# Hello! :) Excited for change! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 28, 2013, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339 "2013-10-28T12:45:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![GLAMforSAKEN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f17d59/32.png) [@GLAMforSAKEN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GLAMforSAKEN)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 12:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/1 "2013-10-28T12:45:00Z")
Hello! I’m 25. I live in New York. My roommate told me about this website and i wanted to check some out some fun [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) for myself 😉 A bit about what i’m looking for… i would like something to help rid me of my CRIPPLING anxieties. It is causing hardships in every area of my life and i really need to fix this. (On a side note – i think i naturally give off some kind of energy - or pheromone, perhaps - that makes people really open and comfortable around me. Friends are always very honest and telling with me. People i barely know tell me secrets all the time – so much so that it’s actually very strange! I don’t mind lol, however i definitely am not looking to ENHANCE this more haha.) I am in a long term relationship. Things are pretty stable but i would like to add some of the passion from the beginning of our journey back into our lives. I want new and exciting again. Passion and flames! Hoping pheromones can help me with the changes i am looking for. Looking forward to experimenting! 😃 ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 1:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/2 "2013-10-28T13:47:17Z")
Hi GLAMforSAKEN, welcome to the forums. For products that might spice your relationship back up, you have 2 in the instant sexiness line. There’s A and B, and from which I remember A is a more “vixen” type vibe and B is more of a “kitten” type vibe. You can decide which suits your personality better. For your crippling anxieties… You can always try a little something like instant openness. It sounds like you have a little of “instant honesty” in you already since people are telling you secrets, but openness will be a little more of a small talk type [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) which might help. ---
**Author:** ![sharkndragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sharkndragon/32/426_2.png) [@sharkndragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sharkndragon)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 2:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/3 "2013-10-28T14:35:37Z")
Hey glam, welcome 🙂 Could you help us out a bit and tell us a little more about your anxieties? There are a lot of pheromones available that have some unique self effects that could potentially help you out, but without knowing what your issues are, I can’t point you in the right direction 🙂 Also, tell us a bit about your personality. As roland mentioned, the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) line can suit both A or B types. If you’re open to the idea of your man trying pheromones out too, check into Ammunition and Turn Up The Heat (TUTH). Ammo is a social/sexy great for a lot of different situations, and TUTH is very focused on bedroom activity. This will enhance how you feel about his presence, and in turn, could really spice things up on his end as well. Please post back, let us know what you’re thinking, and if you have any further questions. ---
**Author:** ![GLAMforSAKEN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f17d59/32.png) [@GLAMforSAKEN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GLAMforSAKEN)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 3:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/4 "2013-10-28T15:26:49Z")
Hi guys! Thanks for responding 🙂 Will [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) help ME to feel more open!? The biggest problem is in me being honest and open on MY end, generally. Certain things are especially hard for me… things that make me feel vulnerable, i guess… all more difficult than necessary. It’s very frustrating. Perhaps i just need to feel more comfortable “opening up.” I think that’s why i’m so curious about the idea of the Instant Openness! I never even thought of this problem in that way! Def an intriguing suggestion 🙂 I also have anxiety about job interviews, professional phone calls… things of that nature… again, very frustrating. Def has put me at a hault professionally. I think i’m willing to try out Instant Sexiness A. Obviously i’d like to enhance the ballsy vixen in me. Meow 🙂 I want to take the reigns. I have it all in me somewhere. I just need push 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 3:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/5 "2013-10-28T15:42:03Z")
Hmm… IO will make you chatty and has been called “verbal diarrhea” in some cases. It has been a long while since i’ve done any testing with IO or actually been a while since i’ve observed IO effects. It’s very good for small talk. You can have it affect yourself if you apply it in areas close enough to your nose, so your hair or neck will work, but your forearms will affect you less. I don’t believe pheromones will make you open up in a “ILY” sense. That’s something to me seems a bit more like you need to work on yourself - your character if you will. Nothing wrong with you, I don’t know you but I don’t think any pheromone in the instant line really fits that type of bill. However, for things like job interviews, something like a dab of instant shine will definitely lighten up the mood. I believe IG is technically a social rather than [sexual pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/). It can definitely alter your mood in a way that’s unexpected but in a beneficial way. However, things like anxiety in your job is best solved with yourself and not a quick fix like pheromones. Pheromones are meant to enhance you, not be a magic bullet to fix something you find problematic. Sorry if this isn’t quite what you expected. Hopefully you can stay around a little longer and learn from the more experienced users in the female tips and advice portion of this forum. ---
**Author:** ![NeithSpell](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/neithspell/32/2264_2.png) [@NeithSpell](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/NeithSpell)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 4:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/6 "2013-10-28T16:01:08Z")
welcome! ---
**Author:** ![GLAMforSAKEN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f17d59/32.png) [@GLAMforSAKEN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GLAMforSAKEN)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 4:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/7 "2013-10-28T16:05:04Z")
Okay now IO sounds like a nightmare haha. Well anyway. I can still try IS 😛 ---
**Author:** ![rolandcubed](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/b782af/32.png) [@rolandcubed](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rolandcubed)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2013, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/8 "2013-10-28T18:38:00Z")
Haha thank you for not taking what I said too seriously. This is a thread in the mens section (it might be sticked in the womens section as well but I didnt look). > [@What works: BUSINESS APPLICATIONS (sales, meetings, etc)](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-works-business-applications-sales-meetings-etc/220): > > Okay, I figure I’d start some threads aimed at SPECIFIC topics, and ask for SPECIFIC recommendations. Please post your BEST products/applications/mixes that you have developed for BUSINESS APPLICATIONS (sales, meetings, etc) Please post things that have worked, not just idle speculation. Please note possibly pertinent information such as ages (yours and “targets”/“test subjects”), environment, etc. And do what would you think if your mix (or someone elses mix) were turned into a general roo… I looked, and if you take a quick look you’ll see a number of female posters saying that A314 is perfect for business and whatnot. Now I’m not one to say that it won’t work for women just because I’m under the notion this is a product designed for men, but I do recall the webpage selling this item as “think of it as an all access pass to people previously out of your league” In terms of business, this sounds perfect to me. It might be perfect for you. Others in the thread suggest IH for trust and it sounds like an item that might be worth considering for your purposes. While these pheromones do have self effects, the effects on others might boost your confidence enough to help you out with your anxiety. Take a look, if you have any more questions please feel free to ask us. ---
**Author:** ![GLAMforSAKEN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f17d59/32.png) [@GLAMforSAKEN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GLAMforSAKEN)\ **Post date:** [October 29, 2013, 1:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/9 "2013-10-29T13:59:59Z")
That’s pretty interesting! I’m reading through the forum now. I don’t see why one couldn’t wear a scent made for the opposite sex. Seems like an added “be taken more seriously” punch! I love it. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2013, 1:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/10 "2013-11-02T13:07:31Z")
Welcome Glam, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![GLAMforSAKEN](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/f17d59/32.png) [@GLAMforSAKEN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GLAMforSAKEN)\ **Post date:** [November 6, 2013, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-excited-for-change/60339/11 "2013-11-06T09:47:59Z")
Hi! I received. That you so much! 🙂 Can’t wait to start experimenting.