# Hello from a New User **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [May 6, 2009, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725 "2009-05-06T20:17:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![WildflowerLA](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/43a26b/32.png) [@WildflowerLA](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildflowerLA)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2009, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/1 "2009-05-06T20:17:51Z")
Hi to all! I have been a moody person my whole life. I get going good and life seems fun and I am exercising and eating right and then I get blue and feel “what’s the use?” for a while. I have done a great deal of work on myself with everything from counseling to innerchild work which has helped me manage the down times much better and made me a more compassionate person. I work with the public and want to be approachable, and feel self confident and easy to be around. I want to feel good in my own skin know what i mean? I would love a suggestion for something on the days I do feel blue…Does anyone have suggestions on where to start? ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2009, 8:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/2 "2009-05-06T20:29:46Z")
Heya Wildflower, welcome to the forums! I know how ya feel… some days i feel on top of the world, then for some reason for a whole week it may take everything i have to drag myself out of bed to go to class… then back to the top! It happens to all of us sometimes. 🙂 I think for you i would recommend Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Instant Shine gives off a “feel good” kinda vibe that makes the people around you more upbeat and energetic, while also giving most people a bit of a confidence boost. It’s not necessarily meant for self-effects, but if i don’t overuse it, it can make me feel more upbeat as well. Instant Honesty helps create a feeling of connection with the people you interact with, making them more relaxed and comfortable around you. It could help you when you’re working with the public. 😃 But that’s just my two cents. Others will be along shortly to give theirs. Hope that helped though! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2009, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/3 "2009-05-06T20:30:27Z")
Hi and welcome!! First of all, are you a guy or a girl? From your user name, I am going to assume that you are a girl 🙂 Instant Sexiness/A will give you a confident, strong and sexy feeling and vibe that i think you would like. [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is also wonderful for self effects. It gives both the wearer and those around her a positive, uplifted feeling that people want to be around. ---
**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2009, 8:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/4 "2009-05-06T20:30:47Z")
Hi WildflowerLA Great to have you here in Pherotalk so welcome on board 🙂 Hmm i see how is your situation there, i got my recommendation that i hope will be helpful to you there 🙂 My recommendation for you is IO & [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) & why you may ask? Ok IO will help make people be more open to you thus make them approach you more & Instant Shine will boost your self confidence to a higher level & make you & everyone around you feel great 😃 If you have any other questions feel free to reply to your intro & we will do our best to help you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [May 6, 2009, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/5 "2009-05-06T21:45:24Z")
Hi Wildflower, You’ve got some great suggestions here. Whilst we aren’t supposed to recommend advanced products to new users, I suggest you read about Spaceland. This can potentitally help you to lighten up and enjoy life a bit more. It might help with your situation. Let us know if you have any questions, and do return and let us know your results when you start using [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 7, 2009, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-new-user/28725/6 "2009-05-07T00:18:31Z")
Hello Welcome to Phertotalk 🙂 Before we can suggest anything we need to know if your male or female ? Also this moodiness, Have you seen your doctor and did he/she diagnose you with anything ? I look forward to your reply Tisha Hostess/Guide