# hello from a pheromone newbie! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 11, 2012, 11:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228 "2012-04-11T23:26:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bronzeartist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/0ea827/32.png) [@bronzeartist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzeartist)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2012, 11:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/1 "2012-04-11T23:26:55Z")
Hello, my name is shawn. I am 42 and live in maine, u.s.a. i. Am new to this pheromone stuff, and looking for some advise from experienced users. I am in a long term relationship with a woman and not interested in picking up women. However, I do have the problem of having more sex drive than my partner. I thought that it is at least worth the effort to try [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to see if it would help, given that I am getting to an age where my natural mones are probably not as strong as they used to be. I did order t.u.t.h. to go but haven’t tried it yet. Looking for something I could use alone, or perhaps a combination of mones that would get my girl ‘in the mood’ with me. Hoping that someone has some suggestions for me. We used to have a super hot sex life but it has mellowed quite a bit of late..looking to heat things up! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2012, 11:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/2 "2012-04-11T23:40:40Z")
Hi there Shawn, Thats fine that your new to pheromones.Thats cool that you plan to use it for a long time relationship.Thats definitely a good way to use them.Hmm,youve already ordered tuth which is a good one for what your looking for.I would also consider instant honesty for the connection feeling you get since a girl needs to feel a connection to enjoy sex and to get in the mood.Instant shine could also help put her in a good mood which doesn’t hurt but is optional(^_^)Other than that,TAC and p83 are also ones you could consider.TAC is a good relaxant with calming effects and may help her get in the mood and is good to pair with tuth.P83 is supposed to be a disinhibitor.TAC is pretty good,haven’t really tested p83 enough to come to a conclusion yet though.Haha,a lot to take in but they are all pretty good and its up to you what you get.As well as the mones,try suprising your partner with something fun and unexpected or join a class together like salsa dancing.That can usually help you get more action later(^_^)All the best and hope that you get the results your looking for(^\_^)Bosshank also had a really good writeup on relationship mones a while back which you can read if your interested.Can check it out below [Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/married-guys-looking-to-help-life-at-home/13695) ---
**Author:** ![bronzeartist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/0ea827/32.png) [@bronzeartist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzeartist)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2012, 1:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/3 "2012-04-12T01:00:36Z")
Thanks so much for your input! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2012, 7:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/4 "2012-04-12T07:48:49Z")
HI there, bronze. Welcome to the forum. Well, to heat things up in the bedroom. THAT, my friend, has much to do with comfort between you two. As you’re in an LTR, it’s not too much about that ‘hot and heavy’, I want sex, feeling. It would be much more advantageous to use your mones along with the sexiest member in your body… NOT that, but, your brains, that is, your knowledge of her wants, needs, likes and dislikes. Once you’ve got that particular feeling down with her, comfort and respect, you could come in using IShine and TAC for that focus on comfort. Feel good to be around you, haven’t seen you in this light in a long time, feeling. While you talk, this mone signal will percolate with it causing good memories of you two come rising up to her consciousness. She also will like you to Be a Man… show her that you’re their for her, to love for sure, and to protect if necessary. IG or A314/b would be good for support of these attitudes from your to her. When the time is coming for that ‘hot and heaviness’, then, you could use TUTH to really, well, heat things up. As you know, you can’t expect her to just be turned on all of a sudden, like us guys. You need to apply finesse with your attitude and the mones will enhance your signal of comfort, interest in her, along with the sex vibe of TUTH, Eventually. That’s my experience with my LTR and mones. I started up a thread on TUTH immunity, or percieved immunity and how to counteract it in the men’s advice section of this site. Hope that’ll help out as well. ---
**Author:** ![bronzeartist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/0ea827/32.png) [@bronzeartist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bronzeartist)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2012, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/5 "2012-04-12T10:45:58Z")
Thakns 1alpha, your reply is appreciated. I know where you’re coming from where it comes to the ladies and ‘getting in the mood’. Unlike men, that feeling of emotional connectedness is important for her to feel sexual. Regarding the mones you suggested, what kind of ratios should I use them in for starters, and where on my body would it be best to use them? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![MusikAddikt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/musikaddikt/32/1576_2.png) [@MusikAddikt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MusikAddikt)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2012, 11:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/6 "2012-04-12T11:35:28Z")
After reading this guys journal: [TUTH Immunity... Is it possible? How to conteract it!!!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/tuth-immunity-is-it-possible-how-to-conteract-it/42693) I think TAC would be an excellent choice. You could pair it together with TUTH like looifookmeng said or even try it by itself. 1Alpha seemed to have great success with TAC alone. ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2012, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/7 "2012-04-13T05:53:43Z")
If a standalone product is what you’re looking for, I recommend [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). The only thing (so far) that has worked on it’s own for me, although it also benefits from the inclusion of others. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 17, 2012, 2:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-a-pheromone-newbie/55228/8 "2012-04-17T14:44:59Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Shawn! I am not quite sure how it came about or given the impression that none of our products can work as stand alone products. In fact, you should never start testing out these products with others.Test them indiv by themselves to find out what they do and then you can go about adding other products to enhance the effect. Sure, we add lots of products together to give of a certain affect but that doesn’t mean these products don’t have what it takes to do the job all on their own. _ **Your gc was issued!** _