# hello everyoneee, excited to start experimenting... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 11, 2013, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199 "2013-10-11T20:33:29Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![infinitecuriousity](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/i/94ad74/32.png) [@infinitecuriousity](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/infinitecuriousity)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2013, 8:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199/1 "2013-10-11T20:33:29Z")
hello! i am 16, female. i’ve been reading into the science behind [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) lately and i’m just really interested and excited to test these out and (hopefully) see a difference. and i have a few questions; i struggle with some social/general anxiety, depression, and ADD. what product would be best to help me with these issues? i do take two different medications on a daily basis for these issues, is there any negative interactions with certain meds? next question, i am in a relationship (~1yr) and i love this boy, i’m crazy about this boy, but there are times when i wonder if he’s equally as crazy about me. he’s on my mind often and i wonder if i’m on his…i guess i want to drive him crazyy in the best way possible. more affection, attention and time is all i want from him. any help here is appreciated, thankss (: ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2013, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199/2 "2013-10-11T21:27:16Z")
Hello Infinite! Short answer. Many suspected pheromones are believed to influence behavior through unknown means. We know that the molecule affects the brain somehow. Perhaps it modulates neurotransmitters. You can search on neurosteroid or about the book Scent of Eros from pheromone pioneer JV Kohl. He has some videos on YouTube with a very simple theory on how mones work. He feels they affect endocrine hormones in the reproductive process. And, yes, mones like alpha nol (in IH) occur naturally on the human body. Yes, some medications affect the brain and therefore how we perceive mones and emotions. However, these things are not taken internally (not like pills). As a result, negative reactions are rare. I would seriously consider IH. It can greatly improve communication, trust and bonding with your guy. It also as very few reports of any problems, when used up to 3 sprays. You can try one with a GC. It comes with a satisfaction guarantee. There are many good products, but I’m making a conservative suggestion with IH, mostly because it has a massive number of user reports from women over many years. Many of these were women who also take ADD meds. If you like the product, you can try others, including [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Sexiness. I’d like for you to have a positive experience to start, and Honesty has been a top seller with girls for years. Search here for more info: > [@Instant Honesty self-effects: one spray lifted my bad mood in 5 minutes](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-self-affects/51208): > > Hi everyone! I’m new to this but thought I would post on how [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) seems to affect me. I’m sitting at home alone and very pissed off at my friends with benefits guy so I get to thinking about how I need to find me a man. I go to see what pheromones I have left and discover I have EOW and a few sprays of Instant Honesty. I spray one spray of the Instant Honesty on top of my left hand to check the smell. I come back to my computer and logon to pherotalk to see what pheromones I can a… `http://www.pheromonetalk.com/tags/instant%20honesty.html` ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [October 12, 2013, 6:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199/3 "2013-10-12T06:54:19Z")
Instant Shine. I’d get Instant Shine to help a bit with the anxiety not directly though. I use Instant Shine to get myself out of my shell and to be more engaging with people, it relaxes me which helps me not to worry as much. Then as monesmademedoit suggested I’d check out Instant Honesty or [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) to help people open up to you AND for the self-effect along the same lines. If you’d like to feel better about your self-image Instant Sexiness is worth investigating too. Welcome to the forums! ---
**Author:** ![Staggerlee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/staggerlee/32/984_2.png) [@Staggerlee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Staggerlee)\ **Post date:** [October 13, 2013, 4:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199/4 "2013-10-13T16:02:51Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > Instant Shine. I’d get Instant Shine to help a bit with the anxiety not directly though. I use Instant Shine to get myself out of my shell and to be more engaging with people, it relaxes me which helps me not to worry as much. > > Then as monesmademedoit suggested I’d check out Instant Honesty or Instant Openness to help people open up to you AND for the self-effect along the same lines. If you’d like to feel better about your self-image Instant Sexiness is worth investigating too. > > Welcome to the forums! I’ve found lately that IS is giving me headaches almost as soon as I apply it. I don’t know if that means i should give it a rest for awhile, but probably. It’s one of the pheros I like the best for its self effects (better than a cup of coffee!) when I am not OD’ing on it as soon as I use it. IO and IH are good suggestions, especially for me as a writer, I tend to get a LOT of things written when I use these together which is quite cathartic. I have found that if you were suffering from depression that getting your pain on paper (or type) helps unravel whys and hows and solutions to explore to rid yourself of the negative emotions. Shine creates a temporary uplift, and its nice. But as SteveO said once, Pheromones are not medications. Also, I’ve found myself on the downside of Shine becoming quite depressed, and mind-locked and tongue-tied. I wouldn’t say don’t experiment with it, but if you already have high highs, and low lows, meddling with it in this way might be detrimental. I’m not a doctor, and I’m by no means a pheromone expert, but I can only say what I’ve experienced. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 5, 2013, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-everyoneee-excited-to-start-experimenting/60199/5 "2013-11-05T16:22:32Z")
Welcome infinite, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!