# Hello from California! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 25, 2011, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994 "2011-10-25T00:06:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jen92373](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c2a13f/32.png) [@jen92373](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jen92373)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/1 "2011-10-25T00:06:05Z")
Hi! I am here in an attempt to help my best friend. Her husband went on antidepressants a couple of months ago and has since lost interest in her sexual. He’s a happier person, but feels NO desire at all…and it’s driving her nuts. I am hoping I can use the info here to help her. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/2 "2011-10-25T00:13:12Z")
Welcome to the forums. Some antidepressants inhibit libido. I don’t think [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will be of much help if that is the case. Sorry, that’s probably not what you wanted to hear. She could play around with them and perhaps get some reaction, but she would probably be getting more and stronger reactions from other people, and that could be damaging to her existing relationship. It’s probably a good issue for her to bring up with her husband and his doc. They may be able to alter his meds. ---
**Author:** ![jen92373](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/c2a13f/32.png) [@jen92373](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jen92373)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/3 "2011-10-25T00:16:35Z")
Hi From California Hello! I am a 30 year old female from Southern California. I have limited [pheromone](https://a314.com/) experience (I bought a candle once- it seemed to work on men but made me sleepy), but I have always found the concept fascinating. I found this site on google while looking for a candle for my best friend. Her husband started on antidepressants a couple of months ago, and has since lost ALL interest in sex. So far he doesn’t even seem to be willing to discuss the topic, and being a healthy young adult it is driving my friend crazy. I am hoping to learn something here that can help her. So far I have suggested feeding him flax seeds and blackberries (works like a charm on my husband), but since her problems are a little more complicated I figured perhaps a little sneaky science is called for. ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/4 "2011-10-25T00:34:15Z")
Hi there Jen, welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! Have you tried mones yourself form this website? I think its great that you are personally reaching out to help your friend, it shows that you are a very concerned friend 🙂 You might want to suggest some; 1. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) - For attraction and daily wear 2. IShine - To overcome depression 3. IH - For 1-to-1 conversations 4. IO - To open up and break the ice 5. TUTH - For the sexual spark Most important thing would be to really help out by listening, I’m sure you can do it 🙂 Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/5 "2011-10-25T00:57:23Z")
Hi Jen and a welcome to PheroTalk! Unfortunately, candles are a poor conductor for mones… too much heat! Yup some sneaky science… yes, you can call mones that! 🙂 I’d suggest some IS/b and IShine stat for her. IShine and TUTH will be in order for him! I get a bit ornery with TUTH by its lonesome so, it may do the same for him. Thanks for posting and joining in the mone discussion! 😃 > [@jen92373](#): > > Hello! I am a 30 year old female from Southern California. I have limited pheromone experience (I bought a candle once- it seemed to work on men but made me sleepy), but I have always found the concept fascinating. I found this site on google while looking for a candle for my best friend. Her husband started on antidepressants a couple of months ago, and has since lost ALL interest in sex. So far he doesn’t even seem to be willing to discuss the topic, and being a healthy young adult it is driving my friend crazy. I am hoping to learn something here that can help her. So far I have suggested feeding him flax seeds and blackberries (works like a charm on my husband), but since her problems are a little more complicated I figured perhaps a little sneaky science is called for. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 12:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/6 "2011-10-25T00:58:22Z")
Hey… wait… didn’t you just post…?! Well, I think you have the my suggestion already… 😉 Cheers and a welcome again!! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 4:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/7 "2011-10-25T04:47:11Z")
Theproblem seems to be with lack of Male Libido so I dont see how TUTH will help. As far as i understand, the female has good libido and is frustrated because the male is not matching up. his problem may be coming up from medication so _ **He may have to go back to his doctor for that. doctor may reduce the dossage or be able to suggest some other medicine which dont have such side effects.** _ Meanwhile the wife can also try, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (feel good phero) and some Instant Sexiness. these are meant to attract the man to the woman everything else like AMMO, TUTH would be useless in the situation since they are meant to attract woman to man which already is there. Instant Sexiness is probably the only female phero for turning on the man. try it. like flack seed, _ **you can also let them try Ashwagandha.** _ Its an Indian (as in Asia) herb used in ayurveda. I have personally tried this and works like a charm when it comes to removing stress, improving mood and libido. damn thing works so well that I avoid taking it when my wife is away.. seems it is available in amazon for less than 10$. can try this also along with pheros ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 4:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/8 "2011-10-25T04:51:07Z")
Double post ? 😃 Check my reply to your first post..below. I have to agree with gone with the wind.. but still you can try these stop gam arrangements till doc suggests an alternative. > [@Hello from California!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/7): > > Theproblem seems to be with lack of Male Libido so I dont see how TUTH will help. As far as i understand, the female has good libido and is frustrated because the male is not matching up. his problem may be coming up from medication so He may have to go back to his doctor for that. doctor may reduce the dossage or be able to suggest some other medicine which dont have such side effects. Meanwhile the wife can also try, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) (feel good phero) and some Instant Sexiness. these are meant… ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [October 25, 2011, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/9 "2011-10-25T16:13:41Z")
Please remember there is no reason to post multiple times. All this does is mark you as a potential forum spammer and add you to the moderation queue. This means all your posts will have to be manually approved and that could take days. It also means your GC will be delayed until we sort everything out which could be a few extra days in itself. I caught it before it happened in this case and as such merged the posts. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [October 28, 2011, 4:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/52994/10 "2011-10-28T16:10:30Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Jen! I agree with gone that I am not sure if pheromones is the answer you seek as it is not medicine . Nothing beats a trial but a failure so you can play with these products to see how they will assist. I see the guys recommending products for the man but am not sure if you are looking for products to make him feel more confident and in the mood or products for the women to spray on her so he can react to them. I suggest that before you order you go to the men and female section and hear what both sides have to say then make a decision. _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _