# Hello from California **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 6, 2011, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705 "2011-10-06T23:10:46Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lantushih](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecc23a/32.png) [@lantushih](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lantushih)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/1 "2011-10-06T23:10:46Z")
Hello everyone, new to this site! I’ve been browsing around the forum and everyone seems to be pretty chill and helpful. I am new to this whole [pheromone](https://a314.com/) thing; i mean, I’ve heard it before and etc, but never tried it out first hand. So here I am, taking a step forward in my chapter. A bit about myself, I am a 27 yrs old Asian American male. People and friends/coworkers tends to think and look at me as goofy. Even when I am trying to be serious! /seriousface! So with that said, my luck with the ladies isn’t all that either, I can talk to people and socialize fine, but always end up as the “friend”. So yah…I need help! I’ve been looking at a lot of descriptions of the products over on AD, and there’s just so much info on everything! What would the community recommend as a “starter” spray/oil/combo and slowly move into the more advance stuff? Would be greatly appreciated! ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/2 "2011-10-06T23:13:52Z")
Hi there! Welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) You might want to take a read up the link, basically what they mean is that you start moens generally with the instant line products because they are guaranteed and than proceed on with MXs, putatives and experimones only after you have established a good solid foundation on how to use mones effectively. It takes a while but the results form it is far worth it 🙂 I would recommend you some socials such as; 1. IO - for icebreaking 2. IH - For deep conversations 3. IShine - for that less serious, feel good aura. I’m sure you will do fine 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/3 "2011-10-06T23:29:43Z")
Hello and welcome, glad you found us! As Oasis said, some of the mx’s would be good for that, but getting used to the instant line will help you understand how different pheros work. For needing help with the attraction end, I suggest Ammo. Ammo is a [sexual pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) which could help you get outta that friends zone, and into the bed zone! Good luck!! ---
**Author:** ![noahsong](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ecb155/32.png) [@noahsong](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/noahsong)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2011, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/4 "2011-10-06T23:47:33Z")
Hey! Welcome. Asian American here and I can appreciate what you’re saying. What I would recommend is: [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/), AMMO, & TUTH. Those 3 are my favorites and work well in combination to one another. IG: Provides you with that cool James Bond/ James Dean feel AMMO: Provides you with that opening you need as you ready yourself TUTH: Now, you’re in it to win it. ---
**Author:** ![lantushih](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecc23a/32.png) [@lantushih](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lantushih)\ **Post date:** [October 7, 2011, 4:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/5 "2011-10-07T04:31:13Z")
Thanks for all the great advice guys! Much appreciated. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2011, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/6 "2011-10-10T20:01:40Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Lantush! I think tuth would be the best first choice to give you an edge and to balance of that nice guy vibe that keeps placing you in the friend zone. I also think with the use of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) you need to get advise from the more experienced men on how to stay away from the friend zone and keep it that way. I have had many clients come to use with the same problem so with some help you will get through this. _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _ ---
**Author:** ![lantushih](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/ecc23a/32.png) [@lantushih](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lantushih)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2011, 9:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/7 "2011-10-10T21:04:03Z")
Thanks for the warm welcome and advice Mickaelia. Just curious, where may I find the information for the gc? ---
**Author:** ![MikeMan22](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikeman22/32/332_2.png) [@MikeMan22](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MikeMan22)\ **Post date:** [October 11, 2011, 12:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52705/8 "2011-10-11T00:28:33Z")
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