# Hello for the $25 :p **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 23, 2010, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513 "2010-06-23T05:57:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dreamwolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@dreamwolf](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dreamwolf)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/1 "2010-06-23T05:57:34Z")
Age - 32 Race - white Gender - Male Location - Midwest USA Personality - Not much of a conversationalist, to the point when talking. Recovered from depression due to previous divorce. Jumped too quickly into another relationship. Somewhat geeky though people don’t get that from looking at me. Why am I here? - Trying to rescue relationship that is on the brink of failure. Primary reason for failure - unfaithfulness by both members of the relationship. Honestly, I think I need some really heavy mojo to pull this off and not sure [pheromones](https://a314.com/) can pack enough of a punch to help. Target stats Age - 34 Race - white Gender - Female Has PCOS - meaning higher testosterone and DHEA than typical female subject. Also means higher libido though this has been presently knocked out by an SSRI. I’ve already started using Dial Magnetic, and ordered some M-11. There may well have been an increased level of talkativeness from just the dial (I use it in the hair and let it soak as well as dabbing it on afterwards) when we went out to a new restaurant yesterday. I would probably only order small quantities at first to test, and if it seems to pack a punch I will definitely order more. Thinking I might see if she’d want to try some oxytocin nasal spray before we go out 😛 Thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/2 "2010-06-23T07:09:34Z")
It’s hard to use pheromones in these situations. Look for some posts of jessejester, I see he’s looking at this now so maybe he’ll put his two cents in, I remember reading some of his posts regarding his ex. I would try tuth, and instant honesty for your situation. It’s just since you already know here you want to try to get the most intimate with both of you laying everything on the table. No amount of product will help solve your problems, these pheromones may or may not bring out what you two may or may not what to hear from each other. These can’t change feelings already there, they can only help bring it out or enhance it. Now if she feels like she can still work things out with you, IH might help, but once it’s done, it’s done. I do hope things work out and you do try these products, but don’t just expect them to do the work for you. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/3 "2010-06-23T08:47:07Z")
Hi dreamwolf, welcome to the forum! For your situation, definitely check out Ammo, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) and Instant Shine. Ammo will give your confidence and sex appeal a nice boost. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, and also help to create and strengthen emotional bonds and trust. Instant Shine is a fabulous mood booster, and will lift your mood as well as the moods of those around you. ---
**Author:** ![Katalyst](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/katalyst/32/1415_2.png) [@Katalyst](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Katalyst)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 12:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/4 "2010-06-23T12:02:16Z")
Hey Dreamwolf welcome to pherotalk, I think the others made some good suggestions on some products to try. I think instant honesty and instant openness should be looked at if this is something you want to talk about with her as you will get more fluent conversation with the truth coming out as it strengthens trust. As previously stated, may or may not be things you want to share or hear from the other individual, but it could also help to put things behind one another and foster something that is save-able. heres a link for the ammo that is in stock [AMMUNITION Cologne for Men - TO GO! World Edition :: Archive & Alternative Versions :: Experimental Test Mixes :: Androtics Direct](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) the ammo as sillykitty said is a general attractant that will help the libido and will also give you some confidence. You can pair the mones together too to get added effects, just search the forums or store description if needed. And you can always just ask in the mens section as well ! ---
**Author:** ![dreamwolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@dreamwolf](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dreamwolf)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/5 "2010-06-23T19:35:45Z")
Thank you all that have replied thus far. The instant honesty seems to be a general theme, and probably a good idea. 😛 IH, IO, and maybe IS - things to combat the emotions that are problematic and help me be a little more outgoing. I don’t think ‘heat’ is a problem if trust can be restored - so probably won’t spring for the TUTH right away and that may be covered by the M-11 (which I have now) and the Dial. Though I suppose a little extra ‘heat’ could add a little more persuasion to the argument. 😛_with hand out awaits the $25 certificate_ We will see. Has anyone had any luck using pheros to overcome some of the SSRI depression of libido? At this point I figure the SSRI ‘depressed libido’ is a temporary issue and will pass in no more than 4 months - and if I love this woman I can hold out for that long. Not to say that I don’t miss it though. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 23, 2010, 8:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/6 "2010-06-23T20:35:11Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Dream! Just like Mustang said pheromones can’t fixed a broken relationship especially when it has reached the stage that it has. Pheromones and advice from persons who have experienced similar problems can assist but in the end it takes way more than that. > [@Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695): > > Myself: Mid-40’s, athletic, married for 20+ years. This post is actually a combination of posts I have made in the Introductions section. It is designed for married guys looking to use the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) here to help things at home. I use pheromones for several purposes - work, social and to enhance life at home. I use multiple approaches especially for home: First - at this point in our lives we know sexual attraction is not the final answer. So my first recommendation is actually what … Products like Instant honesty and CTTM 2 can assist in opening up communication and allowing for a deeper level of talk. Once you guys can communicate and talk about your feelings, wants , desires, concerns it is already a great start but pheromones just don’t do the trick in fixing broken relationships. I wish you and your wife all the best and hope that you take your marriage problems to He who invented marriages. YOU GC IS ON IT’S WAY! ---
**Author:** ![dreamwolf](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/7ab992/32.png) [@dreamwolf](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dreamwolf)\ **Post date:** [June 30, 2010, 3:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-for-the-25-p/39513/7 "2010-06-30T03:11:11Z")
Ended up getting Instant Shine, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), and Instant Honesty. All in the to-go versions which means I’ll probably get about 30 sprays from each. The M-11 I already have seems to have a positive effect - we seem to be more cuddly/playful/talkative since I’ve started using it. I may have overdid it a little - applying a drop to my upper lip and then she identified a ‘toliet water’ smell coming from me. Idea was to go in for a kiss for some extra effect 😛 Honestly I smelt it a little as well. So I guess I’m going to cut back on the dial and just do a drop of M-11 on the other side of each elbow. She reports being able to identify the ‘toliet water’ smell since I started using it though - just was not able to identify the source as me. She knew I started using the dial so I passed it off as that. I don’t know if I’m ready to say I’m trying other stuff as well in an effort to ‘cheat’ and give ‘us’ an edge 😛 The effects of the M-11 seem to last about 4 hours. The order will arrive tomorrow however I will not have a chance to try them until Thursday afternoon/evening. I keep thinking about where we’ll be in 6 mo to a years time. I’m still mostly positive - but I wouldn’t think about it if there was not the negative. And probably one of the key things I need to do is relax. And if I can be relaxed it will help her relax. I’ll post again if there’s any new effects from this order.