# Hello from CNY **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 1, 2009, 3:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180 "2009-08-01T03:27:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![wkyh7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@wkyh7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wkyh7)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/1 "2009-08-01T03:27:18Z")
Im from central new york. i have a newly found female friend who was initally attracted to me, up to 2nd base. i knew her for 4 days, started fooling around on day 3, stopped after day 4. we have hung out once since then. could pheramones help get that attraction back? ---
**Author:** ![wkyh7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@wkyh7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wkyh7)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/2 "2009-08-01T03:27:57Z")
Also, if it helps, im 21, she is 18 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/3 "2009-08-01T03:31:01Z")
Hello wkyh7! Welcome to the forum sweetie! Well pheros enhance you so there are chances that you could get her attention again but it _really_ depends on the situation. to qualify for a GC can you tell us more about yourself please? Are you a shy person? do you think you need more confidence? would you like to be more talkative? Plus it would help alot if you could tell us what kind of self-effects or reactions you’re looking for, that way members could narrow it down to some products that you may enjoy. I hope it helped! ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/4 "2009-08-01T03:35:29Z")
Hey, welcome to the forum! Could you give us more information regarding yourself, and also some more detailed information on what the two of you had? Why do you think she suddenly stopped? Anyway, sounds like you are already somewhat comfortable with her and have already gone a little deep, so you can probably use some TUTH in this case. Not alone though, I also suggest some AMMO (or maybe just AMMO instead of also TUTH.) It depends on your situation though, some AMMO and some IH could also really help deepen your relationship with maybe a spray of TUTH once you and her meet up again, to literally TUTH once more. Please tell us more about you so we can give you more recommendations. ---
**Author:** ![wkyh7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@wkyh7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wkyh7)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/5 "2009-08-01T03:39:22Z")
yeah, of course. i am looking to get her to be interested in me again. there was a lot of drama in her life and a death in the family when she decided to go to the friend zone, and then she told me it was because i was new and different from other guys she knew. i can be friends with her, but to be honest, it hurts a little right now. i have no trouble talking to her, in fact, thats why i really like her so much. we have great chemistry and can easily, very easily play off what the other is talking about. endless conversations, in a good way. when we first kissed she smiled reallly big and said “im so happy you did that” and told her best friend she was having an amazing time with me, and started to cuddle up to me which from what i hear is a rarity for her. that was like 4 days ago now. better than the “you probably shouldnt worry or think of me anymore” which i think shows she cares but is afraid to let me in because of current life happenings. she feels she is unable to care for me because she isnt really fit to care for herself right now, but i would gladly take care of us both. sorry for the length :o/ i got a bit carried away. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/6 "2009-08-01T03:49:00Z")
Aww, don’t worry about the length. Thank you for the update 🙂 I’m really sorry to hear about her family…I have almost lost someone so I know the feeling. It’s scary. I hope she heals soon 🙂 mikotorocks714 has given great advice about tuth and ammo. But I would suggest you to put tuth on a side for now (until she gets comfortable with you again, you can take things to another level) **tuth:** can arouse a women (so it’s better that you wear it when time is right 😉 otherwise some women can get irritated) **ammo:** gives of a cool yet sexy vibe then there is which **instant gentleman:** it makes you look more trustable, gentlemanly and makes people respect you more. And then don’t forget your socials! They are a must and they pair up with almost everything. There is: **instant shine:** it’ll boost your confidence, cheer you up and uplift her mood. Others usually feel more jolly and happy. **instant openness:** is great to prolong conversations, you did mention that you guys have great conversations, but hey the longer the better no? 😃 **instant honesty:** is also pretty awesome. It makes conversations more intimate, and can bond people. Usually people want to be closer to you. Hope it helped, please don’t hesitate to ask questions honey ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/7 "2009-08-01T03:49:01Z")
