# Hello from Curious in Carolina...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [November 12, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802 "2008-11-12T01:45:53Z")\
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**Author:** ![Queen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a4c791/32.png) [@Queen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/1 "2008-11-12T01:45:53Z")

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Hello everybody! I’m a 20 year old female from North Cackalacky and stumbled upon this site when I was looking for a torrent file. I’ve always been interested in more “natural” enhancers, like using a mineral stick for deodorant, mineral cosmetics, toothpaste with aloe vera, burt’s bees products, and other things of that nature. Needless to say, this site/concept got my attention.

:rolleyes: I’ve never had much trouble talking/flirting with people (unless the boy is incredibly cute, and then I can barely remember my name), but I’ve never felt like I was really attractive. I normally don’t wear perfumes, though I love the natural smells Demeter produces, so I’m not looking for a pheromone that I’d have to cover up because it smells funky by itself. I want to be able to immediatly attract males but not intimidate women, also I’d like to seem more confident. 🆒

I’m a college student, so I’m pretty limited in what I can buy (though hopefully, I’ll get a $25 giftcard so I can start trying this stuff out) 😃 Well, that’s my story. I have a couple questions, hopefully you guys will have the answers.

-What will attract men, but not intimidate women?  
and will it make me appear more confident?

-Which can be worn by itself?

-What bottle/size is the best deal?  
and how long (roughly) will it last me?

Also, if anyone knows…  
What perfume scents will it mix best with? Vanilla? Coconut? Gin&Tonic?

Thanks everyone! I look forward to meeting you all and learning more about the effects of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/)!

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**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 1:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/2 "2008-11-12T01:57:21Z")

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hi queen,

welcome to the forum.  
as i am not a women i can’t answer all your questions but i am sure the ladys here will give you all the answers you need.  
For general attraction and confidence you might want to try a Instant Sexiness variant or Lust after Me for a stronger sexual vibe.  
For confidence [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is very good, too - it also makes people around you happy. MX135 is good to make you the center of attraction.  
To enhance your mood and for calming effects IFM is a good product.

To see which products and effects are available for women read this post:

> [@Womens Pheromone Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258):
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> Revised for 2010/11 Ok ladies here is the start of my pheromone guide you asked for. I will be adding to it but I wanted to post something to get it started. (Mens guide located in the “Pheromone theory” sticky section) When posting about your pheromone experiences please try to add the dose on the bottle. How much you used and where you sprayed it on your body. This makes it easier for Jas and others to figure out what works and what doesnt and why. Due to Androtics no longer being able to …

-all products can be worn alone (but combining is recommended for best effects)  
-the 30ml bottles give you more content for your bucks / the to-gos have the advantage that you can take them with you

- to-gos last about 40 sprays / big bottles last about 200 sprays  
-stadard smell for most products is neroli which is citrus-like but it mixes well with most perfumes

have fun here  
magnum

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**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 1:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/3 "2008-11-12T01:58:59Z")

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Hey Queen,

Definitely keep up the ‘natural’ enhancers if that is what you are interested in. Pheromones can be used to enhance what you are already doing.

As for making yourself feel sexy, look at [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). According to the Women’s Pheromone sticky, it will make you feel strong, sexy and confident. Sounds like it’s right up your alley. Not sure if ISexiness needs to be covered, myself.

Alternatively, you might want to check out Lust after me, too. Which is less about making you feel sexy, but making _him_ feel you’re sexy–and subsequently chasing after you.

> [@Instant Sexiness vs Lust after me](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-vs-lust-after-me/83):
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> Dear Michael, Could you please elaborate a bit as to what the difference is between: [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) Lust after me Are they pretty much the same but with “Lust after me” having more copulins in them?

That is a good thread to read on those two pheromones.

ISexiness, as indicated, will make you feel more confident. But if you want a standalone pheromone that will do that, look at IShine. Does exactly that and is a gender neutral pheromone that is frequently used to enhance a mix.

I think the spray bottles are roughly equivalent in pricing. I know lots of people get To Gos at first to try out the pheromones, then upgrade to the full blown bottles. One thing to remember is that the To Gos have a smaller dose than the full 30ml bottles. Going along with the ‘best deal’ and efficiency, you will also want to consider strength of pheromones; some pheromones come in stronger varieties, IShine for example.

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**Author:** ![Queen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a4c791/32.png) [@Queen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 3:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/4 "2008-11-12T03:04:32Z")

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**Thanks for the quick feedback guys!**

**I’m going to try out these pheromones around boys that I already like but can’t quite seem to make that clear to them. I’m hoping it will encourage them to make the first move. I really like the idea of [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)! Though, is it possible to apply too much?**

**I noticed there are different strengths- does that also effect the actual smell of the pheromone?**

**Also, just for the ladies…  
What do you wear to hide the smell of the copulins?**

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**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 3:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/5 "2008-11-12T03:44:12Z")

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> [@Queen](#):
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> …\*\* **I really like the idea of Instant Shine! Though, is it possible to apply too much?**
> 
> **I noticed there are different strengths- does that also effect the actual smell of the pheromone?**  
> **…**

You can wear quite a bit of Ishine without bad effects. It may give inexperienced users a headache or put them to sleep though.

