# Hello from California **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 17, 2013, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/58200 "2013-02-17T11:10:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![fasterDan\_Bullet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e19b73/32.png) [@fasterDan\_Bullet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fasterDan_Bullet)\ **Post date:** [February 17, 2013, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/58200/1 "2013-02-17T11:10:32Z")
Hi, I’m Kai and I’m kind-of new to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/). I read a small thing on pheromones and got curious so I googled around and found this place! The stories on this forum are amazing and I hope to have amazing stories of my own with mones. I have not had much luck with women in the past. I’ve attracted women but never the one I want. So trying to discern between mone hits or just normal hits will be difficult for me. I’m slow and many times oblivious to these kinds of things anyway. I’m Asian and in my late 20’s, but I look like a 21 year old. Currently I’m going back to college to finish my degree. My side goal is to get myself a hot young thing while I’m there. I’m basically looking for love and a GF. Yeah, corny stuff. People talk about targets so I guess I’ll describe mine. I’m trying to get myself a thin, good looking, Chinese/Korean/Taiwanese/Japanese/etc. girl. I find it particularly hard because there’s so much competition for hot girls in general. I’m decent looking, and dress nicer than many people at my school. Then again, it’s a college setting where almost everyone wears sweats all day. I’ve been testing out CohesionXS. I wasn’t sure if it was too strong so I diluted it with some cologne. I’m guessing I was testing Cohesion between 1/3rd and 1/6th of a drop at a time. It was a hit or miss. But the last 2 times, I used 1 full drop and I think I got some hits. Then again, I don’t know if they’re just being friendly. I’m hesitant to approach girls for no reason. But then again, I prefer it of the girl came up to me. That’s probably because of my self-esteem issues. But I find it a turn on if the girl shows attraction with me having to work for it. Something weird about girls’ perception on me, they tend to think I’m a player which I’m totally not! So I’m wondering if I might have natural mones that are making them think this way. There are some products that give the same effect from what I’ve read. Anyways, I’ll be looking to find love mixes that work well for Asians, on Asians. Haha. ---
**Author:** ![MoonlightBliss](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonlightbliss/32/1641_2.png) [@MoonlightBliss](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MoonlightBliss)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2013, 8:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/58200/2 "2013-02-18T08:24:15Z")
Hello Kai! Welcome to the forum. There have been several thread discussing the results of pheromones on Asian women. Here are a few to get you started: > [@PMX 102-105 with asian girls](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pmx-102-105-with-asian-girls/738): > > Ive been dating a Tai/Taiwanese girl…last week I was outside having a smoke, when I came back, I noticed she was sniffing my test bottles. all of a sudden she sprays PMX 104 on her wrist, and tells me she likes it and sprayed it because it she wanted my scent on her. the night before i had on pmx 105 and she was very touchy feely/agresso. the previous night she was a little bit more distant and shy when i had on PMX 102 I noticed PMX 102 and 103 get more attention from Latinas and Black girls… > [@Attracting Asian girls/women?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/attracting-asian-girls-women/6588): > > Hey, I live in hawaii and literally like 80% of the gals in my school are asian. SO I am thinking for my first phero I should get something that attracts… asians? I am not looking to get like 5 different pheros and mix em all up, I am just starting with something simple. I have heard from taters journal the closest thing to “instant asian” or whatever would have to be “instant honesty.” So what are your guys experiences with attracting asian women, what do you think I should use for a first tim… > [@A314 or Dirty or Raw Power on Asian ladies?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-or-dirty-or-raw-power-on-asian-ladies/12751): > > How do you think A314 or Dirty or [Raw Power](https://a314.com/product/raw-power/) will work on Asian ladies between the age of 18-25??? BTW im asian myself Hopefully this will answer some of your questions. Mixes 104 and 105, ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 18, 2013, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/58200/3 "2013-02-18T14:45:39Z")
**Stop diluting the Cohesion right now!** 😮 For starters, your environment is perfect for oils and they give brilliant diffusion and long life in these conditions. And one third/sixth of a drop is not enough, whilst the cologne will just destroy its diffusion properties altogether. **Always** keep oil and spray application points apart. The only thing I would consider with oils in a hot climate is to apply them over a very light application of lotion - use as little as possible to cover the app point and leave for a few minutes to settle into the skin before applying the oil. The lanolin in the lotion forms a barrier that helps reduce skin absorbtion and slows degradation from the bacteria in your skin. Otherwise, if younger Asians are your interest, I would suggest you look at an Androsterone product like [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and combine it with a small amount of a more balanced Androstenone product like Ammo or Summer Ammo. The reason for this is that Asian girls do seem to show a preference for higher Androsterone/lower Androstenone proportions, although personal observation is that Thai and korean women are slightly more none responsive than Japanese or Han Chinese women but yes, you can find exceptions. Again, because of you climate you may need to apply a little moisturiser (not lotion!) over your alcohol app points - This is because alcohol sprays diffuse very fast, so don’t last very long. A thin later of moisturuser will help a lot and some guys even go as far as mixing their sprays into moisturiser in hot places. Several threads on this in the mens forum if you want to search. As you are already using Cohesion, you may want to consider Steve’s Ascend Oil - Its a very high-status Androsterone oil but not as severe and mature as AD’s A314, which although Androsterone-based, is steered in a way that can be too daunting to younger women. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 20, 2013, 2:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-california/58200/4 "2013-02-20T14:17:25Z")
Welcome Kai, You received some good advice and are exposed to some good products. I think you just need to get out of your head that girls need to come to you and use the products and good advice your way and work towards getting out of your shell and working on your insecurities. You will be fine. **Your gc was issued!**