Nothing wrong with that, losing someone in the family hurts. I lost my mom in May and it still hurts, so her not continuing getting involved with you because of that is not a bad thing. Thing is, when you lose someone close a lot of shit goes on in your mind, mostly pain and depression that really makes you lose interest in every little thing you used to love before the incident. It also affects your desire for fun stuff or whatever, so I’m sure she has a good reason. What you have to do is just continue to be there as a friend, and wait it out until she feels better while also helping her to get better because I know how it feels. Since she’s in this sad state, I suggest probably only using non-sexual [pheromones](https://a314.com/) like IO to have her open up more and continue to have the conversation flow, with some IH to deepen that relationship by having her make her feel comfortable with you even more. Maybe some IS as well to help her and you feel good, then after she gets better I suggest AMMO. > [@wkyh7](#): > > yeah, of course. > > i am looking to get her to be interested in me again. there was a lot of drama in her life and a death in the family when she decided to go to the friend zone, and then she told me it was because i was new and different from other guys she knew. > > i can be friends with her, but to be honest, it hurts a little right now. i have no trouble talking to her, in fact, thats why i really like her so much. we have great chemistry and can easily, very easily play off what the other is talking about. endless conversations, in a good way. > > when we first kissed she smiled reallly big and said “im so happy you did that” and told her best friend she was having an amazing time with me, and started to cuddle up to me which from what i hear is a rarity for her. > > that was like 4 days ago now. better than the “you probably shouldnt worry or think of me anymore” which i think shows she cares but is afraid to let me in because of current life happenings. she feels she is unable to care for me because she isnt really fit to care for herself right now, but i would gladly take care of us both. > > sorry for the length :o/ i got a bit carried away. ---
**Author:** ![wkyh7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@wkyh7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wkyh7)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/8 "2009-08-01T03:52:51Z")
so you think that she may just come back around once some of the stuff in her life settles? ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 3:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/9 "2009-08-01T03:56:37Z")
From what you wrote I think you may have a good chance, you say you two were almost getting there but then stuff in her life happened so it’s a little obvious that it affected her and the things/stuff around her. So just try to be there, don’t stop talking to her or not being there just because she said no at this moment in time. On the contrary be there and show her that you can be a part of her circle of support (people in her life who are helping her cope through her pains) and maybe even then it’ll actually even deepen what you two once had. So in the mean time if you still seek [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) help just go with IO, IH, and IS with then getting AMMO after she feels comfortable again. Hope this helps. > [@wkyh7](#): > > so you think that she may just come back around once some of the stuff in her life settles? ---
**Author:** ![wkyh7](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/w/d9b06d/32.png) [@wkyh7](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/wkyh7)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 4:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/10 "2009-08-01T04:04:56Z")
Thanks Miko, i really appreciate it. ive been kinda down, and you picked me up wiht your insight. for anyone who is interested, my AIM is rigrawr. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 4:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/11 "2009-08-01T04:11:25Z")
No problem man, I’ve been down ever since my mom died so I understand the feeling of feeling down. So know you’re not alone, although our situations may be different know that I’m sure things will get better with this girl, it’s just tough. Sometimes when someone loses a family member they just want to hide from the world, not sure if this is the case with her but me for example… I tend to get that way sometimes. So if she does tend to keep to herself more, or lock herself in her room this is probably the case so if she does that don’t worry. Just a part of getting over the pain, although I doubt you’ll ever get over it but I’m sure it gets better. So in the mean time, live it up man as much as you can and just help her out! I’m sure Steve will be here to reward you with your GC pretty soon. 🙂 > [@wkyh7](#): > > Thanks Miko, i really appreciate it. > > ive been kinda down, and you picked me up wiht your insight. > > for anyone who is interested, my AIM is rigrawr. ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2009, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/12 "2009-08-01T05:09:03Z")
Hi Welcome to the forum, Sorry to hear situation with your friend. I been trying to reestablish repport with a girl a like. My Aunt passed away and wated to go to her for supoort But she has been avoiding me. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2009, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-cny/31180/13 "2009-08-03T22:34:36Z")
Hi there and welcome to PheroTalk. I wanted to properly welcome you to the forum, but I am extremely backlogged with work since we are short on people. I am issuing your GC tonight via email. Maybe if I get caught up I can come back around and offer some advice as well.