Higher strengths will smell more strongly to people who can detect the pheromone components. Ability to smell pheromones varies widely.

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 5:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/6 "2008-11-12T05:06:16Z")

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Hello Queen and welcome to the forum.

You must really be in North Cackalackey because only people who live there say that … lol. We are getting quite a NC contigent here … are you brave enough to say what college you are going to? If not - that is OK - I understand - I am way past college days myself … lol. But I will say college is a great place to use and experiment with pheromones. A lot of our users are in college.

I know the women’s products pretty well but I generally do not give recommendations but prefer to leave that to the experts - the many women here on the site. I will say however that you have been given some pretty good advice so far. I do not know about intimidating women, but a great women’s product for attracting men and feeling confident is Instant Sexy A. For a social product [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) was a great recommendation.

Any of the products can be worn by themselves. It just depends on what effects you want them to have. In fact we recommend wearing each one by itself a bit first to see what effects they have first a what dosage before you combine them with others.

The most economical route in the long run is to get the 30 ml bottle size. They have 200 sprays. They last according to usage. Some products come in 2X and 4X strength. I generally order them in as strong a strength as possible for further long term savings but then again I am not on a student budget which I know can be tight.

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**Author:** ![Queen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a4c791/32.png) [@Queen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 5:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/7 "2008-11-12T05:44:36Z")

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I’m currently too shy to say what college specifically, but once I get more familiar with the community I’ll open up.

I like what I’ve heard about [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/), does anyone know if the product is still available?

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 5:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/8 "2008-11-12T05:50:22Z")

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I think it is but it is a special order and you have to get it in the larger 30 ml size. But a great product …

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**Author:** ![Queen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a4c791/32.png) [@Queen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 6:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/9 "2008-11-12T06:19:24Z")

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Originally posted by bosshank:

> [@](#):
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> a great product

What experiences have you had with it?  
Or rather, what experiences have you had with the women who wore it? 😉

lol

speaking of which…  
Where are the ladies on this forum?  
😕😕😕

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**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\
**Post date:** [November 12, 2008, 6:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/10 "2008-11-12T06:32:18Z")

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I do not know where the ladies are - well it is late for a lot of them. I saw Remmy come and go but she is in Med School and obviously has to study a lot. Selva is also in school in Quebec. And a lot of the other ladies work so given the hour …

IS/a or IS/b - it depends on your personality and somewhat on the personality of the guy. IS/a is a slightly more aggressive mix. If that is you, great. IS/b on the other hand can make more aggressive guys want to put you under their arm, protect you and … At least that is how it is for me with Mrs. BH.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 10:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/11 "2008-11-13T10:50:42Z")

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> [@Queen](#):
>
> Hello everybody! I’m a 20 year old female from North Cackalacky and stumbled upon this site when I was looking for a torrent file. I’ve always been interested in more “natural” enhancers, like using a mineral stick for deodorant, mineral cosmetics, toothpaste with aloe vera, burt’s bees products, and other things of that nature. Needless to say, this site/concept got my attention.
> 
> 🙄 I’ve never had much trouble talking/flirting with people (unless the boy is incredibly cute, and then I can barely remember my name), but I’ve never felt like I was really attractive. I normally don’t wear perfumes, though I love the natural smells Demeter produces, so I’m not looking for a pheromone that I’d have to cover up because it smells funky by itself. I want to be able to immediatly attract males but not intimidate women, also I’d like to seem more confident. 🆒
> 
> I’m a college student, so I’m pretty limited in what I can buy (though hopefully, I’ll get a $25 giftcard so I can start trying this stuff out) 😃 Well, that’s my story. I have a couple questions, hopefully you guys will have the answers.
> 
> -What will attract men, but not intimidate women?  
> and will it make me appear more confident?
> 
> -Which can be worn by itself?
> 
> -What bottle/size is the best deal?  
> and how long (roughly) will it last me?
> 
> Also, if anyone knows…  
> What perfume scents will it mix best with? Vanilla? Coconut? Gin&Tonic?
> 
> Thanks everyone! I look forward to meeting you all and learning more about the effects of pheromones!

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 😃

All of the consumer products and MX’s can be worn as stand alones. Putatives and experimones are more for mixing and steering.

To-go bottles have 40 sprays. It depends on your dosage (which you would have to experiment with because its different for everyone) on how long it will last. They effects after spraying are 4 to 6 hours With oil based products like LAM its more like 12 to 15 hours.

[Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A is great for attracting both men and women. Men more sexually women more friendly.

Most products come in neroli and it blends with anything.

Isexiness B will be back in stock as soon as the copulins that go in it are done. Should be soon. You dont have to special order it anymore it will be in the store when its in stock.

Hiding the smell of cops can be tricky. The key is to apply then then wait for them to dry down for about 10 to 15 minutes then cover. This prevent bleed threw of the scent.

I suggest you look into Isexiness MX135 IH and Ishine.

**Your GC is on its way** 😃

I hope to talk with you in the forum

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Queen](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/q/a4c791/32.png) [@Queen](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Queen)\
**Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 4:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-curious-in-carolina/22802/12 "2008-11-13T16:41:35Z")

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Wow! Thanks for answering all my questions so thoroughly! I can’t wait to try these out!

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day 🙂

Queen
