freeze up when it comes to women, but its that initial approach and fear of rejection I fear the most. I guess when it comes down to it, fear of rejection is a guys biggest fear, right? Well for me it is. Once I get past that first step though, its always smooth, I have no problem keeping a long relationship and keeping a girl interested in me, its just in the beginning, I lack social confidence. Its weird. Sorry for rambling so much. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2008, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106/2 "2008-02-12T22:59:40Z")
Hi SekiRei! welcome to the forum. Yes, the fear of rejection strikes all of us at times, and it’s great to know you’ve got a little pheromonal edge. You may experience some self-effects too from the products that will help you feel more adventurous and prone to take action. IO would be a good general social one to try, particularly since you’re on the younger side and probably produce a good bit of androstenone already so extra androstenol helps to balance that out. It lightens moods and makes conversation flow more easily. For a more romantic/sexual vibe (that’s still work-appropriate) take a look at Ammo, which comes as a complete well-rounded masculine [pheromone](https://a314.com/) mix in a nice cologne base. hope you have fun here and let us know what you end up ordering with your gift certificate! Carrie ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [February 12, 2008, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106/3 "2008-02-12T23:47:11Z")
Hello Seikei and welcome to the forum. At your age I would recommend [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) - some thing to make you seem a little older and cooler. After that I think Carrie has a very good idea with IO. It wil help you open up conversations. Let them do the talking while you are thinking of something to say. Then I think a little Instant shine to make everyone happy to be around you even if you are not saying much. Hope this all meakes sense. Ask any questions if you have them -we are happy to help. ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2008, 1:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106/4 "2008-02-13T01:48:22Z")
Welcome Seki! That lack of confidences is not weird at all, but very common! So no worries! All the products mentioned by Carrie and Bosshank are great for your situation. Instant openness will unfreeze you and others around you. Instant gentleman will give u enough confidence that you won’t be afraid of rejection anymore. Instant shine and ammo can also be considered, since shine will gave everyone a better mood and ammo is a great attraction product 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [February 13, 2008, 12:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyone/9106/5 "2008-02-13T12:16:26Z")
Hello Welcome to the forum 🙂 Great advice for the above posters. If you have any questions just ask. We look forward to your participation. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 Tisha