# Hello From CALIFORNIA!!! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 11, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952 "2009-04-11T23:15:37Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tay1392](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tay1392](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tay1392)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2009, 11:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/1 "2009-04-11T23:15:37Z")
Hey all I’m 21 years old, male, and from san francisco… I’m very interested to try out [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) to maybe give me that extra boost of social confidence I’ve always wanted! here’s 1 question… why do Girls (younger usually) like the jerky, cocky guys? ---
**Author:** ![Mr.Feel\_Good](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mr.feel_good/32/1148_2.png) [@Mr.Feel\_Good](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mr.Feel_Good)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2009, 11:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/2 "2009-04-11T23:21:11Z")
Hey there Tay, welcome to the forums! I’m afraid i cant answer your question, since i’m one of the nice guys. But from what i can tell, it’s the confidence aspect. Yes, they are a jerk, but they do it with pizzazz and confidence. Which apparently is really attractive to women. So keep that in mind. 😉 Would you mind telling us a bit more about yourself? Like what kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? Where did you want to use your phero’s? And what did you hope to do with them, in a bit more specifics. As in, how did you hope they would help you? This kinda stuff will help us give the best advice for your needs, as well as get you that $25 GC. So let’s hear it, senor! ---
**Author:** ![revivia](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/revivia/32/2124_2.png) [@revivia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/revivia)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2009, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/3 "2009-04-11T23:34:53Z")
> [@Mr.Feel\_Good](#): > > Hey there Tay, welcome to the forums! I’m afraid i cant answer your question, since i’m one of the nice guys. But from what i can tell, it’s the confidence aspect. Yes, they are a jerk, but they do it with pizzazz and confidence. Which apparently is really attractive to women. So keep that in mind. 😉 > > Would you mind telling us a bit more about yourself? Like what kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? Where did you want to use your phero’s? And what did you hope to do with them, in a bit more specifics. As in, how did you hope they would help you? This kinda stuff will help us give the best advice for your needs, as well as get you that $25 GC. So let’s hear it, senor! Mr. Feel Good is correct about girls that love confident guys. Also girls believe that guys that are jerks or cocky have a very strong personality and are not predictable. Being cocky brings out the confident aspect of guys, which many girls enjoy. A guy that is nice, is seen as boring and easy to take advantage of, which is a HUGE turn off for girls. While some niceness goes a long ways, being the “nice guy” is not what you want to be. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/4 "2009-04-11T23:57:27Z")
Hi and welcome. PLease tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? DO you have anybody as your target? If you can let us know, we can give you some recommendations on pheromones. Cheers ---
**Author:** ![tay1392](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tay1392](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tay1392)\ **Post date:** [April 11, 2009, 11:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/5 "2009-04-11T23:57:29Z")
thanks for the quick replies guys! I guess I’m also a “Nice Guy” unfortuneately… kinda shy, I’m a guitar player, and a pretty good looking guy, about 6 foot, skinny though… I just got interested in pheromones when I saw an add for them in an esquire magazine… and since Forums are full of real people and real advice, I though what place better than here? look like you all have some very nice products I’m going to wanna try! there are some girls I go to school with that have definitely caught my eye…one in particular, we talk, sometimes she playfully punches me or runs her hands through my hair, it’s nice but I can’t seem to make it more.. Like I said though I’m hoping these pheromones, whichever ones I get, will just help me be more outgoing, social and a Little cocky =) The girls that I talk to have told me before that I’m cute, and nice… ugh.. nice lol. but yeah I wanna get out of the “Friend Zone” and into the “I want you” zone hahah.. thanks again guys, cheers! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2009, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/6 "2009-04-12T00:05:34Z")
I suggest you try ammo, IH and shine. Shine will boost your confidence and counter your shyness. It is a feel good [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). AMMO will make the girls attracted to you. It can give you sexual attraction too. IH will build the relationship. The girls will be closer to you. They will talk in personal and more meaningful with you. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tay1392](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tay1392](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tay1392)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2009, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/7 "2009-04-12T00:25:27Z")
thanks Jamesbonded! those all sound like good suggestions! what do you guys think about instant Jerk? if the girls like the jerks… why not give it a try? any of you tried it? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 13, 2009, 8:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/8 "2009-04-13T08:16:46Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 The guys are correct. Its a confidence issue. Women instinctively gravitate to the strongest leaders and even a cocky jerk although annoying will step up to take the lead. The good news is that today’s women are a bit more independent and wont stick with the cocky jerk if he continues to act this way long instinct or not. I suggest AMMO Ishine and IO for you. IJ is a OK product but its high in anone and I would wait on this one until your used to using anone products. AMMO will get you out of the friends zone its sexy and mildly arousing. IO will help open up communication and Ishine is charismatic and warm. If you have questions just ask. **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![ElectraComplex](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/electracomplex/32/1257_2.png) [@ElectraComplex](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ElectraComplex)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2009, 4:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/27952/9 "2009-04-14T04:37:48Z")
Yup confidence is key although i gotta say. I like my nice boys and tend to go for nice guys but in my experience even when I’m hunting mr. nice i end up with a jerk anyway. Oh and the ammo is good stuff 🙂 Btw not trying to be judgmental with the jerk comment guys.Sometimes a good jerk can be fun..Might as well be honest. * * * Also..A nice guy is great the trick is to balance nice with interest. So if you can pull off being funny,a bit risque and nice. Meow ^.x