# hello from DE **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 10, 2008, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711 "2008-11-10T00:06:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Cornadious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Cornadious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cornadious)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 12:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/1 "2008-11-10T00:06:57Z")
Hello there, My name is Charles, I’m male, and I am 24. I live in Delaware U.S.A. I found this website when I went to look to see if [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) actually work. I am new to pheromones, and am hoping to see if they can help me out in my relationship. Its a serious relationship and we have been going out for a little over 2 years. I wouldn’t say our sex life is BAD,(in fact its quite good), but it doesn’t seem like she is much into it. She wants sex, but when it gets down to it she doesn’t seem to want to participate. I love her very much, and I would like more attention from her as well, not just in bed. Thats all I can think of to say at the moment, but if you got any questions feel free to ask me. I would love to be able to get the most out of this forum. ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/2 "2008-11-10T00:19:35Z")
hi cornadious, welcome to the forum - good to have you here! turn up the heat would be good to spice up your relationship - it leads to increased sexual affection. Please have a look at instant female magic too, which makes women feel at ease and relaxed if she is moody. For general attention there are a few more good products (like instant shine which makes women want to touch you or instant honesty which enhances feelings of closeness and intimacy) but we can give you better recommendations if you tell us more about certain situations you want to improve. please read this post to see which kinds of effects are possible: > [@Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168): > > Revised for 2010/11 Common question thread Ok I had to put the guide in this section of the forum because the men’s have way to many stickies now and I didn’t want to add another there. So anyways I got quite a few requests to do a men’s guide and I am flattered but want you to all know upfront that without all the wonderful postings on pheromones by the experienced men I would never been able to write this. Men’s Pheromone guide I have gotten a few requests for a men’s Pheromone guide an… have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![Cornadious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Cornadious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cornadious)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/3 "2008-11-10T00:30:11Z")
thanks for the welcome. i have been looking at those exact products that you mentioned. they look pretty promising. well the certain situations that i wish to improve are ones in the bed and just when we are together. I love her very much and i know she loves me as well. when we are in bed i do all the work. E.I. turning her on, touching her, things like that(even the act of sex). so i am hoping to get something that will make her feel more turned on and want to actually participate. so she will touch me and try and turn me on. and when not in bed her mind sometimes seems to be elsewhere or she doesn’t seem to pay enough attention to me(i admi i am an attention whore when it comes to my g/f). she doesn’t seem moody or anything like that. ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/4 "2008-11-10T00:44:26Z")
ok - if she’s not moody you can skip Female Magic. To draw her attention [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) should do the job. It s a great product for daily wear and aside from the attractive aura it gives off it also leads to increased looks from other ladys - so your girlfriend will be reminded what a great guy you are. 🆒 ---
**Author:** ![Vespero](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/vespero/32/988_2.png) [@Vespero](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Vespero)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 12:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/5 "2008-11-10T00:47:18Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk, Cornadious. Glad to have you here. I would probably have suggested the same things as magnum, particularly after your response, except maybe with the addition of Ammo, which will draw her attention both in and out of bed. However, I would also have to say that pheros can’t solve the entire problem. Have you tried talking to her about it or asking her why she doesn’t seem very involved during sex? Maybe she just doesn’t realize you want to be touched. I hope this turns out very well for you, by the way. Good luck! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 2:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/6 "2008-11-10T02:43:01Z")
Hello Charles and welcome to the forum. You have had some good suggestions here but you might want to take a different tack … In addition to Ammo, TUTH, IShine or IFM - all good recommendations - for exactly the reasons listed above, I would also consider IH. IH helps with feelings of connection and might help her go from merely a “willing” participant to a very interested participant which is hwat I think you are lloking for. I hope this helps. ---
**Author:** ![Cornadious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Cornadious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cornadious)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 3:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/7 "2008-11-10T03:48:46Z")
thank you for all the great suggestions. and yes i do know that pheromones cant do all the work. i think what it is with her is that she wants sex but she isn’t horny. and because she isn’t horny she doesn’t want to do anything to get sex. cause when she actually is horny she actually touches me and does stuff to me. and she knows i love to be touched. so its not a matter of her not knowing. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/8 "2008-11-10T03:50:54Z")
I think the main products we have mentioned will do you well. Ammo for daily wear, TUTH when things are shifting in that direction, IH to help her feel more connected to you and more into it … ---
**Author:** ![Cornadious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Cornadious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cornadious)\ **Post date:** [November 10, 2008, 4:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/9 "2008-11-10T04:12:35Z")
thank you i will have to try that combination ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2008, 2:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/10 "2008-11-11T02:58:15Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 Great suggestions from the members. Lets prioritize a little though. TUTH is great in the bed room to arouse her. I wouldn’t use it all day though just for when you know things can get intimate. AMMO would be for all day use to sort of start a long slow arousal. Kinda like the pre show LOL IFM is for last minute resistance, Its calming and comforting. Helps ease them into situations they are resistant about. IH will give you a close connected vibe, Women love that feeling it turns us on. Ishine is upbeat warm and charismatic. You may want to test out [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/), Its not under the guarantee but its one of the more popular putatives. Seductive, uninhibited go’s great with sexual mixes. **Your GC is on its way 😃** Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Cornadious](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/aeb1de/32.png) [@Cornadious](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cornadious)\ **Post date:** [November 13, 2008, 4:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/hello-from-de/22711/11 "2008-11-13T04:12:59Z")
thank you for the input. i have ordered myself some TUTH. it should get here soon. i will let you guys know how it goes. 🙂