# Hello from Cali! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 22, 2009, 1:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478 "2009-10-22T01:46:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![misterjoness](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8baadc/32.png) [@misterjoness](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/misterjoness)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 1:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478/1 "2009-10-22T01:46:41Z")
Hi there! I am a freshman or newbie here and you can call me Ken. I am currently a college student, 23 years old. I heard about Smartmones website when I happened to surf websites that provides information about pheromones. I was looking for good pheromones that really works. At first, I thought of buying Pherlure as there are many good reviews and advertisements that claim the pheromones they sell are legit and really works, but luckily I found out that the so-called ingredients that they called as “di-dehydroandrosterone” is fake and never listed as a chemical in the national chemical database website. So I keep trying to search for the stuffs that really works and not scam. I happened to read a user post on Yahoo Answer about this website and I tried to gather some information and did a bit research before I decide that this product may work for me (hey, I can never know about the results before I try it, right?). A bit information of me, I stand around 5 feet 6 inches and weigh around 125 lbs, so I would say I am pretty “skinny” but not in a bad way, I am pretty fit but just need to bulk up more I think. Honestly I often feel shy to initiate a conversation with girls, but I have been practicing and now I could say at least “hi” and smile to girls that I am attracted to. I know that I still have to do something about my “skinny” situation (I would say I am fit but still thin compared to muscular guys here) and I am still working out on that by going to gym twice a week. But it would be a long journey and while working and waiting on it, I also want to try this “pheromone” thing. Mostly I am attracted to hot and sexy girls, of course there will be a lot of competitors that surrounds that girl trying to get her attention. Some of the competitors always happen to be a big and muscular guys and at the end that girl will choose that muscular guy over me. Depending on the situation and the type of the girls, sometimes I just confused of how to approach girls, but the bottom line is I try to at least smile, look at her eyes, and say “hi” when I see an attractive girl happens to look at me when I or she passed by or being at close distance. For example, at the club dancing scene, if I see an attractive girl that I like just dancing or sitting by herself, I would try to stand close next to her and ask her “hi, how are you? are you having fun tonight” , or if I see she is drinking, I would ask “what kind of drink is that?” as conversation starter and then if she replies I would ask her if she comes alone and then what she does (student, work, etc.) or talk about music or DJ that is playing in the house and ask her about her fave music or artists. It’s getting hard sometimes when the girl is not very talkative and acts cold towards me. Then I know that she is not interested in me and I will move on to find a new girl. I have no idea of approaching girls in the daylight time like in the supermarket, grocery store or in the mall (perhaps any of you have any idea?)…I just have a confidence when the situation is comfortable (such like social club gathering, bars, clubs, etc.). Now I am kinda confused to choose between [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) , [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) , and [Ammunition](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) ; as these pheromones purposes are the same, which is to make your presence more noticeable among girls and to make girls feel comfortable so they would like to open themselves and chat you more. I look forward for your help and my [gift certificate](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) so I could start out very soon, and thank you for helping me out!! I am so happy to find a community here to belong to. I feel like I have a family in here. As you guide me, I will update you with my progress. Thank you again! ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478/2 "2009-10-22T02:10:14Z")
> [@misterjoness](#): > > I have no idea of approaching girls in the daylight time like in the supermarket, grocery store or in the mall (perhaps any of you have any idea?)…I just have a confidence when the situation is comfortable (such like social club gathering, bars, clubs, etc.). > > Now I am kinda confused to choose between Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) , [A314](https://a314.com/product/a314-classic/) , and [Ammunition](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) ; as these pheromones purposes are the same, which is to make your presence more noticeable among girls and to make girls feel comfortable so they would like to open themselves and chat you more. > > I look forward for your help and my [gift certificate](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) so I could start out very soon, and thank you for helping me out!! I am so happy to find a community here to belong to. I feel like I have a family in here. As you guide me, I will update you with my progress. Thank you again! Hey misterjoness, Welcome to the Forums! Your on the right track for talking to women, the biggest step is within yourself. The best advice I can give there while keeping it simple is to try to say things that are different then the rest. When you have good rapport try to build off of what they say by insinuating where you want the conversation to go. I know easier said then done but it comes with pratice, which can only come from looking your fear to interact and try new things. Now the pheromones you mention have differences, IO is to get people chatty while IH is for when you know them and want a deeper conversation. I noticed when I used IO some people just go on and on just for the sake of talking. A314 is great for eveyday use, I use it for my ‘base’. It give you a powerfull vibe and people respect you more. For social interactions you have a higher social value which in turn can get people to do things for you and or be apealing to women that woudn not have considered you before. Like its name, you become Alpha male. Ammunition is is a highly buffered -none product like TUTH and IJ, its safer to use becuase with -none products you can overdose with. If I could recommened something, a great mix in would be to get [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) (which is a more subtle version of A314, more social) and defninitly get one of the -none products for fun, even if just in a to go smaller version. Cheers! Daset ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 2:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478/3 "2009-10-22T02:19:31Z")
Welcome to the forum. Great advice on the products in the post above mine. If you get them in the smaller to-go bottles it will be easier on your budget as you try them out. ---
**Author:** ![tfrankz](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tfrankz/32/468_2.png) [@tfrankz](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tfrankz)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 6:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478/4 "2009-10-22T06:49:40Z")
Hello Ken I see you have looked into Pherlure. I have bought that over a year ago and thought that it took to long to see results. I have different thoughts about it after I gave it a shot this past month. For me yes it does work, not sure if after a year sitting it works better but it does need help with other products to help it. Better off starting here than playing with Pherlure! So you say that you are outgoing so I would say go with some socials IH or IO. My fav is CTTM it has both of them in it and works a OK for me at the bars. I would say to get AMMO and CTTM and you would be set but AMMO is out of stock for now, my guess on ammo is they are still testing the scent to go with it so when it does get restocked try it. Have fun and see ya around ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 22, 2009, 6:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cali/33478/5 "2009-10-22T18:27:53Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.