# Hello! From Colorado.

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**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [April 20, 2011, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-colorado/49969 "2011-04-20T16:44:19Z")\
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**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\
**Post date:** [April 20, 2011, 5:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-colorado/49969/6 "2011-04-20T17:21:16Z")

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I came back to edit my post to include a link to some studies, but 1Alpha already covered it 🙂

Are you usually pretty quiet? Reading a book is often a personal thing, it’s often difficult to interrupt someone while they are reading. Take a moment to research some basic body language - while you’re in those coffee shops reading make yourself appear approachable. Uncross those arms, sit back, open up your chair to the room. Etc. This combined with IO could get you some strangers come up to you and say hi. If your conversational skills are good already, IO is a great ice breaker. Personally I find A314 is good for confidence but better in groups rather than alone. It’s a pack leader type effect, which in my opinion loses it’s effect if you’re not in a pack. Whether this pack is your buddies, work colleagues or something else. Read some [Instant Gentleman? Instant Style.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-instant-style/189866) for more about IG, which I love for confidence. It’s dubbed Instant James Bond.

Be careful with things like IJ or TUTH. As you are young if you put too much of this on (your young body produces plenty of androstenone, which actually only really attracts older women!) you could cause your targets to ghost you, or be intimidated of you or the sexual aura around you.

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