hi cornadious,
welcome to the forum - good to have you here!
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For general attention there are a few more good products (like instant shine which makes women want to touch you or instant honesty which enhances feelings of closeness and intimacy) but we can give you better recommendations if you tell us more about certain situations you want to improve.
please read this post to see which kinds of effects are possible:
have fun here
magnum