# Hello from an interested newbie

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [February 23, 2012, 10:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673 "2012-02-23T10:46:08Z")\
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**Author:** ![Nottono](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Nottono](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nottono)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 10:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/1 "2012-02-23T10:46:08Z")

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Hi all!

I’m a male in my early twenties currently living in Norway! I’m about 1.73m tall and have a rather slim build.

I would call myself an **enthusiastic** person, sometimes maybe a bit too enthusiastic to some people’s tastes 🙂  
In my home country (about 1500km to the south) I have quite a lot of friends and acquaintances so most of the time I’m able to have a great time.  
However, if I’m introduced to new situations I sometimes get **somewhat shy or insecure**. This **disappears** when I get engaged in conversation, so people are sometimes surprised by my energy if they’ve seen me acting shy only moments earlier.

If I’m with my friends I tend to have a leading personality and I can get maybe a little too pushy at times. However, with unknown or lesser-known people this doesn’t happen at all - but rather quite the opposite.

Also, I seem to be one of those **instant friend-zone** -guys. I can talk to girls easily enough, make them laugh and generally have a great time, but they never seem to take me seriously as a candidate-partner.

So… since I’m quite a scientifically-oriented person I am quite **sceptical** about all this [pheromone](https://a314.com/)-stuff, but I might just try it out anyhow out of sheer curiosity.

Any ideas on where to start?

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 11:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/2 "2012-02-23T11:38:13Z")

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Hi there,

Lol,your pretty tall(^_^)Slim builds are usually good.A lot better than round builds anyway(:-p) Haha,wouldnt worry about being enthusiastic.They always get the most fun out of anything that they try(^_^) Thats good that you have lots of friends and acquaintances already.You must be a pretty fun person to hang around.Can understand the being shy when put into new situations.I get that pretty often too.Im pretty confident in situations im used to but have trouble when its a completely new situation(^\_^)Im getting better at it though with practice and [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)(:-p)

Hmm,its difficult when you get friend zoned.You generally have to keep a bit of sexual tension going to avoid that.A bit of flirting never hurt also(:-p)Quite okay to be skeptical.Im a very scientifically oriented person too but i changed my mind when i tried them out using the gift certificate that i got.Your intros pretty cool so mickaelia should be around in a couple of days,probably after the weekend to issue yours so you can get to ordering.Hmm,for what you want.You could go two ways.One is instant gentleman which gives you an alpha reliable vibe and will make you seem like relationship material which is good if your looking for that or ammo which is a more sexy cool vibe which will go a bit more the other way but is good for avoiding the friend zone.For easier ice breaking in new situations,you could give instant openness a try.If everyone is more talkative,its a lot easier to get over the initial shyness.All the best and dont hesitate to ask if you have any questions.Bet your going to have fun here.

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**Author:** ![Nottono](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Nottono](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nottono)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 11:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/3 "2012-02-23T11:42:39Z")

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> [@looifookmeng](#):
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> Lol,your pretty tall(^\_^)

Wouldn’t exactly call 1,73m tall 😃 Most men around me are between 1,72m and 1,95m or something… But I like my height 🆒

Thanks for your encouraging reply; this seems like a nice community!

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 12:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/4 "2012-02-23T12:25:36Z")

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Hello and welcome to the forum.

If you are skeptical about pheromones try reading through the abstracts. That should conviceyou they are real and they have real effects. The studies are there to show it.

If you can be shy at first and also get freind zoned a lot, then the Ammo recommendation is good. The IO is also good as it helps with those initial gabby conversations but if you turn on the conversations and maybe a little too strong then it might work against you if you are not careful.

Two other good products to consider are IH and Ishine. IH helps create feelings of connection and often leads to deeper conversations as a result. This is what you may need a little later into certain relationships. The other is IShine. IShine helps the people around you feel happy to be near you.

Hope this helps some.

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/5 "2012-02-23T12:54:18Z")

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Hi nottono! Welcome to the forum! You have been taken care of by some great posters already. I’m glad to see that.

For the suggestions on mone products, I do agree with the above 2 responders. I’ll suggest you take a look at this thread, which helped me understand the mechanics to this mone stuff… 🙂 Why Androtics is here and how it came about that they suggest you combo the mones on your skin. With precise amounts.

> [@Your Skin is a Pheromone Mixing Canvas](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-skin-is-a-pheromone-mixing-canvas/34388):
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> July 24th, 2009, 02:01 PM In the late 90s, with Erox advertising heavily on the radio, I first tried these products. I had always written off pheromones as much as I would astrology (bad astrology from carnies, anyway), but I figured if they were spending so much to advertise such a product, it might be worth a shot. And hey, it’s even available in normal department stores. I don’t have to call a 900# or go to a strange, smelly sex shop or anything fishy. So I tried the product. Did smashingly…

Also, on my sig are some great suggestions on how to make the most of the mones you do try out. I suggest you start out a journal for your and our benefit as well. Jot down what you see without the mones and what you get with the mones.

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**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\
**Post date:** [February 23, 2012, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/6 "2012-02-23T20:05:54Z")

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> [@Nottono](#):
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> Wouldn’t exactly call 1,73m tall 😃 Most men around me are between 1,72m and 1,95m or something… But I like my height 🆒
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> Thanks for your encouraging reply; this seems like a nice community!

haha,true enough.I forgot western people are really tall(:-p)People are considerably shorter over here(^\_^)Good that your happy with you height.

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**Author:** ![Nottono](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Nottono](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nottono)\
**Post date:** [February 24, 2012, 8:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/7 "2012-02-24T08:57:20Z")

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Thanks for all your replies!

I just ordered some ammo and some IS (with a nice gift-certificate discount 😃 ); I’ll keep you up to date!

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [February 27, 2012, 2:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/8 "2012-02-27T14:50:55Z")

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Welcome to pherotalk Nottono!

I am glad you received some great advice which was expected from my team and wasted no time in placing your order.

I look forward to reading about your experiences.

_ **Your gc was issued!** _

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**Author:** ![Nottono](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/c89c15/32.png) [@Nottono](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nottono)\
**Post date:** [February 27, 2012, 2:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-an-interested-newbie/54673/9 "2012-02-27T14:55:13Z")

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Thanks for the blazing fast shipment. Ordered on Friday, arrived here today Monday 10,000km further!

Will keep you up to date.

> [@kelsey](#):
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> Welcome to pherotalk Nottono!
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> I am glad you received some great advice which was expected from my team and wasted no time in placing your order.
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> I look forward to reading about your experiences.
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> _ **Your gc was issued!** _
